the notion of Armaan getting forced to move on

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ever since the new promo came out, actually no. For past 2-3 weeks every AR fan has been screaming on top of her lungs " you can't make him do anything he doesn't want. Moving on from Riddhima is impossible"

Then every AR fan was overjoyed as they felt Riddhima didn't move on with Sid because she is still in love with Armaan.

Of course all the show dialogues told us other wise. Riddhima has proved it over and over again she is happy with Sid. Sid no longer questions Riddhima's feelings for Armaan. And Armaan just sulks because she cares for Sid over him. Sid is A to her while he is Z. (that is not true but he feels that way because Sid means so much to her)

We have a way of remembering the latest episodes and forgetting the old ones. Actually some of us don't even remember that much. When Riddhima moved in to Sid's house she was okay. She wasn't ready to jump into bed with him right away but she was fine with romancing. She did her naughty morning romance with her wet hair on Sid's face, she brought him breakfast in bed (well sofa) with a rose, she went to crappy funny dates that she loved and later remembered with a smile in her face, she thought of him. She even romanced him in the hospital. It was not a shy romance, she was happy to be with Sid. When her birthday rolled around she only wanted to spend time with Sid. In the locker room she had fun as Sid talked about the kiss.

That was the last time she was without worry

When Armaan returned it was clear he was on a path to self destruction and she put him there. He got drunk it was because of her. He is fighting again and still fighting it is because of her. And now he might be with a girl who in her eyes in not stable. She is immature and not responsible and she will ruin Armaan. How on earth is Riddhima suppose to be happy in a time like this?

So when Sid screamed that Riddhima is not moving on this is what he meant. She is stopping herself from being happy because Armaan is miserable. Sid and Riddhima understand Armaan needs time to move on. No one is telling him to find a new girl and settle tomorrow. The idea only came into Sid's head because according to Shilpa that's how Armaan can move on. All he needs to do is stop ruining himself. I hate how everyone is using the line " they have no right to tell Armaan what he can do". They are his friends and they care for him. If he is on a path to ruin himself then they have every right to nudge him toward the right direction. If that's not what friends are for then all of you have the wrong kind of friends.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ditto ditto ditto!!!

Awesome and beautifully written down post. All the valid reasons are included and summed up beautifully👏👏👏👏

I have nothing to add or say but agreed wholeheartedly!!!



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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thats so, so, so perfectly said. Sid and Riddhima care deeply about Armaan, and it hurts them to see him hurting himself deliberately. Its not like tey want him to wipe his slate clean in overnight and forget about everything, but they do want him to stop hurting himself and make an attempt to heal. Because his pain hurts them, because they care for him, because they're his friends.

Lovely, lovely, lovely post !!

-Aditi
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Posted: 15 years ago
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brilliant post..trust me ul not get many logical replies from AR fans because ur post is simply irrefutable..great job done :)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: pavs

brilliant post..trust me ul not get many logical replies from AR fans because ur post is simply irrefutable..great job done :)



afcourse.. but wen one of them comes.. all the chamchis will run behind😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i love ur siggy cheekybum...
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Fatima awesome post yaar!!!! it is soo well written, i don't have anything to add to it!!! always we can count on you, to write such sensible and so well explained posts about whats happening!!!! thank you


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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am an AR fan and I am one of those people who think Riddhima is sort of emotionally blackmailing Armaan which is not required...
I still don't know if Riddhima is jealous or it is just concern on her part that Armaan might be getting close to a girl who has not been able to impress Riddhima as a mature and capable person... The way she thought abt all her scenes with shilpa and then the Arshi scene makes me think it could be concern... although I would think it will be very natural even if there is a slight jealousy on her part because I think even if you have moved on, the first time you see the guy you madly loved for 3 years with another girl will definitely prick you... which is the only reason I have still not been able to decide if she is jealous or just concerned or a combination....
and I think either way this doesn't mean anything more than one more step in their moving on process... because although I would have loved for an AR ending ... the way the story is going I don't see any way how she can now go back to Armaan... so I don't think that there are any chances of her going back to Armaan because seeing him with another girl will make her realise etc... I think the tracks are now SR and Arsh.... and so I don't think ultimately whether it is jealousy or concern or both it doesn't matter because finally R will realise S is a nice girl and she will also be happy... but yeah I do think Riddhima should not ask Armaan promises of forgetting her, hurting himself etc... Armaan's fighting was something that was a part of him.. it is not a new thing... and while he got into it accidentally because of Shilpa trying to get back at him... may be he found an outlet for all the pain and frustration that is there in him..... it may not be the most healthy way of handling things,,,, but he has been there before and he is capable of handling it ( I mean the street fighting part).... and Riddhima putting herself in situations where they have to work together in an attempt to get Armaan to move on etc are totally unnecessary and will produce only the opposite effect.... and fixing up a girl for him is also not required.. and if Sid shouted at him for the street fighting that would also have been fine... because I think irrespective of whether R si there or not Sidmaan have a beautiful bond and they do have the right to scold or scream at each other... I think both of them have earned that right... But... my only problem is with Sid holding Armaan responsible for Riddhima's condition... or the condition of SR's marriage.. that is something SR needs to work on and Armaan shouldn't come into it at all.... that was the only thing I disliked in the promo.... although I honestly think SR should just give Armaan space and time and he will move on..... and Shilpa is any way poking and pordding and slowly making Armaan get out of his zombie mode....
And just one more thing.... I think it is unfair to call what Armaan is going through as his sulking because she cares more for Sid!!!!!
Edited by solembaum - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Fantastic post fatz , totally agree with you. A friend is allowed to be concerned especially when he was part of her past, Sid knws him better then Ridz does this has bin shown time and time again. If both husband and wife want their FRIEND to move on and be happy then whats the problem. Ridz may not like shilpa yet but she will soon , all of ridz memory of shilpa is bad so how do yu expect her to react when sid suggest shilpa?.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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We have a way of remembering the latest episodes and forgetting the old ones. Actually some of us don't even remember that much. When Riddhima moved in to Sid's house she was okay. She wasn't ready to jump into bed with him right away but she was fine with romancing. She did her naughty morning romance with her wet hair on Sid's face, she brought him breakfast in bed (well sofa) with a rose, she went to crappy funny dates that she loved and later remembered with a smile in her face, she thought of him. She even romanced him in the hospital. It was not a shy romance, she was happy to be with Sid. When her birthday rolled around she only wanted to spend time with Sid. In the locker room she had fun as Sid talked about the kiss.

such an eye-opener post......i wish ppl never frgt all dis riddhima's reactions n stop calling hr confused soul.....n js realize hr concern is js as a good frnd.......lol

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