Blackmailing!! What's the difference? - Page 2

@jas hey!
Agree with almost everything you said but

J was not pampered, she grew up in the shadows of the sibling who was never there, tried hard to prove herself and be someone she never was (a son to Brij etc) until she gave up. Blame her for not wanting to lose that little attention she got. You know how much it hurt her when her family laughed when M insulted her on the dining table all that time, maybe you wont get it because you have never been in such a situation but me? Been in plenty of those not insults but I still remember how my mom used to come home and if dad arrived before her she used to ask the maids or the lady who cooks if dad had his food but when she used to say yes,and saab is in his office/library upstairs my mom used to nod her head and walk away not bothering to ask about me and I used to cry lisntening to the conversation from the shadows until the the woman who took care of me calmed me down. It really hurts.

Coming to Uday sometimes we do thinks and listen to people just to protect the one we care about and sheild him/her from the truth.thats what he is doing and he is not weak.

Manyata graceful and intellegent? More deserving and not arrogant or rude? Where did u hit your head jas? That gal dosent know the facts most kids knew in school! She is so not graceful nor intellegent. And is the most uncivilised, arrogant, oversmart cum idiotic lead in the history of television. Honestly she is not deserving but a chick who is disobidient and dont let me start on her?

Originally posted by: tiger_lily

Birdie i loved ur last point but a counter point to that is that in rich,buisness families or royal families mariage is more of a deal but love generally comes in between. Trust me, my parents marriage was not love or arranged it was an agreement and I was a teeny part of it. My parents hated each other in a way thats what their friends tell me but now I feel grossed out by their "affection", not every marriage is like what Komal and Brij have honestly if komal had given her marriage and younger daughter a try those 16 years that would have been better

And coming to the blackmail everyone has a weakness you just have to spot it and use it against them trust me.. Personal experience.

And love itself is obsession.

i agree with u on every marriage is not a marriage for happiness but some r deals...to large extent arrange marriages r kind off deals only...love comes later on...i won't comment on ur personal part bcoz that is something i'm completely unaware off...there is something we as children has to deal with it if parents marriage is kind off shaky.bcoz i too somehwere deal with it...
but its part & parcel of life which makes us mature...makes us deal with our situations of life.in better way ...don't do the thing which we has experienced from other people's life even with parents...which we don't set examples for our future generations which bad experience we had..learn from them go-on in life to set something good...

coming to UV...that is his story how he had experience it to break the monotany...they have & set something better...not to make marriage as a deal but to make UV learn that marriage is not a deal it is part of life which he needs to experience it is part which includes love & affection...& again this JN also needs to learn this same marriage is not a deal...
that why UV is experiencing it he can't get M like this through his manupulations...he actually had to win her heart in geniune way...which is he trying but yet he has to learn bcoz he still is playing mind games that's why M doesn't like him...the day UV will let go mind-games...he will start to win M with geniune love of his as UV person...

which JN also needs to learn ...but yeah would also say JN can't win UV...bcoz UV was always of M since childhood... i wouldn't like to c JN & UV as i like manveer 😆

Birdieee Agree with whatever you said and I am more of an Uday fan than manveer and manyata gets on my nerves. When it comes to marriages nowadays they get nulled with the help of one paper. And love we fall in and out of it and Uday without mindgames is like trying to start a car which has no engine. Mindgames and that evil ness along with a soft heart make UV who he is and I would not love to c a mushy UV 24/7

Originally posted by: tiger_lily

Birdieee Agree with whatever you said and I am more of an Uday fan than manveer and manyata gets on my nerves. When it comes to marriages nowadays they get nulled with the help of one paper. And love we fall in and out of it and Uday without mindgames is like trying to start a car which has no engine. Mindgames and that evil ness along with a soft heart make UV who he is and I would not love to c a mushy UV 24/7

i'm too UV fan ...yest only i wrote on jyoti's post at moment both girls doesn't deserve UV ...i'm only manveer fan bcoz its UV who loves M 😆...
i agree with ur UV point UV without mind games is not UV but yeah playing those mind games geniuenely to win M is what is also a point that wil only lead to UV to win M ...off-course i too don't want to c UV as all time mushy lover...but in better sense he can turn to be a better human-being which is the way UV will evolve...
that is another point why manveer r not in love once they r in love there is of much story left to the show..also...UV winning M love is the one most interesting story in this show which we all want to c ...its the biggest task of UV himself also to win her love...

Birdie.. Sensibly speaking ur right in a way! But ah UV is the onlie hottie available so he might aswell be paired with M.
Yeah that track will be fun.

P.S.ur tanvi as in loving bird ryt? Birdie? If yeah ,. Ah i din know it was ya. The dp looked familiar

Chalo I will admit that I hate J for coming between ManVeer. That is also one of the reasons but the major reasons is that well, I hate her because she is making UV look pathetic.

I love UV and I always want him to win. But him being a toy of J, that makes me hate her. Idk, I can't justify my hatred for her but she is acting like a vamp now, at least I see her that way :P I don't like vamps and villains :P

Regarding UV blackmailing M? Well, he had so super selfish intentions like J. His way of blackmailing was far too different than J. J acts like she owns UV now, UV only pulled the strings for M and M mostly did what she always did.

OH HELL! I HATE J!!!!!!

I agree with what your saying, this forum is becoming one that only focuses on the lead, and only cares about that.. And even when Uday does anything wrong, people still say that he's doing it for Moniya's own good and blah blah blah... How is trying to get rid of Akash, the person Moniya says she loves, the best thing for her?? She should have the right to choose what to do in her life... Would you like it if your family tried to get rid of the person you love, and would you then fall in love with the guy who ruined your relationship and be thankful to him because he supposedly did it for your best? No right, so why do people think Moniya is being selfish and she should just fall into Uday's arms?? I'm not bashing anyone, I'm just saying that people should think a bit more openly.. No offence to anyone..


As for jay, the only thing i think is different from her blackmailing Uday and Uday blackmailing Moniya, is that Jay knows for a fact he would never ever like her, and even then she tried being all romantic and she wanted to kiss him, it all seemed a bit desperate.. Whereas Uday only tried to get closer to Moniya...

@kiara u guessed rightly i changed my id :)

hey kiara ..great post!😊

very nice topic an di agree that forum is kinda limited now a days..but i feel blame is on crappy storyline at the moment'