'Physical Needs' - Can it be justified always?

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karandel_2008

@karandel_2008

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Posted: 15 years ago

#91

@ RTH regarding harm principle: (I know that you dont say that its the only rule and you already said "It would be hard to come up with universal morals applicable to the whole world", but would like to write the following for the discussion)

It reminds me of some points I used to discuss. Is this principle very basic and just good enough to start with, but it alone cannot determine what is right and what is wrong?

I think that what is right and what is wrong is relative and depends on the choices available. For example if there are 2 choices amongst many others then if the choice A was relatively better than the choice B then B automatically becomes wrong even if some scripture says or some society says that both A and B are right choices.

From the above: Thus, sometimes not doing anything also becomes wrong when doing something would have been better. Even though doing nothing wouldnt have harmed anyone.

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Posted: 15 years ago

#92

i dont think indian mindset see sex as a taboo but only irrational sex as a taboo. i think indian mindset is the most balanced mindset at the moment with being not too much open nor too much closed.
CPK if u were referring to bring some bedroom norms from scriptures then am sorry am really not aware of any nor do i believe in referring to scriptures for everything. I was just talking about common rules we in india have, like not having extra marital affairs,(even with a prostitute) not even when u r unhappy with your spouse,
kamasutra sure is very much relavant to this topic (not read) but does it state that having sex out of marriage is justified to fulfill your urges?

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Gunjan

@gumsum

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Posted: 15 years ago

#93

Sex is altogether a different physical need and can't be compared to the need for food,clothing etc.

And I always thought that for men sex comes after love but for women its the other way round and thats why many men find it hard to forget their first love but women go on living happily with their husbands unless they had slept with their boyfriends.

Also just giving into ones urges (any kind) is not right in my opinion. Humans should exhibit self-restrained behavior. You don't go on hitting people you don't like even when you feel like punching them.

In any case, I am finding it hard to digest this discussion,not sure if its because of my age or my surroundings so I would rather be ignorant than know it all.

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Believe

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Posted: 15 years ago

#94

If we check we can find that No animal rapes its females like man does. No animal needs artificial stimulants like viagra...and humans po*no literature is a sign of a sick attitude towards sex.....I believe If people only seek pleasure out of sex, thy are bound to be frustrated sooner or later. Bcos every pleasure has its opposite.... the pain. ....Sex can really recreate and rejuvenate people, if experienced with consciousness....If people keep different kind of conditions in family lifes.....they search for freedom and involve in these activities...I think its better if we think natural way can enjoy more...😊

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return_to_hades

@return_to_hades

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Posted: 15 years ago

#95

Originally posted by: gumsum
Sex is altogether a different physical need and can't be compared to the need for food,clothing etc.

In what way is it different?

And I always thought that for men sex comes after love but for women its the other way round and thats why many men find it hard to forget their first love but women go on living happily with their husbands unless they had slept with their boyfriends.

I don't get it. I feel men and women both find it very hard to move on after they have genuinely loved someone irrespective of whether they slept with them or not. 😕 Although I agree women are less likely to sleep with someone unless they care for them.

Also just giving into ones urges (any kind) is not right in my opinion. Humans should exhibit self-restrained behavior. You don't go on hitting people you don't like even when you feel like punching them.

But see when someone is really angry they find a way to express it. Some play violent video games and kill nazi zombies. Some go to gym and punch a bag. Some pick a verbal fight. Some run. Some may actually go and find someone willing to box with them. So its actually more about finding a channel that works for you.

In any case, I am finding it hard to digest this discussion,not sure if its because of my age or my surroundings so I would rather be ignorant than know it all.

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Gunjan

@gumsum

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Posted: 15 years ago

#96

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

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Posted: 15 years ago

#97

Sex is the most intense, most passionate and the most extreme expression of love and of course it can be justified, if it wasnt for sex i wouldn't be here eh? However i wont say its the most important expression of love, their are many ways where a person can express their love and some find kissing more passionate than having sex.

Everyone needs physical need, it is one of the most important neccessity of life and we require it since the moment we learn to breathe. Let it be the motherly love for her child or a hug from friend, we are all hungry for some sorta physical need...the only thing different is the expression of physical needs and it depends on the individual themselves. Its like art, where some are good at expressing certain physical need and not so good at expressing other forms of physical needs....for example someone can be a very warm person at hugging and suck at kissing...and others can be passionate kissers but suck at having a good sex...etc...so whatever art they are good at expressing, they should express that just to take it that one step further to express their love.

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sudesh kumar

@qwertyesque

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Posted: 15 years ago

#98

dont talk about s*x just talk something decent and divine.. there is more to life than that carnal pleasure... look at the sky and the beauty all around you.. and marvel at the great creation of God... in fact many a times... people forget they have to have s*x which is why they set special ocassion like honeymoon... etc... life is not about s*x.....

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Ajnabee

@*Woh Ajnabee*

Stunner

Posted: 15 years ago

#99

Is it just me or is everyone in DM really obsessed with s*x lately?

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return_to_hades

@return_to_hades

Stunner

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Posted: 15 years ago

#100

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*
Is it just me or is everyone in DM really obsessed with s*x lately?

It goes through phases you are well aware of it. But honestly before you joined DM these sex phases were not as common. I don't know since you joined DM every few months there is a phase.

Btw why do you censor Sex. S and then E and the X. Spelling main * nahin hain. 😆

I'm worried about Qwertoo though. I think he might have found someone to marvel at the decent and divine, someone to gaze at the sky and admire the beauty of god with.

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