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In this serial almost two situations are running similarly and the people handling it are different and doing it their own way. Lets start with Sharma family. Pratap who listened to his wife's words got completely distracted (bhatakgaya) from his immediate family his mom,brother & his family. But what did NT dadi do she called him, made his favorite dish and spoke with him so sweetly,gently and gave him the lesson which is right. And what happened after that, it is working slowly and he is realizing his mistakes and taking the steps towards meniding his relations. But Sood's handling of situation. Viren who because of no fault of his was sent to hostel at a tender age and when he returns just for revenge, he too is bhatkgaya aatma. And he did such a grave mistake of stalking his own innocent wife to get to his brother and everyone got to know about it. What was their reaction, to send him away break all relations with him, is that right? If you people really love your kid when he did such a grave mistake in his life what will you do you will scold him, slap him and question him why he did this to his wife. Ok they did not do any of this but wanted to break relations with him , still he told them why he did this, because he hated everyone for sending him away for not loving him, he said from childhood I started believing Sid is my greatest enemy. What should have Sood's did, specially dadaji and Sid. They should have spoken with him, communication is very important in any relation. Did we see any communication between the brothers or the grandpa and grandson from the day of confrontation, a BIG NO. And they all throwing everything at NIvi, she will get him to his senses, how much can that poor girl do, she can go to some extent, but mostly before Viren is her husband he is not your son,grandson,cousin. No everyone of them put all the job on Nivi's shoulder. First day, he comes to the BF table and dadaji asks him to sit with them but he refuses, that's it you guys are done. you should persist, one day or the other the kid will turn around, NO he said I will sit alone and they let him. Pooja, you already know that guy doesnot even believe that much in God, why you need to do pooja, ok lets say because man ki shanthi, so don't you guys tell or ask him before doing that again no communication, it was Nivi again to take the responsibility. And not only pooja invite the entire Shimla for that event, you guys donot have a good realtion with the kid and you want him to behave properly. and what do they do in the pooja when the guy sits with his shoes on, they just kept glaring at him, if you really love the kid, tell him he is doing wrong, ask him to remove his shoes and if he insists then make him leave the pooja. Then why don't the kid understand. Is it Love or Guilt? which is making them act like this. Viren dancing with loud music, if you really care and love the kid give him a tight slap because he is doing wrong no they just yell and keep quiet.
CC is she showing love or guilt? if she really loves her kid, she should be a good mother and tell him what is right and wrong? she should stop him when he talking rudely with grandpa, when he is sitting in the pooja with shoes on. I say its guilt working.
Today when he enters the family room, why should you all stop talking, one looks at him with anger, other two looks at him with guilt and other two looks what to do with you kind of. what is wrong he is the son of the family and you got second chance to show him you Love him, instead of calling him and talking to him and making him comfortable they are just ignoring and alienating him, then how can you expect himto behave in a good way. And yes, he will behave rudely to you all until one month is over and then you guys can throw him out. Is this how they handle their kid? When ever he shows attitude they look at Nivi, what will that girl do, she said she will show them the real Viren but she can do uptil some extent the rest you guys should forward a helping hand. NO, then will just sit and watch the tamasha, and let him do whatever he wants because they are guilty he will leave them again. What will they do after one month if he doesnot change will they extent the lease for him?
And Nivi, I thought she understood his pain on the day of revelation but I think not. Yes, she knows how good a person Viren is but she should remember what he told her on that day, that his family never treated him good, and right now she is seeing it with her own eyes. She should talk to them and ask them to communicte with Viren, and don't just give in to what ever he says rather talk some sense into him(he already has much of it than the others) I can understand her being patient is very much necessary but just by cleaning up his mess she won't bring good Viren back within one month right? she needs to do other stuff, some other means which will reveal the good Viren to the family but what is she doing, nothing. Today she was doing the same as the whole family did looking at Viren as if some stranger entered their family room, that is the reason poor guy always calls for Nandu his Bandu. I don't know how she will bring that real Viren upfront within one month but its a big task she took, she needs to take someother means to achieve it.
In the end I want to say Sood's let Viren live with them one more month not because they love him but to eraze their guilt what they did 20 years back.
If you really love someone you will praise them when they do good,you will show them your appreciation when they achieve something,you get angry,scold or slap them when they do wrong, when they are taking wrong step you talk to them and tell them what is wrong. That is called Love and that is what Viren needs right now and he is asking for it but Sood's are not understanding it but just giving in to him for whatever he does just out of their guilt. That is not called Love and that is the reason he is pushing everyone away and committing one mistake after another so that they will throw him out, so that atlast he can breath fresh air.
It has been what 3 days they came to know Viren was the stalker, that is a grave mistake unpardonable mistake and no one is asking him why you did it, how could you harm your wife everyone of them just forgot about it. That is soo damn shameful. That is the reason I am waiting for NT dadi to know what Viren did and want to see her reaction. If she really loves Viren she should slap him so hard that he comes to his senses, that will show him what Love is. She praised him when he did good and hugged him and now if she will hit him for the right reason. I do hope CT's won't break my hope with NT dadi.
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