Devi Aadi Shakti is Nirakar- formless, she takes a form as per the need. Sati was her form. the entire Prakruti is due to her Shakti, so Shivji used to see her in the Prakruti.
To be with him physical she has to take a form which is only for the purpose of uniting with him & continue their life as Aadi Purush & Aadi Shakti.
After her birth asParvati, Himavan is reminded by Naradji, about who she is & what is the purpose of her life. When Parvati grows up, she gets dream about Shivji. So it's a normal growing up process, as a human.
Shivji is the only God who has a family. It is written in Puranas, he was grieving like a human after Sati's end.
Being above moha-maya doesn't mean just keep a plain blank face in all the situations. He was grieving for loosing part of himself. He is definately not a dukhiyara. His refusal followed by remaining silent, then him bursting with anger, creating Veerbhadra to punish Daksh, then taking Sati's body with him, which he lost & came on Earth behind those body parts, followed by being angry again for not letting him go near her body part, resulting in Aadi Shakti meeting him (is part of the Purana's story). Him emerging as Kaalbhairav to protect all the Shakti peethas is also a fact.
As a result we humans were blessed to have Shivji & aadi shakti at 51 places on Earth. Which is a boon for all the Shiv & Shakti bhaktas.
Shivji is present at many places in various forms, while residing at Kailash.
Edited by mnx12 - 13 years ago