Noe123 thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Today Armaan promised to Riddhima that he would never lie to her but he is hiding the truth about her being adopted. Seems that this truth will cause problem between them in future.

To avoid any problems in the future, Armaan should ask for Riddhima's advice taking a friend's name, i.e. one of his friend has come to know that his girlfriend is an adopted child and the girlfriend doesn't know about it. Should the friend tell his girlfriend or not? He should try to know what is Riddhima's opinion about this matter. He should try to explain why his friend doesn't want to tell his girlfriend. This way Riddhima will see his friend's (Armaan's) point and may be they will have some arguments if their opinions differ but at least both will talk. In future, when Riddhima comes to know the truth and the fact that Armaan knew about it, she will know that Armaan was talking about her and she will already know why he didn't want to tell her. This understanding will avoid any problems between them.

What do you guys say?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I think that's a solution ...
Armaan can do that ... but anyways, he has asked Atul, who is adopted and he knows he doesnt want to tell Riddhima himself. He treats her normally and the only way he wants Riddhima to know is by her father.
The promise that he gave was not to lie to her ... he didnt promise to tell her everything that he knew.... so, only if Riddhima asks about her adoption will Armaan answer na! Before that he might not say anything whatsoever 😳
Edited by kanak1309 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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well i m happy he made taht promise....
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I agree with Kanak, twisting a truth is a lie, and a truth not told until asked, is not a lie...

Armaan did think about the truth he heard the moment she asked for a promise which shows he is aware of what he was promising and his stand on it..!

Ridzy will be hurt that Armaan knew about it... and possibly might blame him for not telling her, but she will have to understand that knowing the truth from her Dad was the best thing that could have happened in her favor ... and Armaan will be able to explain that to her! 😊
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Posted: 18 years ago
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But I honestly dont think Armaan should tell her about it... coz that would only lead to a lot more issues, that may not rise if she gets to know that from her dad and her mom Padma...

And sometimes issues about adoption should be revealed by the parents themselves and may be not... coz the kids do feel , not knowing abt it... would have made things seem a lot different a lot normal possibly..!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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yeah... I agree Sareeta ...

btw, I don't think Riddhima will be mad at Armaan when she comes to know that Armaan knew this and didnt tell her. This is because at that moment she will be more angry that her father had kept this truth from her for a long time (23 years I think).
Armaan's keeping the truth is just for a little while ... just 23 days maybe...right?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Yeah, this will be the next misunderstanding between the two...By hiding the truth, I'm sure Ridz will be upset...but its not Armaan's truth to tell...its not his place...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i think armaan shud forbore from mentioning anything abt this to ridzi..by chance if she gets to know te bitter truth of her life from armaan ,she will thnk he lied to her.
if he doesnt tell her,and she gets to know that he knows,she would again be shattered and blame armaan for not telling her the truth.

armaan ko toh blame lena hhi padega..no 2 thoughts abt it.
i just hope their "friendship" withstands it.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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its gona be best if armaans keeps it shut 😆
but it might be lil hard.. 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: geet

i think armaan shud forbore from mentioning anything abt this to ridzi..by chance if she gets to know te bitter truth of her life from armaan ,she will thnk he lied to her.
if he doesnt tell her,and she gets to know that he knows,she would again be shattered and blame armaan for not telling her the truth.

armaan ko toh blame lena hhi padega..no 2 thoughts abt it.
i just hope their "friendship" withstands it.



yeah, poor armaan is between a rock and a hard place....either way, Armaan's gonna upset Ridz whether he tells the truth or not...man, he really was in the wrong place, wrong time...

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