Keep your ex-lover/hus as friend?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Is it quite advisable to Keep your ex-lover/Hus as friend?

If your lover have something like that did u agree with that?

Whats your views and opinion?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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i think you should at least keep their numbers. never know when you might need to recycle 😉
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: chatbuster


i think you should at least keep their numbers. never know when you might need to recycle 😉

😆😆😆 tumharey paas toh poorie telephone directory collect ho gayee hogi abb tak....kyoon chatty boy😛.......j/k😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gauri_3

😆😆😆 tumharey paas toh poorie telephone directory collect ho gayee hogi abb tak....kyoon chatty boy😛.......j/k😆

lol. ab kisi ne database management systems banaye hain toh use karna hee hoga, naheen?😛😉😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Believe

Is it quite advisable to Keep your ex-lover/Hus as friend?

Requires very broad ,wide and bored mind for this or atleast same background or history to understand those things!Ideally it is possible but practically it is tough and not advisable!Arrey at this rate we need to keep track of all the friends of our partner😡

If your lover have something like that did u agree with that?

Will agree but will defintely observe them with telescope,microscope,baramoter,thermometer and what not every device I get!!

Whats your views and opinion?

If it were me I will not disclose my friends😉 list but will immediately take his friends list😛

Edited by mythili_Kiran - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: chatbuster

lol. ab kisi ne database management systems banaye hain toh use karna hee hoga, naheen?😛😉😆

😆😆 haan....kitnee majboori hai na. use nahi kiya toh unhey bura lag jayega😆

i personally feel it depends on the circumstance under which a couple seperated. if there was mental/physical abuse involved...stay away...what the heck yaar, even go for restraining order against the jerk/bit**. but if the parting was based on differences of opinion or some other stuff that did not marr you for life, it's okay to stay in touch. if kids are involved, try to make it work out just for their sake......iss sey zyada kuchh nahi pata....kabhi break ups face nahi kiye na😆😆

Edited by Gauri_3 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Believe

Is it quite advisable to Keep your ex-lover/Hus as friend?

Dunno about the ex-lover unless he was great as LOVER 😉

Ex-husband would not be a bad idea to have him as a friend if you have children with. Good understanding between two parents helps kid to have some normalcy. It is very difficult task since personal feelings, gudges and resentment gets in the way but worth mending things to act decent by being friend would help their individual relation ship with their kids and together.

If your lover have something like that did u agree with that?

For Lover with no ex marriage & children baggage my answer would be NO 😳

Well if he is father to a child with than I have no choice but somewhat agree for him to have corgeal relationship with his ex wife for the chilrens' sake.

Whats your views and opinion?

I gave it all 😃

Good Topic Vinu 👏

Edited by Dabulls23 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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friends with an ex-husband only if kids are involved and there wasnt any type of abuse. if it was an abusive relationship then it is not only better for the parent but for the kids also to stay away from such situations.

i wouldn't like it if my hubby was still friends with his ex-girlfriends (thank god there weren't any.......well so he says 😆 )

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Posted: 18 years ago
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If the new lover is a Confident, self assured man / woman, they wouldn't / couldn't care. (yeah yeah.. the sweet jealosy factor 😳, but that shouldn't be unmanageable)

If the EX is worth his/ her friendship (Abusive x's, cheaters, scum bags excluded automatically), why not?

LOL CB @ back up.. naah.. back ups are trust-worthy.. and someone you stick together and fall apart from, is not much trustworthy any more than just a friend after a break up, IMO.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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On a serious note... Why not? My ex bf is still a good friend of mine... 😃

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