hiiii all my siddhimaholics
i knw dat u all must be as depressed as i was till a few minutes ago but I'm not anymore......i felt like a fool on loving a couple that neva had love, sidma felt like a big joke played on us, i felt sooo stupid!! but now i've realised that ther's nothing like that....this "happy" end does not have the capacity to ruin SR.....nothing in fact can affect the beauty of SR, the story that they were.....two complete strangers, broken inside, breathing but not living, soo lost.....fate jus threw them to each other without a warning n what initially seemed to be a disaster turned to be the start of a new, beautiful life together....a second chance to love, a second to life.....n who says ridz doesn't love sid??? if at all they have seen a single SR scene honestly they wud see what they shared.....it was true love n much much more than that.....trust, respect, care, understanding, friendship, u name it and they had it.......they were imperfectly perfect and that was what made them soo special....what i like most about SR is that it was not a one-sided kind of thing in any way.....if sid has seen the worst of ridz, when she was crazzy lukin for armaan then even ridz has tolerated unreasonable behavior of sid.....the both handle each other sooo well.....they have have given equally to make the marriage work
i personally have really enjoyed being a part of SR fan group as we had some of the most wise people on the forum....SR were based on such a touching concept of second love, they are emotionally, socially, practically and morally meant to be.....they were so REAL n DMG CVs have done a greatt job in makin SR if only they also had the guts to stick to this bold n beautiful concept of second law, if only they had the courage to break their two year long AR to show them living happily as A and R in ArSh and SR, it would have been a milestone achieved in Indian Television, one person can love two people in one life, its totally human....but that's a different story all together.....its very very shallow n senseless but that's how it works in TV shows i guess, u started with AR n so u have to end with them bcos otherwise all the dupattas dat flied, all the riddhimas that changed for AR romance to go on will luk like a waste....once the deadline is given n u r forced to shut shop, it all boils down to the fact that u have to make the end look "happy"....its pretty sad but that's how it works and we have to put up with it.....but at the end of the day we all very well knew that there was no way out of the whole quadrangle mess dmg was in....there was no possible ending that could make everyone happy.....it was an irreversible kinda situation n it' was too late to convincingly undo mistakes.
the very day SRians fell in love with this couple, they knew that SR were not the main lead couple of the show, there could easily be a day when all moments, scenes, feelings that SR had will conveniently be ignored in the most senseless manner SR will be jus separated so as to "unite" the show's first couple....but the thing that remains is that all these last minute commercial decisions for the satisfaction of the majority are not capable of making SR lose their beauty, I've seen SR, i understand them n so i knw that what they shared cannot be described in words.....i have enjoyed watching them and have learnt a lot frm them, learnt a lot frm all the amazing SR fans on the forum, their well-written posts n intelligent analysis......
SR have taught me that life's neva over.....when things r totally hopeless n nothing seems right, life throws in a big surprise n everything falls into place.....a person's love is so strong that it can rebuild a completely shattered soul piece by piece n give sum1 a new life like sid's love did to ridz.....jus have the courage to give love another chance like ridz did, give all that u can to a relationship with honesty and sincerity like both of them did and life is sure to become a beautiful dream.......its never the end
and all these things that SR have given me cannot be taken away by any amount of ''endings'' n ''c-nights'' n ''re-unions''
SR rock n so do SRians......i will really really miss everything n everyone
Do share ur views
Shilpa
Edited by Shilpa.Agarwal - 15 years ago