Originally posted by: _SuMmEr_LoVe_
When i first looked at viraj🤓 i could instantly tell that it wasn't just an ordinarily case of an alcoholic , drug addict , verbally abusive husband...but of having some kind of personality disorder. Agree, his mood swings were enough to say he is mentally suffering ... He is caring no denying but something in him want everything perfect, want things to be in control of him , want ppl to fear him more than respect ... these are a disturbed persons signs
And after some research i found out its call Obsessive'compulsive personality disorder (OCPD)
- It is characterized by at least three of the following:
- feelings of excessive doubt and caution;
- preoccupation with details, rules, lists, order, organization or schedule;
- perfectionism that interferes with task completion;
- excessive conscientiousness, scrupulousness, and undue preoccupation with productivity to the exclusion of pleasure and interpersonal relationships;
- excessive pedantry and adherence to social conventions;
- rigidity and stubbornness;
- unreasonable insistence by the individual that others submit exactly to his or her way of doing things, or unreasonable reluctance to allow others to do things;
- intrusion of insistent and unwelcome thoughts or impulses.
Some of the main cause to this could include trauma faced during childhood, such as physical, emotional or sexual abuse, or other types of psychological trauma. After watching today's ep its pretty evident that he did have to face some really tought times in his childhood probably due to his parents. Also he may have had a very abusive and father. It also mentions that most people don't even know they suffer from this disorder and they are told they still refuse to believe it ..So far..Viraj has displayed most of these characteristic also you can tell that Viraj does care for Janvi but his disorder gets the best of him . He Needs Help .Anyways for more information you can always check out wiki..
Thanks for sharing this with us , it was pretty obvious he has a past, a person who is doubtful or possessive dont really understand the pain he is giving to others , he just does that to keep things in his control , viraj was and is different , a disturbed person , something which has to be explored properly and cured and not with a wify , please thats pathetic.
Also have to say that 5 epic's into the show... i cant find myself emotionally invested w...like something is missing...Because i can't feel Janvi's pain...though she is a fab actress. I know people who have been in her place and who are still going through this which just breaks my heart and brings me tears but with Janvi can't really feel anything😕 Ur not the only one, she is good but she fails to connect, Viraj yes he is believable ( Iam neither Karan or UD or Prem fan ) , infact seeing him for first time... other than her stumbling and correcting her mistakes, i dont connect or feel sad for her pain ,though as ckt i understand wat they are showing ... they have good chemistry but something is lacking ...