Waiting for Riddhima's TRANSFORMATION.... - Page 2

its all coz of the change in da story writer...

😆 What's that now??

That's REAL Ridz only.. As she herself took Arman's name in the car, and she didn't forget her past, still she's loving this new chap.. Sid😳😳😳😳

There is nothing called New Ridhima etc etc, it's just that, she's got some new feelings, like shaadiwala pyar😳😳

Love it😃

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

I loved your previous post and I completely agree with you.

As much as I have tried to understand this confused character, it seems to me that she blocks Armaan out of her mind when she has to. Its like she can't hold on to the pain of accepting that he's not in her life anymore. When she thought Armaan had left her because of her disability, she just conveniently forgot him. We questioned as to whether she even loved Armaan but we all saw how BALLISTIC she went when she found out the truth. All those suppressed emotions just came out in the craziest way possible. Then when it finally hit her that she won't ever find him, her marriage with Sid happened and she conveniently forgot Armaan then too! She was willing to give her relationship with Sid a chance because it was the practical thing to do. Why didn't these feelings come before their marriage?? It was all out of convenience IMO!

Armaan just does something to her insides. ROFL! She blocks him out of her mind because she can't bare the pain. He has this freaky affect on her which is why it has to be Armaan and Riddhima.

Becoz every relationship needs time.. And in India, it's still that Arranged marriage which is more appreciated.. there also people don't hold any feelings for each other before marriage in most of the cases, still they fall in love after wedding😊..

It's not only convenience, but loving one's husband gives the feelings of safety, security, maturity, understandings and unadulterated love.. 😃It's something heavenly.. As marriage happens in heaven😃

Not just in India, arranged marriages are respected in many countries 😊 But this wasn't an arranged marriage, it was a forced marriage which under the given circumstances had to happen apparently even though it seemed bizarre that an educated girl like Riddhima was 'forced' to marry someone because of pressure from society. But thats a different story anyway...!

Haha! If all marriages were made in heaven toh divorces hi nahi hote 😛 The fact is that Armaan still has more of an affect on her than anyone else despite the fact that shes married! Surely she shouldn't have these feelings if she is getting the security, safey and understanding from her husband 😊

But I saw that Ridz never responded to Arman's hug.. She's done what exactly she's expected to do..

And many educated girls are forced to get married under pressure.. tht is nothing new😃 She's got the feelings from her inside for Sid.. tht's why her smile disappeared when she saw Arman.. and that smile was for her hubby😳 That's Sid effect..

Well how do you expect her to react?? As Jenni said, on one side the love of her life has returned and on the other side she knows shes married. There is a lot going through her mind right now...maybe too much for her to actually react to anything.

I do think she will choose Sid first however but when Armaan is infront of her, kuch toh asar hoga 😉

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

I loved your previous post and I completely agree with you.

As much as I have tried to understand this confused character, it seems to me that she blocks Armaan out of her mind when she has to. Its like she can't hold on to the pain of accepting that he's not in her life anymore. When she thought Armaan had left her because of her disability, she just conveniently forgot him. We questioned as to whether she even loved Armaan but we all saw how BALLISTIC she went when she found out the truth. All those suppressed emotions just came out in the craziest way possible. Then when it finally hit her that she won't ever find him, her marriage with Sid happened and she conveniently forgot Armaan then too! She was willing to give her relationship with Sid a chance because it was the practical thing to do. Why didn't these feelings come before their marriage?? It was all out of convenience IMO!

Armaan just does something to her insides. ROFL! She blocks him out of her mind because she can't bare the pain. He has this freaky affect on her which is why it has to be Armaan and Riddhima.

@ Topic maker and Reemz...I Loved both of ur post. I myself despite of being mad at Ridz...Did actually seem to wonder the same today.

i really truly hope so

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Becoz every relationship needs time.. And in India, it's still that Arranged marriage which is more appreciated.. there also people don't hold any feelings for each other before marriage in most of the cases, still they fall in love after wedding😊..

It's not only convenience, but loving one's husband gives the feelings of safety, security, maturity, understandings and unadulterated love.. 😃It's something heavenly.. As marriage happens in heaven😃

But what you fail to remember is that she was happiest on her ROKA day....when she and Armaan were to be married.....there will never be a parallel happiness to that with Sid. And as far feelings of safe, security, and maturity, understaning, and unadulterated love....this is the definition of ARMAAN for Riddhima.....

As far making her marriage work...especially as a result of duty...I agree that she can this happen...but I think she will accept that she has some AFFECTION for SID as a result of their marriage but she will never LOVE Sid the way she loves Armaan...even today.

AFFECTION and LOVE are 2 very different EMOTIONS, as AFFECTION is a SUBSET of LOVE, and LOVE is a culmination of all deep feelings.....including affection.

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

I loved your previous post and I completely agree with you.

As much as I have tried to understand this confused character, it seems to me that she blocks Armaan out of her mind when she has to. Its like she can't hold on to the pain of accepting that he's not in her life anymore. When she thought Armaan had left her because of her disability, she just conveniently forgot him. We questioned as to whether she even loved Armaan but we all saw how BALLISTIC she went when she found out the truth. All those suppressed emotions just came out in the craziest way possible. Then when it finally hit her that she won't ever find him, her marriage with Sid happened and she conveniently forgot Armaan then too! She was willing to give her relationship with Sid a chance because it was the practical thing to do. Why didn't these feelings come before their marriage?? It was all out of convenience IMO!

Armaan just does something to her insides. ROFL! She blocks him out of her mind because she can't bare the pain. He has this freaky affect on her which is why it has to be Armaan and Riddhima.

Looks like you and I think very much alike!!!! Nice to meet you Reemz!!

--Nargis