Case opened Ahuja vs Appa who will win

Insults are not a recent phenomenon. Neither is an insult restricted to any geographical region or race.So what makes a person want to insult someone? When is an insult justified? What are the intrinsic reasons people insult others? Is the intent always to hurt? The psychology of insults is vast, spanning cultural subtexts and primary human emotion.Is there any difference between ridicule, satire and humiliation and blunt, straight-forward insults? No but there are overlaps, but what distinguishes insults is [the aspect of] big effect with little effort' since they take advantage ofa weak point of the target."insults involve two parties, a perpetrator and a target, and possibly an audience. There can be no insult withouta perpetrator or an insulted party. A remark or action intended as an insult but not registered or experienced as one by its target, can hardly be said to constitute an insult, even if an audience recognised the intention."But why are some people so compelled to find that weakness and inflict harm on others? Hate? If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part of yourself. What isn't part of ourselves doesn't disturb us.A few psychologists believe we all havea side of our personality that we don't like to expose.

When suppressed concerns and feelings, such as lack of self-esteem; self-defeating thoughts and behaviours; guilt; and anger, for example, are not treated or dealt with, the person uses insults to unleash anger, to escape dealingwith the pain or trauma experienced or asa way to exert control [over another person] and feel powerful."People also insult because they simply do not know any better.This is where we hide away the qualities we think of as undesirable and negative, and all of the physical, verbal and emotional abuse we might have once suffered.

Ok now coming to ahuja n ramakrishnan... From the start itself ahuja was like this coz he might have had worst times , he might have beared a lot so he has changed in accordance to the world though he is not the bad person coz we saw his good side too... These people are fool enough to get manipulated n fooled by suha like persons...

Appa i wont comment on his anger issues... But the way ahuja was going on ranting , anyone could have reacted after that insult.. Art is a form that we get after years of tapasya.. When someone makes mockery out ofyour tapasya then anyone would react like this. I disagree to people who say appa could have taken ahuja privately n discussed and behaved maturely.. I mean why its always the girls side who has to bow down when its not your mistake at all... Just because he is a girls father?? Appa maintained his patiencs for long time but when ahuja crossee his limits , this has to happen... He needed it ... For the things he does by playing alojg with her daughter...