revenge or forgiveness?

if you found out that ur hubby/wife, boyfriend/girlfriend, lover or w/e was cheating on you, and then told you that he/she was leaving u for that person, would u take revenge on them? Or forgive what they have done, accept it and move on without a fight? plz explain ur answer!!

not 4give. but not revenge either

I think revenge is mostly filmy , but its very difficult to forgive and forget , ...and then move on !! You harbour anger , hurt , disbelief ,shattered , ...but there isn't much you can do about it ....except those people who feel suing for a unfair alimony will help their emotions in some way !! 😕

I would just leave him, and move on with my life and
kids (if I had any). All my men get only one chance. If they cheat even ONCE, out the door they go. Defnitely in this case it is "My way or the Highway"!because I beleive in "Once a cheater, always a cheater".

I wouldn't be able to take revenge as he had been my hubby/boyfriend once but, the point of forgivness wouldn't take place. I wouldn't be able to forgive someone who betrayed me for someone else and it can neither be his fault entirley if you left a distance in your relationship it's a bit obvious another woman might come into his life. The relationship you should have shouldn't have a distance and should have trust,care and respect so the hubby/boyfriend doesn't have a chance to do all of these things. However, if this ever happened I would definintley move on because there is no point being stuck onto a relaionship which will never exist. That relationship was probably never meant to be and whatever happens, happens for our benifit. As for our pain that will heal with time!

Facts would feel to kill them 😳 But the reality can't do it at all. If we love them deeply, then would set them free for their good. Forgiving takes time.. as wounds take time to heel na 😊 Forgeting? Only time can answer it then.

i would b angry at that person 4 a long tym but slowly i would learn 2 carry on with lyf...lyf doesn't stop...it moves on

I would let them go if I see that there happier with the new person. Because if you love somone you want to make them happy. As for me i'll probably love them all my life and be happy at the fact i made them happy and, besides if it true love he/she will come back and will be even more sorry they left a person who loves them so much they let them go.

Its definetly hard, but i would not forvie, but move on with my life. If he cheated on me he was never mine. I can never hurt someone just 'coz they hurt me. I know exactly how bad it feels when some hurts you so reveng is not the solution.

I will make sure he will die out of guilt! 😉 😛