Originally posted by: IAmLuvBolly
I acknowledged that I was wrong about bringing heterosexuality as an example. I shouldn’t have that done that. But I stand by everything else I said in my original post. I never made the argument of “everybody does it” therefor it’s OK. I said, and I still say, that making jokes about Ayan’s years long love for Ranbir is entirely about him being in love for years and not moving on. I have not seen anyone bringing any homophobic tropes into the discussion here on IF in recent times.
it's not about just using heterosexuality as an example but don't you think even mocking someone's feelings for a person is itself so wrong? Whatever it is, it's very personal to him. Moving or or not, it's entirely one's choice as long as it's not having a diverse affect on the person they like or harming anyone else how does it matter? Beside, no one knows, no matter how much people talk about "open secret" what is Ayan is to Ranbir. Just think about them being really just best friend & time n again reading such unwanted comment, being a butt of people's joke ; must not be a really good feeling. Same for DP. She is married now. She sure can be hating on RK in secret or still have fondness towards him, it's for her to deal with. Just because she is is a public figure, it doesn't mean we can just trash talk about her all we want.
We, as individuals may not be able to change the entire society but if we don't participate in it & can make even one person to not do it, that itself would be a big change.
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