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Posted: 18 years ago
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Dear Friends!

I always wonder seeing some emotions of some people! They seem soo false,very Pseudo!!!

Part 1:

I feel that they are the emotions of costly people! Some problems in Ekta Serials and the reactions of those characters seem so pseudo!

The crying of celebrities and the participants in reality shows like singing contests,Big Boss etal. They seem very Pseudo (ofcourse its my perception)!

The transperency of relations in lower and middle class people is more incomparison to high class people!

Part 2:

Earlier when I saw Mitr -My friend movie ,I thought this is quite unrealistic film,how can we share our feelings with online people!! I thought these are Pseudo feelings depicted in Pseudo films!

But after 1 year when I saw the movie again! I felt that this quite realistic and possible!! In this one year I've some online firends who are really important to me!They are like my family members!

I share my feelings and day to day things with them as if I know them from years! I support the following quote 100%

"The bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each other's life. Rarely do members of one family grow up under the same roof. --Richard Bach"

Ok! Enough intro and my questions are:

Part 1:

    Do you feel some emotions and problems are very filmy and restricted to costly people? Do you think there is more humbleness and joy factor in middle class and lower class people?
  1. Do you think that as the power and money of a person increases the socalled responsible restrictions add in the pretext of dignity?

Part 2:

  1. Do you have virtual friends who are really important to you in your real life?

Cheers,

Mythili

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Seems all got tired of reading my post and are saying just thankyou 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mythili_Kiran

Part 1:

  1. Do you feel some emotions and problems are very filmy and restricted to costly people?

Oh no, I sometimes feel the extreme urge to toss my hair, act catty,talk out wicked thoughts our loud(sometimes I even write them in my posts, dont you think😉) raise one of my eyebrow😆😆

  1. Do you think there is more humbleness and joy factor in middle class and lower class people?

I dont think god was discriminatory in granting the feelings of humbleness and joy factor, not sure if he has a reservation criteria for that😆

  1. Do you think that as the power and money of a person increases the socalled responsible restrictions add in the pretext of dignity?

nope

Part 2:

  1. Do you have virtual friends who are really important to you in your real life?

Dont want to hurt any feelings here, but no I dont think about virtual friends as much😆

Cheers,

Mythili

now that you guilted me into making a response, I hope you follow suit dear Mythili😉

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mythili_Kiran

Dear Friends!

"The bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each other's life. Rarely do members of one family grow up under the same roof. --Richard Bach"
Richard Bach knows it best! Have you read the Bridge Across Forever? Oh.. It'll make you cry 😳😳😳

Part 1:

1. Do you feel some emotions and problems are very filmy and restricted to costly people?
Oh yes! Not only in Kekta serials, but I have met some REAL members who've become family, and they make me wonder if they are Kekta production writers in disguise 😉. There are some seriously fake people. There are also some people who fake stories and gather lot of sympathy. A girl-friend of mine used to make up such vivid stories🤔.. It turned out that most were fake and she did not even have the family she talked about 😭. Scary huh?

2. Do you think there is more humbleness and joy factor in middle class and lower class people?
I used to feel that way, but I don't generalize anymore. In fact, I doubt that now. An uncle, loaded guy and his family is very humble, and I find true feelings, true helping hand and really real problems and real non-flimy ways of facing them in their home. Wherease, some of the flimy dialogue delivery occurs in those middle-class neighbourhoods.

Do you think that as the power and money of a person increases the socalled responsible restrictions add in the pretext of dignity?
No, how can dignity be defined / constrained by what you own? Constant pressure and media-interference may increase, but I think one should be as dignified in their boxers as they are in the ir Armani! Unless, they are faking something somewhere!


Part 2:

Do you have virtual friends who are really important to you in your real life?
Yes absolutely! I will try to meet with some of them whenever I am nearby to make the friendship real.

Cheers,
Mythili
Cheers to you too.
Subha di

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Posted: 18 years ago
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[quote]Yes absolutely! I will try to meet with some of them whenever I am nearby to make the friendship real.[/quote]

It's not REAL without meeting the person? Anywho, online friends matter to me; they do come in my thoughts every now and then; sometimes, I feel more bonded to them than with family.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: reeps

[quote]Yes absolutely! I will try to meet with some of them whenever I am nearby to make the friendship real.[/quote]

It's not REAL without meeting the person? Anywho, online friends matter to me; they do come in my thoughts every now and then; sometimes, I feel more bonded to them than with family.


Oh no.. the feelings are real, but the friendship has ONLINE friend tag. When you meet with them, your feelings stay the same REAL, but now the friendship tag loses the word ONLINE and becomes a REAL friend. I hope that clears it 😳
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: sareg

now that you guilted me into making a response, I hope you follow suit dear Mythili😉

Wellsaid Vineet Bhayya! You are online Bhayya of mine! Ayyo! I thought of sending Rakhi to you the next Rakhi festival 😕!

nvmd😉 I will send e rakhi and you delete it if you want😭!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mythili_Kiran

    Do you feel some emotions and problems are very filmy and restricted to costly people? Let me check my price tag before i respond... can you really buy people in department stores or something like that?😆 Do you think there is more humbleness and joy factor in middle class and lower class people? Yes firstly their wealth doesnt attract robbers and diabetes/heart attacks and worries...
  1. Do you think that as the power and money of a person increases the socalled responsible restrictions add in the pretext of dignity?No I still think there is something like the blue blood

Part 2:

  1. Do you have virtual friends who are really important to you in your real life?😕

Cheers,

Mythili

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Mythili,

Ekta serials are as far from reality as an igloo is from a desert ( my attempt at a Sidhuism... 😉 )
But yes, even in real life there are people who cannot connect to some or all people and hence their emotional reactions are rather superficial. I specifically remember a scene from Munnabhai where he advises a girl about to meet a boy. He tells her judge him by teh way he treats people who are socially at a lower level. I could absolutely relate to that scene as that is one of the parameters which can really help us judge people.

Talking of online friendships, I think if I were to meet the people I "hang out " with online there is a high probability that I will like them and want to be friends with them...but on the other hand they could have not expressed a side of them which I would really not like... Its only when I meet them for real will their real personalities be revealed...

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