Put yourself in this position...

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Posted: 17 years ago
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If you were in Shikha's place, how would you have reacted to your boyfriend acting strange around you? You call him 50 times, and he doesn't pick up. When he does pick up, he makes excuses and tries to hang up. When you say "I love you" to him, he just smiles, and sometimes says, "I care for you." You are out at a restaurant, and he says he has to go to the bathroom. You wait and wait and wait, and 2 hours go by. How would you react? Most of us agree that Shikha overreacted. If you disagree, why so? If you agree, why so? Share your thoughts on the matter here.😊

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Posted: 17 years ago
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I'd be unhappy and tell him that I don't think this relationship is getting anywhere. I'd ask him if there was someone else in his life, and I'd def tell him that if he doesn't care for me the way I care for him, I'm going to be disappointed, but it's better if he tells me, instead of my assuming things and ruining both of our lives!

Shikha did overreact, if Abhi doesn't love her, then she is making things complicated for him by killing herself! The blame will go fully on him and he'd be completely stuck and guilt-ridden. The girl is too impulsive- and that hurts, and will continue hurting her and the ones around her!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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well definately ...i wont go on the cliff to cmmit sucide 😆 😆 😆
as darklove said ...i wud hav asked him ...tht if he is not happy with relatioship then we shud end it ...cuz by ending an unwanted relationship will give u pain for few dayz or mabbe mths but to carry on an unwanted relationship will give u pain for ue whole life!!

Rememeber ...never cry for any relation in ur life cuz for one u cry doesent deserve ur tears and one who deserves will never let u cry....
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I feel bad for her....but i dont agree with the way she behaves
but even the way she behaves is obvious coz she seems to have a mental problem...

i wud deifnitely ask abhi if he wants to break up..and end it...its tough to do it..but no point in hanging onto someone who doesnt love u....not worth it..

but bechara abhi kya kare...he asked her if in future for his happiness wud she let him go
she said she cant let him go 😆 😆 😆
so abhi tho buri tara phas gaya
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bugger

Rememeber ...never cry for any relation in ur life cuz for one u cry doesent deserve ur tears and one who deserves will never let u cry....

very true...good philosophy

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Posted: 17 years ago
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See, if my boyfriend acted like Abhi, i'd be pissed too, n i'd fight with him about it. I mean, he says he has to go to the bathroom n then he just leaves, yeah I understand he job isnt something ordinary, be he should be making a effort to make the relationship work too, i wouldnt jump off a cliff for him but i'd be upset lol

But, you cant compare us to shikha, she has a mental illness, her reactions to these things are going to be extreme, so you have to understand her. Like we all joke n say she's a pyscho, but not many ppl realize that she really is somewhat psychotic. She loses the reality of whats right and wrong. It's really not her fault.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dark Love

I'd be unhappy and tell him that I don't think this relationship is getting anywhere. I'd ask him if there was someone else in his life, and I'd def tell him that if he doesn't care for me the way I care for him, I'm going to be disappointed, but it's better if he tells me, instead of my assuming things and ruining both of our lives!

Shikha did overreact, if Abhi doesn't love her, then she is making things complicated for him by killing herself! The blame will go fully on him and he'd be completely stuck and guilt-ridden. The girl is too impulsive- and that hurts, and will continue hurting her and the ones around her!

I agree with u! U sed everything i was going to lol!

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bugger

well definately ...i wont go on the cliff to cmmit sucide 😆 😆 😆
as darklove said ...i wud hav asked him ...tht if he is not happy with relatioship then we shud end it ...cuz by ending an unwanted relationship will give u pain for few dayz or mabbe mths but to carry on an unwanted relationship will give u pain for ue whole life!!

Rememeber ...never cry for any relation in ur life cuz for one u cry doesent deserve ur tears and one who deserves will never let u cry....

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i soo agreee with what u said, i mean jsut cuz he left u at the resturant and went cuz of some important job, she doesnt even let him explain why he leftt 😡

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Posted: 17 years ago
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😉 yes it's better to end up the relationship than continuing it as a majboori.....i would have definately talked about it & would leave him if he is not interested ........... 😕 😆 😉
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Posted: 17 years ago
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hmmm...does anybody think Shikha;s reaction was legitimate???

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