Done with Salman for good.

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Mistyy

@Mistyy

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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

I totally understand since I grew up loving his charecters on screen so I will always have soft spot for him. But I have decided long time ago that I am going to separate his on screen and off screen persona. I enjoy watching him on screen but can't defend his stupidity.

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Justmoi

@Justmoi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: TheBoss

Are you serious? Don't give anyone that much importance to influence over your emotions that much. Nobody is worth it, especially not some random celebrity who doesn't even you know you exist. Be vocal, be clear and be assertive in your opinions. Just don't take the sadness in. He is just another ignorant with backward mentality and not worth sweating over. People like him belong in the stone ages with their regressive and patrichial mindset. Don't take him seriously. He isn't normal. He thinks he knows but he doesn't.

I agree with what you said, but liking someone from childhood is special. The initial wow I felt for them if it stays through adulthood is completely different from liking an actor as an adult. I still watch those crap movies because they hold so much memories, happy memories and make me smile. They even have the power to make a crappy day as an adult a bit better because they take me to a happier place. If TM has felt any of it, the hurt is real.

You are absolutely right thought, no one is worth it and certainly not some random celebrity who does not know you exist. I cannot speak for TM of course, but these celebs are part of your memories and you do not look at the person you feel for as a child the same as someone you like as an actor when you became an adult. Childhood makes you look at people and things without any filters and with a sense of wonder. We all, well many of us have those people who go beyond just a celeb as a child. I cannot speak for TM but if this were me I would be feeling sad about something innocent and rather wonderful changing. The hurt makes absolute sense to me.

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sanju

@Sanju_

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Hey, I know where you are coming from...I think people who tend to act emotionally specially go through this phase...I get emotionally attached to even some of my materialistic stuff, so childhood memories have even more emotional attachments...I thought I liked Salman and Karishma when I was a kid and that still remains intact. I liked Salman through his films, not because of his personality because I don't think I ever used to watch celeb interviews then lol, so even now when he does something disappointing (as a fan it's annoying and kinda sad too) but I am not going to blur my memories because of that and I am not going to stop watching his films either because I loved him as the film hero in the first place rather than his offscreen persona.

Having said that he is not even half as bad as this forum loves portraying him to be, people have different reasons to hate him and that hatred just magnifies thousand folds sometimes so do not get disheartened by what some people here say! I know his words were very insensitive and I really hope that he seeks an apology but I am not going to left some people who insinuate bad motives to everything he does affect me: for instance, some members here insinuated that he was waiting for Harshaali (munni from BB) to grow up to cast opposite himself, they also insinuated he is seeking pleasure from a 18 year old Diangana whom Salman is mentoring, they repeatedly insinuate that he terrorizes people through his underworld connections, etc. etc!! So yeah just use your personal judgment...personally I am out of that phase where I would religiously follow any celeb...it's all about entertainment...I do wait for Salman's movies and if they seem something I might like, I will go watch them and anybody who is going to judge me for that doesn't matter in my life!!