i have two issues with sid and rids...

hey all
i have two issues to discuss....
the first is why exactly did sid hide his wedding from his mother??? to not give her pareshaani? i don't understand what he got out of it? his mum insulted rids which he clearly does not like, he got into a mess with naina and yuvi.....and most importantly he hurt his mum!!! how can someone hide their own wedding for like three whole weeks from their mother and lie to her so blatantly?????

my second issue is i am seeing that if rids gets back with armaan many of you wll have a problem with it.....there are various reasons you cite including sid's sacrifices for her and the instituition of marriage and mockery of commitment.....my question is if a girl wants to get back to her soulmate and her husband is okay with it why can't she???? why is it so wrong to want to go back to the man you love yaar???? a person is entitled to their own choices irrespective of society and common norms.......wanting to go back to armaan does not make rids immoral or characterless in any way according to me.....

i posted this today as a lot of threads are going along peacefully and can we do that here also???

love
sumedha

*edited*
i see you guys replying to the second question only......please whoever replies gimme ur view on the first question too....

Originally posted by: ~sumedha~

hey all
i have two issues to discuss....
the first is why exactly did sid hide his wedding from his mother??? to not give her pareshaani? i don't understand what he got out of it? his mum insulted rids which he clearly does not like, he got into a mess with naina and yuvi.....and most importantly he hurt his mum!!! how can someone hide their own wedding for like three whole weeks from their mother and lie to her so blatantly?????

my second issue is i am seeing that if rids gets back with armaan many of you wll have a problem with it.....there are various reasons you cite including sid's sacrifices for her and the instituition of marriage and mockery of commitment.....my question is if a girl wants to get back to her soulmate and her husband is okay with it why can't she???? why is it so wrong to want to go back to the man you love yaar???? a person is entitled to their own choices irrespective of society and common norms.......wanting to go back to armaan does not make rids immoral or characterless in any way according to me.....

i posted this today as a lot of threads are going along peacefully and can we do that here also???

love
sumedha

my question is if a girl wants to get back to her soulmate and her husband is okay with it why can't she???

exactly! my answer is she is no longer the same girl who was madly in love. She wants to move on in life.

i agree....i know marriage is a sacred institution...but love is sacred too.....
n rids being an independent women has the right to divorce

If the girl wants to go back to her x, and doesn't love the husband, she is free to leave him :)

But it's not the case with Ridz.. As she has started falling for her husband :D

Yeah!Ridz still luv's Armaan n she has right to go bak to her luver.
Sid did wrong by hiding the truth from his mom n Armaan too!he bakstabbed him his mom is after all his mom she can forgive him but Armaan though he is his frnd but he befrnded him.

@shamil
move on?? can she? maybe she cud if armaan didn't come back but now with armaan part of her everyday life, every brush of his hand, every collision with him, every walk past the fire escape, every time she looks into his eyes she is gonna lose herself in his love....just like she did here.....

Originally posted by: ~sumedha~

@shamil
move on?? can she? maybe she cud if armaan didn't come back but now with armaan part of her everyday life, every brush of his hand, every collision with him, every walk past the fire escape, every time she looks into his eyes she is gonna lose herself in his love....just like she did here.....

well said😳

Originally posted by: choco_pie92

i agree....i know marriage is a sacred institution...but love is sacred too.....
n rids being an independent women has the right to divorce

thank you....let her take her own decisions....why does she have to keep bothering about what will everybody think???

Originally posted by: ~sumedha~

hey all
i have two issues to discuss....
the first is why exactly did sid hide his wedding from his mother??? to not give her pareshaani? i don't understand what he got out of it? his mum insulted rids which he clearly does not like, he got into a mess with naina and yuvi.....and most importantly he hurt his mum!!! how can someone hide their own wedding for like three whole weeks from their mother and lie to her so blatantly?????

my second issue is i am seeing that if rids gets back with armaan many of you wll have a problem with it.....there are various reasons you cite including sid's sacrifices for her and the instituition of marriage and mockery of commitment.....my question is if a girl wants to get back to her soulmate and her husband is okay with it why can't she???? why is it so wrong to want to go back to the man you love yaar???? a person is entitled to their own choices irrespective of society and common norms.......wanting to go back to armaan does not make rids immoral or characterless in any way according to me.....

i posted this today as a lot of threads are going along peacefully and can we do that here also???

love
sumedha

Originally posted by: ~sumedha~

thank you....let her take her own decisions....why does she have to keep bothering about what will everybody think???

exactly.....marriage is sacred...but it doesnt remain sacred when its just a compromise