Sid is crossing his limits, yes. It is wrong, yes . It is unjustified, yes. It is unnatural... NO.
Sid is a good man , alright but he is not a saint. He is like you and me..... we hug when we are touched and we bite when we are stung. It is human nature to be the best in good times and battle your worst in bad times. It has been only three days since Sid married a woman who chose to end her life rather than be with him. The shock , the humiliation , the wounds are still fresh and Sid is still coming to terms with the reality and truth of this marriage. He has not told anyone about what happened - he cannot open his heart to anyone - he cannot even speak to anyone and the beautiful wife who wants to make amends is only a manifestation of fickle emotions and mistrust for him..... Sid has nothing and nobody to fall back on... Riddhima has touched him and stung him so much at the same time that Sid cannot separate himself from her - not even in his pain and anguish.....You stoop to your lowest in your worst.
When you look at Sid humiliate Riddhima in front of everyone by asking her to wipe her shoe.... you rewind to the times when Riddhima raised her hand on Sid, slapped him - when Riddhima got him arrested twice and beaten up by cops, when Riddhima gave in to her ego and did anything and everything to get Sid out of Sanjivani - all those times when she did not trust Sid's innocence and intentions , when she got him labeled a rapist in front of the whole world........strange , isn't it? If this wasn't fiction , you would call it the Circle of Karma.....Riddhima crossed her limits when Sid was genuine and innocent.... today, Sid is crossing his limits when Riddhima is genuine and innocent.
And no. Sid's character is not ruined. He is like any other normal human-being in an extraordinary situation - we all are good , we all are bad and we all border in the ugly in the given situation. Tomorrow , he will melt and wrap Riddhima again in his brand of sunshine blankets....and all this bitterness will dissolve. Riddhima will snuggle up to her returned angel again.
Sid has bound himself to Riddhima and vice versa in a strange painful bond - they boomerang into each-other. So, a hurt and humiliated Sid is not going to keep distance and cry in a corner... he is going to pull her into the fire. Feel bad . Feel humiliated.Feel what i feel. There is no other way i can handle this... i cannot forgive you , i cannot distance you. Stay with me - in the good , in the bad and we shall rise above the ugly...
Siddhant and Riddhimna are not a classic romance or a fairytale. They are a wounded saga of soulmates borne out of pain , hatred , emotional abuse, bruised hearts and vices .... weaving their weeping willow fairytale. They are not a love story. They are a life story and am sure even the creatives don't know that , or do they know?
Before you judge anyone - in fact , in fiction , in life.... always remember just one thing .... we are only HUMAN and we all wear our own pair of shoes.......