Originally posted by: ShivThak23
I completely understand your pov and agree 2. I started to see d3 around mitwa phase. And I could understand Taani then. Afterwards, when I saw the old scenes, I found them cute, but couldnt relate with her. I think, Taani was portrayed as a girl fresh in love. I have seen so many girls who fall in love. And trust me, they all go crazy or impractical. We can say Thats the glory of first love. And so I understood Taani. And also related with her to an extent. Obv she made mistakes, but I thought ki she was maturing with time. Like u said, Shivam's truth out. So I understood her. But I dont know, some time, after confession, I cant really understand her. Only because of the storyline. Its going backward. I really cant understand her nw. Suddenly she has no dreams in her life? If you didnt understand her earlier, you will say ki she never had any dream. But I guess all TaaRey fans know ki that is not the case. She was shown to have dreams. dreaming to dance on stage, she wanted to do something in her life. She wanted her life to have a purpose. Her monologues 'meri ehmiyat kya he' etc etc suggested so. I could relate with her. Maybe because somewhere we all go through a phase, where we search for the purpose of our life. Our passion, career etc etc. And I could see in her a little confused me, immature me, a normal girl. You said ki 15 year old girl is like that. But I think ki age does not matter. Like u gave example of Geet(same thoughts:-P). You mature not with time, but with experience. And Taani is one of many girls who has been over protected so she never had to face the realities of world. I looked at the situation this way. Also coz she was portrayed as a normal girl. Compassionate and loving. All she wants is to be loved just like any other girl. And I was also like that kbhi to ki kitna b hurt ho, cant hurt my loved ones. So I related with her. Yes, there are some things which I didnt understand or like. Like coming to mumbai for rey. I guess I am just too shy or old fashioned to actually take such a huge step, and also one more thing, why she wants to be friends with gang after a kadvi history.
Abt TaaRey, I differ. I think this is beauty of TaaRey that they r not friends. Around monsoon special, when Taani was trying to concentrate on other things then Rey, then Rey started to realize his feelings for her. When she was maturing. And afterwards, when Sharon told her to not be a damsel in distress and trust in own ability, their love grew. So I think it was good. Because she was finally finding out purpose of life and developing. My sir said this in his class ki you wont find your true love if you dont find your self first. And I think this was nicely showed. Then suddenly after 2 months of confession, she is back to the old Taani who was blind in love. So this is what confuses me. And it doesnt make sense if she says ki 'muje int hi nahi he'. And it hurts. Because I cant imagine such a girl. I dont understand this and It makes me question my opinion abt her. Frankly, I really dont like such girls. Whats the meaning of ur life if u have no ambitions? Thats all I want to say