Repercussions

After yesterday's high voltage drama I just want to state few facts with recent scenario that can have serious repercussions.

1. Sia - less said the better about this woman. No doubt why women are doubted for their capabilities and blamed for using their charm to climb the ladder of success. You might have no idea how dangerous your move can be for your life and career. Luring your senior without knowing him fully (because people always have two face ),he can destroy your career and reputation. Remember deepika has to sit at home for 6 months without any fault of her, if such a senior person can go through it then who are you. Even Dr Ali should not be playing along with Sia, he can also have serious repercussion if Sia falsely implicate him. So at work mind your own business, never go into dirty politics.

2. Same goes with Abhay. He is just 25 , a junior resident , you need to submit your MD/MS thesis (whatever you have opted for), get sign on those thesis either from vikrant or Deepika and instead of focusing on his career he is wasting his time and energy in seniors dirty affairs (What deepika -vikrant is doing in their personal space is none of your concerned, you can't moral policing them), stalking a women senior, forcing her and physically abusing a male senior in hospital premises .Are you out of your mind? Don;t you know you can face a departmental inquiry for misconduct, for stalking and sexually harassing a women senior in drunken state. yes deepika can file a departmental complaint as well as into police.You yourself is destroying your career, you can't even imagine what serious repercussion this multiple episodes can have on your life. Your career will be ruined.

3. Both vik-deep do whatever in your personal space atleast don't bring that into hospital, don;t vent out your frustration on juniors, don't sabotage their career, don;t hide serious information from high authority, don;t let your junior fight, don;t make a mockery of this profession. Code of conduct is for everyone, senior people have more responsibility towards maintaining decorum. If you can't handle this mess then better report it to higher authorities but don't escalate the situation.

Ps- this is what happens when you mix personal and professional life, giving room to toxic environment. PC should take the lead.

Originally posted by: Serenity_me

After yesterday's high voltage drama I just want to state few facts with recent scenario that can have serious repercussions.

1. Sia - less said the better about this woman. No doubt why women are doubted for their capabilities and blamed for using their charm to climb the ladder of success. You might have no idea how dangerous your move can be for your life and career. Luring your senior without knowing him fully (because people always have two face ),he can destroy your career and reputation. Remember deepika has to sit at home for 6 months without any fault of her, if such a senior person can go through it then who are you. Even Dr Ali should not be playing along with Sia, he can also have serious repercussion if Sia falsely implicate him. So at work mind your own business, never go into dirty politics.

2. Same goes with Abhay. He is just 25 , a junior resident , you need to submit your MD/MS thesis (whatever you have opted for), get sign on those thesis either from vikrant or Deepika and instead of focusing on his career he is wasting his time and energy in seniors dirty affairs (What deepika -vikrant is doing in their personal space is none of your concerned, you can't moral policing them), stalking a women senior, forcing her and physically abusing a male senior in hospital premises .Are you out of your mind? Don;t you know you can face a departmental inquiry for misconduct, for stalking and sexually harassing a women senior in drunken state. yes deepika can file a departmental complaint as well as into police.You yourself is destroying your career, you can't even imagine what serious repercussion this multiple episodes can have on your life. Your career will be ruined.

3. Both vik-deep do whatever in your personal space atleast don't bring that into hospital, don;t vent out your frustration on juniors, don't sabotage their career, don;t hide serious information from high authority, don;t let your junior fight, don;t make a mockery of this profession. Code of conduct is for everyone, senior people have more responsibility towards maintaining decorum. If you can't handle this mess then better report it to higher authorities but don't escalate the situation.

Ps- this is what happens when you mix personal and professional life, giving room to toxic environment. PC should take the lead.

This is a great post and you have etched your mature thinking with valid points. I would like to share my two cents on the same.

I have seen you address this in several posts that how you don't advocate dating at workplace. While I am in complete agreement of all the reasons you mentioned, thats truly hard to do for most people, especially the ones in demanding jobs. I personally have been for 6 years of my life is professional services with some crazy hours and all you did was see your co-workers (barely even family) and most of my friends who opted for love marriage married their colleagues and the rest had arranged marriages. The sample of people who had love affairs outside work was almost negligible as you really don't have a life outside work. The medical profession is very similar if not worse. Many doctors marry doctors for: 1) Those are the people they interact with on a regular basis (wavelength match) 2. Its an insanely demanding profession and many times only someone who is in it can understand the dedication and passion needed from it....so from a mere understanding perspective it helps being partners with a doctor.

Hence while all your points are rational points, we are humans and can't always be rational :)

Now moving onto the characters:

1. Regarding Sia: No doubt why women are doubted for their capabilities and blamed for using their charm to climb the ladder of success.

I don't think she is playing the woman card here (though she might be touted as doing so). She is just finding men around her (who happen to be doctors) to "move on". Our generation suffers from this problem of instant gratification or the need for it. Since most things are promoted as instant we crave for it in everything and its almost problematic to wait and figure it out! The need for Sia to move on from Abhay "instantly" is leading her to make bad decisions. At the moment, I don't think she is thinking about Dr. Ali being her senior or junior, she just wants to break free and do something rebellious, only to later realize that being a rebel isn't her core nature and being someone else only hurts you more.

2. Regarding Abhay: I have already shared my views on falling in love (i don't think you can time it) but i have to admit I am appalled with his audacity at the moment! He is acting as if there is a level playing field here (which is obviously not the case). Vikrant is his boss's boss and can kill his career in a minute! What Vikrant is doing right now is just a trailer, if he comes in his element, Abhay will be reduced to shreds in seconds. What Abhay is doing right now is over-confidence and sheer dumbness and he needs a hard lesson to curb this stupidity. This road-side Romeo mentality isn't suiting him one bit!

3. Regarding Vikrant and Deepika - They are clear example of how age can necessarily not bring wisdom. I don't want to get into how they are handling their personal dynamics, but professionally now (which I didn't expect from Deepika atleast), they are failing as mentors and role models! I really don't expect better from Vikrant but Deepika's full system seems to have shut off...she is so embroiled in Vikrant that we no more see her active involvement with the interns...its disappointing!

Abhay is not acting rational- he should be focused on his career and his dreams to become a surgeon like he promised his mother. Getting into physical fights with your senior can cause harm to your career. I know he is trying to help Deepika but it seems like she doesn't need anyone's help. Sia is a lost case since the beginning- did not like her then nor do I like her now. Like you said PC and Jamshed should step in and take the lead.

Sia always had Abhay since college! Whatever reasons they ended up together. Sia is in a terrible insecure position emotionally her father might die anytime and her bf who she had accepted as her husband is not anymore with her. The Wasim induced situation put her in a position to loss her patient Sia is just 25. She is immature, volatile and all that what she did is wrong but that what makes you human! Flawed! Stupid, unreasonable, emotional!

All the people you meet on the internet are so ideal, giving idealistic thought about solutions regarding everything that's not how we are life, there are situations when emotions get the better of us. Dr. Ali is a mature older individual he simply nudged Sia in the right direction no drama.

We have a soft corner for Wasim because we see the other side of him too. Sia sees him as ruthless and in that case she believed she should do the worst possible thing to even crack him slightly! It was cruel but she didn't understand the extent of it. But now she will, Ansari had his own lessons too. Abhay learnt some. Deepika who slipped back into a relationship with Vikrant fuelled by years of loneliness and the emotional emptyness would also get her jerk as Dr Additi returns!

Originally posted by: Sanjanas

This is a great post and you have etched your mature thinking with valid points. I would like to share my two cents on the same.

I have seen you address this in several posts that how you don't advocate dating at workplace. While I am in complete agreement of all the reasons you mentioned, thats truly hard to do for most people, especially the ones in demanding jobs. I personally have been for 6 years of my life is professional services with some crazy hours and all you did was see your co-workers (barely even family) and most of my friends who opted for love marriage married their colleagues and the rest had arranged marriages. The sample of people who had love affairs outside work was almost negligible as you really don't have a life outside work. The medical profession is very similar if not worse. Many doctors marry doctors for: 1) Those are the people they interact with on a regular basis (wavelength match) 2. Its an insanely demanding profession and many times only someone who is in it can understand the dedication and passion needed from it....so from a mere understanding perspective it helps being partners with a doctor.

Hence while all your points are rational points, we are humans and can't always be rational :)

@ red ...Thank you😆

I get all your points and its absolutely true. See, I'm not against of dating at workplace , it happens. you can't avoid certain things because such things aren't planned and Love can happen in most unexpected ways. But everything has its pros and cons even dating at workplace too and it comes with certain responsibilities.

Like you, in my own professional career of 10 years ,I have seen the similar situation where you spend most of your time at work with collogues (trust me even I had some dangerously crazy hours, main ghar sirf sone jati thi 😆) so I can totally relate with it.

I have worked in hospital environment but we generally have different trends. Like dating batchmates, seniors and colleagues from different departments/different fields/different employer (so in that way it won't disturb their personal and work equation)though not the hard rule , some exceptions are always there but never dare to date mentors its a big no no🤪may be more prevalent in corporates sectors.

My guide was a pediatrician head, his wife was head of different dept and they both had super busy schedule. Hospital me aisa nonsense hota bhi nahi hai jaisa serial me dikhaya gaya hai🤪nobody roams around in scrubs👎🏼even doctor husband wife usually met once in whole day wo bhi ghar ki key lene k liye😵

AP bante bante log 40 years k ho jate hai phir 23-24 saal ka koi baccha ata hai usse koi affair nahi karta😆 , girl student ho to sexual harassment ka acse ho jata hai and ministry tak matter chala jata hai🤣phir karate raho committees and court case. Reality me it has bad bad repercussions. 😆

Ps- i think kuch jyada hi bol diya🤣

Originally posted by: jasgomita

Abhay is not acting rational- he should be focused on his career and his dreams to become a surgeon like he promised his mother. Getting into physical fights with your senior can cause harm to your career. I know he is trying to help Deepika but it seems like she doesn't need anyone's help. Sia is a lost case since the beginning- did not like her then nor do I like her now. Like you said PC and Jamshed should step in and take the lead.

@ red

usually we all have that friend in our life who try to protect us no matter what. Deepika has none , agar koi genuine friend hota bhi then i'm sure he/she would have tried to knock some sense in her, abhay initially filled that gap but deepika hasn't given him that hold on her life so technically he might be trying to help her but his approach was not right.

Originally posted by: Veruthe

Sia always had Abhay since college! Whatever reasons they ended up together. Sia is in a terrible insecure position emotionally her father might die anytime and her bf who she had accepted as her husband is not anymore with her. The Wasim induced situation put her in a position to loss her patient Sia is just 25. She is immature, volatile and all that what she did is wrong but that what makes you human! Flawed! Stupid, unreasonable, emotional!

All the people you meet on the internet are so ideal, giving idealistic thought about solutions regarding everything that's not how we are life, there are situations when emotions get the better of us. Dr. Ali is a mature older individual he simply nudged Sia in the right direction no drama.

We have a soft corner for Wasim because we see the other side of him too. Sia sees him as ruthless and in that case she believed she should do the worst possible thing to even crack him slightly! It was cruel but she didn't understand the extent of it. But now she will, Ansari had his own lessons too. Abhay learnt some. Deepika who slipped back into a relationship with Vikrant fuelled by years of loneliness and the emotional emptyness would also get her jerk as Dr Additi returns!

@red

so true. Sia hasn't seen harshness in life so at this tender age whatever happened with her was way too extreme for her to take and she took the wrong way but that doesn't justify her actions on wasim . kare koi bhare koi. She need to accept that if you can feel pain then others aren't stone hearted, they too get affected by certain things may be more than you. Playing with somebody emotions is outright inhumane .

But like you said , nobody is ideal and picture perfect in life, we are humans , tends to make mistake, sometime go way too extreme in life and there is always a room for improvement, to become a better person from life experiences and Ali's dealing with sia is that direction for her .

@blue

Actually she hasn't moved on in her life and her actions are justifying it. Its very difficult to deal with your emotions , so let her flow with the moment and it is the only way to come out of it. She need to empty herself , need to shed her past baggage , once she will pour out all her emotions, pains, sufferings only then she can move on from V.

We are on the same page.

I never liked how Sia treated Wasim in first place and breaking his heart like that was outright cruel and Sia understood it with the help of Dr. Ali and went up to apologise to him.

Yes D never dealt with pain. Right after her breakup she was also homeless it was struggle for survival for her. The residency, the job, the stay. Like she said she didn't even care about all the issues because she worked herself physically to that point of exertion. Now when she has finally reached a decent point in her career she has the baggage of being Litti to Vikrant. And today's precap shows how she would understand her stupidity and retract her steps!