Questions ... CVs I need answers!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: sam123_0

1) WHY HAS MOHAN COME BACK WITHOUT A DEGREE: They are showing that Mohan loves his mom alot... respects her.. cares for her... so what happened that he forgot his goal in UK. Pata nahi when will Cv's answer these questionsbut here's what i thought of these Might help ya clear some confusions😳. They might tell us why or he might have failed( getting involved in other activities) i know a lot of boys from back home who actually came here on study visas and actually never bothered to study or complete the degrees once they get their permanent papers they just leave eit so it's actually used as a bahana to get away from the Original countries get that freedom to come here . From the looks as of now it doesn't look like mohan is back permanently he's eager to go back to london ( remember how he keeps referring London as Mera London) i don't think he ever wants to completely move back. so yeah. Yes he cares yes he loves his mom yes it bothers him but he just doesn't feel like studying can be the reason or might got involved in bad company or maybe the school/college he went too was fraud . I have had a similar case in family so i guess i can relate to it and don't find it completely nonsense. It's very very common. out of 100 not even 50 students actually do finish their degree who come out on visit visas that doesn't mean they don't love their families the situations become way harder. and most fo the time u do have to work and study and the work load just kills and than there r drop puts which is a HUGE number. We have around 50% dropouts ( mostly international students). Now i don't know what cv's have in mind or what reason they will give us but these r just some that come to my mind.

Yesterday he told his mama that he started smoking three years ago... so that means the first year he was ok and then something happened which disturbed him mentally so much that he did not feel the need to finish his degree!! Not Necessarily a tragedy caused him to smoke he;s shown as what 23,24 years old boy come on 3 years ago he was probably a teenager or just entered his 20's It's just Very Normal it doesn't have to have mental trauma behind it. (it sure doesn't look like it. Boys normally do start smoking in this age so i don't find that awkward either. infact i know 15 year olds smoking just like to look cool so it's perfectly normal. i think in mohan's case it's the freedom he got after living his whole life in the house that looks like a prison that made him a rebel he got that azadi that independence that changed his manners and way of living. Quiet Normal. He just doesn't want to associate himself with the Gala's anymore caz he somewhere might be in superior complex thing that HE IS SOMETHING others aren't .

It is not that he has forgotten his mother's love or hardwork but just got strayed away!!! I need to know this asap 😡 It's the Freedom he got noone was there to keep an eye on him and that i think just made him so careless and took his attention away to other things in which he got carried away and forgot the real goal. 😃

2) Saroj has 3 sons is it? If that is the case then why was Vipul not given a chance to NOT sit in that masala shop... or was it after seeing Vipul and his wife suffer... Saroj decided that it was enough and she would not want her second born to suffer similarly! Yes this confused me too and than i thought maybe vipul is the kaka's son? he can be na? and than saroj's elder son is mohan and she wanted him to give everything. no? or if they r Real brothers than i guess i agree with your point. Maybe at vipul's time she was too scared to send him away. maybe she didn't had enough resources or support from her hubby ( caz frankly her hubby loosk way too seedha and darpok to take a stand) even in mohan's case it 's saroj who's taking a stand. But i think it's this and also maybe mohan is more intrested in studies and all. But yeah she just doesn't want him to suffer. He might be the laadla of the house too . i don't know but there's this one child who's maa ka sabse laadla and mom's do tend to give a lil extra love to them and mohan might be the one in the gala family.

3) The 3rd brother.. seems quite normal to me... not scared like Vipul or Champu like Mohan... how come ... Is it bcoz Mohan was always scared of Baapji at home and he became a Champu and Saroj was scared that he might ruin his life and decided to send him... What is the equation between Mohan and Baapji? Could be. but than the little one is a rebel of sorts too he doesn't doesn't give a damn liek yes he gets scared when he's wearing those modern clothes and all in front of baap ji but it looks like he has more confidence and guts than mohan had( he was little too seedha sorts daboo kinds) the chota bro is liek who cares meh i will do whatever i want too sorts and i guess baaji ki nahi chalti on him so yeah.

Originally posted by: -Mausam-

hope this might help ya:)

Originally posted by: sam123_0

Well I agree with your points...

But the education one still bothers me... everyone is saying the same thing... he got sudden freedom after so much restrictions and all that... but my point is... Mohan said "maa ki yaad bahut aati thi" that means he remembered everything she did for him, her love, her sacrifices etc and most importantly... her DREAM of seeing her son with a degree... bcoz she did not want him to go sit in that masala shop and be able to stand up to baapji... not like disrespecting baapji but having an his opinion!!! Bcoz Bhanu does exactly what his father says without questioning and Saroj did not want Mohan to do that...

I guess Mohan will be doing all that ... just he wont have a degree 😛 ... sorry this thing will always bug me 😉.. but I will just accept it now bcoz I know the CVs are going to give a reason like what everyone on this forum is saying!!!