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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shruthi
Me too counting on Jaydev, who is the most matured son among the three. No one knows his mom better than him.

He indirectly slammed at his mom, telling her she alwys looked for " good education, good family" but not the love of her sons. The two words pointing the relationships of his and Abhay's.

whatever you said about Adarsh is going to be true. Trust to break, Love to hate.

if Adarsh really thinks that he cant have relationship with Swa due to their family backgrounds and their beliefs, then better Swa stay out of this relationship.

I really dont like men who thinks relationships based on superstitions and false beliefs.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@Ben you bought a nice point. Yes that can be true. But they cannot come that fast. Story has to unfold. Simmi is the means by which the DIL Ranjana Sharma will come to the fore. Interesting aspect. Simmi has a medical problem.

@Gayatri why do you think divorces happen so often. Do you think everytime the couple is at fault. Actually no. Ego of parents play a very important part in the divorces. For their life, their pretense they destroy their kids life in the name of sanskaar or whatever rubbish you want to call it. And if it is love marriage against parents wish well they will do it.
@sp it is not about whether Jai know's his mother's game plan, but he knows his mother. Her ambition. And look at the way he made Suhas bend now. He will do that again. That guy will break. Jaya is thinking everything will fine. She is not understanding she is stretching the rubber, stretching the tolerance of a man who has been denied his love. And at some point it will break. Not like the way it broke in their bedroom, but out in the open.
@pom the pretense happens more in high end societies. I don't know whether you have watched Aamir Khan's Satyameva Jayate. It had an episode that dealth with female foeticide. And in it was shown that most of it happens in the so called educated societies, while the tribal communities are happy to get baby girls in their families.


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Shru, I totally agree with you as I have the same experience , as I said earlier in one of my post, I can see myself in Swa's place. How Boy's parents ego try to break their own son's relationship in the real world. Me the first one to witness it.

My In-laws tried to break my relationship with my husband after they accepted me as their DIL and they alwys pretend to be in the good books of my hubby. at the back its totally different. Like Suha and Manohar.

Fortunately, my hubby knows his parents verywll, though he never said anything to them , but always be with me through thick and thin .
Some times I felt he might be sandwiched between me nd her parents, so I did stay calm and only focused on our relationship. Just like Swadarsh, we didnt take any tension , just enjoyed ourselfves , forgettting the dirty tricks of in-laws.

Now my mum inlaw praises me for my calmness and Intelligence through the hard times. The fruit of perseverence is always sweet. Who knows better than me.
For me,when some one falls in Love , that person will become world to them , and not blind in Love. I thought Suha also married Manohar after falling in Love with him. Just like Swadarsh .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Ben happy to know your hubby supported you dear. In many cases even that doesn't happen. After love marriage the woman is left in lurch to deal with the egoistic parents or the girl's parents indirectly insults the Son-in-law if he is not as per their status and daughter too ends up supporting them and not her hubby after the initial days of love marriage.
And Adarsh rejection. Arrey have you seen DDLJ. How Raj Malhotra Amrish puri par googly Martha hai. I am expecting Adarsh to do something of that sort. Instead of berating Swa, berating himself.
So Suhas will get what she wants, but not the way she expects 😆😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@Gayatri why do you think divorces happen so often. Do you think everytime the couple is at fault. Actually no. Ego of parents play a very important part in the divorces. For their life, their pretense they destroy their kids life in the name of sanskaar or whatever rubbish you want to call it. And if it is love marriage against parents wish well they will do it.

i agree shruti but in swadarsh case , whats your opinion ? will he give up or stand by her side?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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DDLJ climax gayatri as far as wedding goes. Aapki ki beti hai. You know what is best for your beti, maybe I am not the right person for her. Then Swa's papa " jaa beti jaa, jeele apni zindagi"😆😆😆
Then let us see, how things open up. I don't think he will leave her.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

DDLJ climax gayatri as far as wedding goes. Aapki ki beti hai. You know what is best for your beti, maybe I am not the right person for her. Then Swa's papa " jaa beti jaa, jeele apni zindagi"😆😆😆

Then let us see, how things open up. I don't think he will leave her.

this is epic😆😆😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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True. ..parent's ego really destroy's their children's happiness
one incident. .my uncle and aunty.they had only 1 child..my cousin brother...he married his childhood sweetheart ...but his parent's were not happy...yet they agreed in the fearing of losing their son...after marriage ..uncle and aunt started their games...and they literally made their own son's relationship stressed. ..and ultimately landed in divorce..but we supported the girl..because we knew ..she was not at fault..she may be a bit immature..but she was innocent and loving...but the result was..my cousin died in an accident shortly after that...so much they did to keep their son for themselves...they lost him forever...
Sometimes my parent's say that ..may be that girl did not deserve to be a widow...she didn't remarry..but she has clearly moved own...
Parent's really need to allow their children to live their life and stop playing games...because they wll get the taste of their own medicine
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Very sad to know the story adiya. See lot of games happen after marriage. I always say rishton ki maryada or boundary of relations. If a couple is unable to keep that, it is really difficult. And don't think it is easy. As a married person I know how hard it is. Not only for me, but for my spouse also as expectations from every side is too big and sometimes it just breaks you.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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The fact of the matter is, this young couple in love, they have not had a single fight so far. They want everything in equal, and that is the rule they have set for themselves. It is practically not possible for a couple to not have fights, many minor ones, and some major ones. It is also reality.
The thing is, when we are watching the show as an audience, we know both versions of the story and hence it is easy for us to make a judgement. But think about it from the characters POV. Adarsh truly believes that his mother is accepting Swadheenta just for him. That she is giving their love a chance. Now, if he sees her feeling bad about something and decides to support her, why is that wrong. Naturally he is not suspecting her. I mean, as much as you know your mother, if these things are happening in front of your eyes, you give your mother the benefit of doubt. I don't think he will be wrong, naive, stupid any of these things if he does that.

Yes, that will lead to misunderstanding and fights between these two. But in the end they will stand up for each other. I don't even know if they need anyone's help. See, Suhasini is greatly underestimating Swadheenta. Jaya is a gai (cow). She does everything to please others. Simmi is impulsive, does not think before doing anything. But Swadheenta, Suhasini ki amma hai woh. She has shown enough patience, perseverance, strength for the both of them so far, even when Adarsh has been upset. She will continue to do that. She will manage everything.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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@soap exactly. We as audience know all the perspectives hence we make judgement. Think from the character POV and we will be able to appreciate the show better.

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