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Posted: 13 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: kasturika_kashu


sweetheart u r welcome.. i loved ur post.. it was very beautiful and different..😳😳
i think... when we r children... the extreame influence of multimedia today makes us believe that love is life and once u get ur dream prince.. or atever u get wat life wants frm u.. that frst ehsas cnt be cmpared to anything at all...😳 bt then wen the naked truth of life comes in frnt of u... u are forced to accept it becozs there is nothing harsher than pure turuth which is that.. love is nt life as films show... its a necessity of living and its as normal as anything else in life.. no exceptional violin music...no dream... no romeo juliet story...😭


Thank you so much for the appreciation!!! I'm glad you loved it!! I was nervous initially because I felt perhaps ppl will think I have gone Monash on them😆

I AGREE with every single word you have just written, truly what I have been thinking!! Indeed fairytale romance is not realistic and the realities of M's dream are harsh and will make her grow up...Love is not like films AT ALL, it's a necessity that has depths that can't be depicted on screen.Much deeper, I'm glad DEK is attempting more realistic LOVE than filmy love. Plus, Thank god it's not romeo and juliet, then everyone would be sad because their love committed suicide and then they would commit suicide too..EEEKs! 😲🤢😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i felt sad for myself that i had to read akash's name in the wu. i dont find any true love in monash. i see a child holding on to a security blanket. its more an anchor to keep the changes and expectations which people have from her at bay. i dont see innocence, i see stuborn foolishness. the world is about survival of the fittest, when you dont see a way out you change track. you seek comfort and safety. what i see in monia is blind stupidity. i see the same foolishness in akash.being 18 means being an adult, having the right to make your own decisions and know that the decisions you make affect other people. i have had so many friends fall in love with the right and wrong guy, do stupid things in the name of love, hurt those around then, but the extent of destruction i see monia doing is beyond anything i have ever seen. i come from a family with a very liberal and modern outlook to life and we discuss every topic under the sun with no feelings of shame, but i know for a fact that i condemn and can never condone any of monia's actions. she would be disowned and shunned and i would probably be the first person to push my family to do so.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: yaherd15


Thank you so much for the appreciation!!! I'm glad you loved it!! I was nervous initially because I felt perhaps ppl will think I have gone Monash on them😆

I AGREE with every single word you have just written, truly what I have been thinking!! Indeed fairytale romance is not realistic and the realities of M's dream are harsh and will make her grow up...Love is not like films AT ALL, it's a necessity that has depths that can't be depicted on screen.Much deeper, I'm glad DEK is attempting more realistic LOVE than filmy love. Plus, Thank god it's not romeo and juliet, then everyone would be sad because their love committed suicide and then they would commit suicide too..EEEKs! 😲🤢😆

😆😆😆 thats wat those teenagers think.. the poor souls... now as i cn connect my old self with them i do not feel angry only soo sorry for them.. innocence doesnt stay long.. a day wen we wake up we realize everything is suddenly changed... like DEK... DEK is a very realistic approach towards teen life and soo i watch it.. its very different frm the previous star one shows which had become soo hit in the name of youth based serials.. they dint have any realistic touch like DEK... though they wer very attractive and entertaining.. bt nt realistic...😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mythical

i felt sad for myself that i had to read akash's name in the wu. i dont find any true love in monash. i see a child holding on to a security blanket. its more an anchor to keep the changes and expectations which people have from her at bay. i dont see innocence, i see stuborn foolishness. the world is about survival of the fittest, when you dont see a way out you change track. you seek comfort and safety. what i see in monia is blind stupidity. i see the same foolishness in akash.being 18 means being an adult, having the right to make your own decisions and know that the decisions you make affect other people. i have had so many friends fall in love with the right and wrong guy, do stupid things in the name of love, hurt those around then, but the extent of destruction i see monia doing is beyond anything i have ever seen. i come from a family with a very liberal and modern outlook to life and we discuss every topic under the sun with no feelings of shame, but i know for a fact that i condemn and can never condone any of monia's actions. she would be disowned and shunned and i would probably be the first person to push my family to do so.


Mythical, I think you should read the post below. I think we are only trying to discuss the character's POV and how she far she has come from the beginning till now. First of all, I agree, but the thing is M has never had family like us, there was no constant, stability in her life, if your upbringing has influenced you to think that you would never leave your family than the same with M and her baba. She loved HIM for 16 years, that was HER family. To be expected to love a new family and fit in with them all of a sudden is a doozy. I mean imagine if you were told that your family is NOT your family and that this new political minded family is your family. I don't know about you but I would reject that world bc the people don't seem to be very loving and very manipulative. I am not saying you're wrong in your pov at all, I completely see what you mean, but I think it's not fair to be tough on M considering her background and she is human being with her flaws. All she ever wanted was to be loved and feel like a princess, like every other girl out there, if Akash is the FIRST person who did that for, I can't hate her for it. But alas...she is growing up...and props to you at 18 you were a mature adult because I THOUGHT I was mature (I was known to be the serious mature type), but you know what...I WASN"T...at 18 we think we know everything but the thing is we have so much to learn and so much growth there. We think we know the world but the truth is we are young adults for a reason because we still need time to expand our hearts and minds. I mean look at Gandhi ji...he was a very impatient person, but by the end of his life he is the probably the MOST patient person on the planet with SO MUCH compassion. He truly is an inspiration to me because I use to be impatient, black and white principles (even when I discussed evry topic under the sun with family and friends), and not as compassionate...I am still growing as a person and I think it's realistic for us to see that M can't be perfect at such a young age, she is not sachi savitri type on a saas bahu drama, she is a real life individual with her flaws and she is learning to grow up...😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: kasturika_kashu

😆😆😆 thats wat those teenagers think.. the poor souls... now as i cn connect my old self with them i do not feel angry only soo sorry for them.. innocence doesnt stay long.. a day wen we wake up we realize everything is suddenly changed... like DEK... DEK is a very realistic approach towards teen life and soo i watch it.. its very different frm the previous star one shows which had become soo hit in the name of youth based serials.. they dint have any realistic touch like DEK... though they wer very attractive and entertaining.. bt nt realistic...😳



I agree 100 percent!!! Again, words out of my mouth! Especially with the so called youth based serials...not as realistic as this one where they are showing her growth as a person. The other shows make it glossy and attractive but don't hit you with the actual realistic worries/insecurities. loved your comments!!!😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: yaherd15


Mythical, I think you should read the post below. I think we are only trying to discuss the character's POV and how she far she has come from the beginning till now. First of all, I agree, but the thing is M has never had family like us, there was no constant, stability in her life, if your upbringing has influenced you to think that you would never leave your family than the same with M and her baba. She loved HIM for 16 years, that was HER family. To be expected to love a new family and fit in with them all of a sudden is a doozy. I mean imagine if you were told that your family is NOT your family and that this new political minded family is your family. I don't know about you but I would reject that world bc the people don't seem to be very loving and very manipulative. I am not saying you're wrong in your pov at all, I completely see what you mean, but I think it's not fair to be tough on M considering her background and she is human being with her flaws. All she ever wanted was to be loved and feel like a princess, like every other girl out there, if Akash is the FIRST person who did that for, I can't hate her for it. But alas...she is growing up...and props to you at 18 you were a mature adult because I THOUGHT I was mature (I was known to be the serious mature type), but you know what...I WASN"T...at 18 we think we know everything but the thing is we have so much to learn and so much growth there. We think we know the world but the truth is we are young adults for a reason because we still need time to expand our hearts and minds. I mean look at Gandhi ji...he was a very impatient person, but by the end of his life he is the probably the MOST patient person on the planet with SO MUCH compassion. He truly is an inspiration to me because I use to be impatient, black and white principles (even when I discussed evry topic under the sun with family and friends), and not as compassionate...I am still growing as a person and I think it's realistic for us to see that M can't be perfect at such a young age, she is not sachi savitri type on a saas bahu drama, she is a real life individual with her flaws and she is learning to grow up...😛

thank u for replying to me. i guess cant connect to monia, maybe that is why my pov about monia is quite severe. i see too much stupidity there. as for monia's love for murari, she doesn't remember him much. i dont see her say look baba i am a rajkumari. we see her say akash i wont change. that is what sickens me. if she made murari her anchor and threw everyone else out i could understand but some boy that my friends tell me i am suposedly in love with, i dont think so. my friends have tried and my answer was i dont do peer pressure. i take history as my teacher, those who do not change with the times are the first to be destroyed.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i have send u a frnd reqst...😳

and u know one more thing? akash will just nt go frm her mind so soon...he will remain there as long as he needs to be and his thots will inspire her.. for akash to go away we need nt show his villainish cmback or make him negative or kill him permanently...(if they havent done so yet)... one fine day the passion of akash in manyata's heart will just vanish in thin air.. as quickly as it had come an there will be no sign of the spark,the magic anymore...passions die out quickly bt things that grow slowly and slowly... like udayveer's love for manyata and manyata's dependence on him... remains forever.. becoz thats how it shud be.. love- A NEED,A DEPENDENCE,A FRNDSHIP.. and then comes passion...
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Posted: 13 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: mythical

thank u for replying to me. i guess cant connect to monia, maybe that is why my pov about monia is quite severe. i see too much stupidity there. as for monia's love for murari, she doesn't remember him much. i dont see her say look baba i am a rajkumari. we see her say akash i wont change. that is what sickens me. if she made murari her anchor and threw everyone else out i could understand but some boy that my friends tell me i am suposedly in love with, i dont think so. my friends have tried and my answer was i dont do peer pressure. i take history as my teacher, those who do not change with the times are the first to be destroyed.


No problem, I enjoy replying back to everyone's post! 😛 It's okay if you can't connect to Moniya, I'm sure there are individuals out there who don't. I don't think in dialogue she is going to say she is doing it for Murari because he, in the end, was a kidnapper so her trust is gone in him. If she said she was doing it for him, I feel like she would be taking revenge on the Royal family, na?? It would illogical for her to say Im doing this for Murari...I think one can love someone, but feel betrayed at the same time and be able to not think about them like that but still have those feelings.

Plus I think I didn't articulate properly when I was trying to convey that she was brought up by him, he was her center...he betrayed her and left her world in a disaster. She lost her trust in him, but that didn't stop her from still loving him even if he was wrong. Akash just happened to be that person out there in HER world who loved her for who she was JUST like Murari and someone she could also TRUST. She lost Murari so she is trying to cling to the last person who loved her from the world SHE understands. It's not JUST love, it's that Akash is the familiar, he is a part of a world she KNOWS. We as human beings cling to the familiar because we are scared of CHange.

I think today's episode is a perfect example that reiterates what I am saying when M tells UV that first she was scared of the realities of her dreams coming true and UV asked if she was scared now and said no, I have become use to it now...See I see Akash representing a symbol for M. Not just a character in the show. He represents her past, in terms of her world, herself, all the things that made her Moniya. UV represents her future, her future self, a different world. For her to transition from one world to the other is quite difficult and she did what ANY human being would do when faced with such a 180 degree change in her world: run away from it...I think the dialogues she would say at the beginning and her actions represented that in she would always say main bhaag ne main maahir hoon...she has run away a lot from her future destiny, but now she is not. Which is why I feel sorry for her because growing up is hard, there are many things about growing up in which you have to let go of, and it's scary because the future is out there waiting impatiently and so many things to look forward to, but it's unknown, so it is scary because facing the unknown is hard for anyone. Her old world was predictable, but not her new one!😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: kasturika_kashu

i have send u a frnd reqst...😳

I have accepted! =) BTW my name is Shama LOL.

and u know one more thing? akash will just nt go frm her mind so soon...he will remain there as long as he needs to be and his thots will inspire her.. for akash to go away we need nt show his villainish cmback or make him negative or kill him permanently...(if they havent done so yet)... one fine day the passion of akash in manyata's heart will just vanish in thin air.. as quickly as it had come an there will be no sign of the spark,the magic anymore...passions die out quickly bt things that grow slowly and slowly... like udayveer's love for manyata and manyata's dependence on him... remains forever.. becoz thats how it shud be.. love- A NEED,A DEPENDENCE,A FRNDSHIP.. and then comes passion...


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Seriously agreed with every word you said. Again like I said before...really loved your comments!!! Truly awesome!! Exactly how I feel about this storyline!!😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: yaherd15



Seriously agreed with every word you said. Again like I said before...really loved your comments!!! Truly awesome!! Exactly how I feel about this storyline!!😃

nyc to meet u...🤗 shama.. mine's kasturika.. u cn call me kashu as everyone here does..😉😆
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