My way or the highway??

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I've been here for about a year now.(made the accnt but didn't use it till 2013)
I noticed that we tend to get very defensive of celebs, in fact so much that people end up trashing each other..while this fun when it's healthy argument that all forget about as we leave the thread till you login again off course..πŸ˜†
Sometimes it get too far, it becomes too boring..I actually happened to love more when we are having healthy argument, it's more fun to read. my opinion.


My question is can't people not like an actor you happen to love?? what does it have to do with you as individual??
Why do we have this need of everyone loving/liking our fav??
If someone bashes Dpad i will come and say, No she's not this and that.
You just hating on her, you hater..even people tend to blv we bash their fav just to fight with them.
As much as i hate to admit, it motivates me sometimes to keep bashing the celeb i dislike.
I mean if you get upset cuz i bashed celeb and you end up bashing me, I'd do it again just to get you worked up..but that's not why i don't like them, i just simply don't like them, why is it so hard to blv that?


My question is why can we just accept the fact that not everyone will like the celebs you like, and make a peace with it?? is this just some kind of human nature??
Cuz no matter how you try, you will find yourselves quoting a member for celeb


P.S.I genuinely just wanna know what everyone thinks?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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That's the typical IF mentality- you don't like someone means you are a hater.I like Deepika but don't agree with her PR tactics and open letters and still get tagged as a hater by her fans like Rashmi,etc. You just can't do anything about it.
I think right now the situation is such that you don't need to dislike the actor, just disagree with the actor's opinion or question their action and bam, fans start pushing their opinion down your throat. ( though I have done that in the past too).
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Everyone has their opinions and fav's . Just like the good comments and ignore the bad ones . But don't take what anyone says too seriously. Everyone's crazy . Me especially πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: KochurShaakBata

That's the typical IF mentality- you don't like someone means you are a hater.I like Deepika but don't agree with her PR tactics and open letters and still get tagged as a hater by her fans like Rashmi,etc. You just can't do anything about it.

I think right now the situation is such that you don't need to dislike the actor, just disagree with the actor's opinion or question their action and bam, fans start pushing their opinion down your throat. ( though I have done that in the past too).

bach ke rahiyo ; someone will comeback with vengeance πŸ˜†
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Good tht u realise tht 😊 . There are few people here who take this fandom to a whole deep personal level and there in lies the root-cause of abhorrition
Edited by mahatma123 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Franco

Everyone has their opinions and fav's . Just like the good comments and ignore the bad ones . But don't take what anyone says too seriously. Everyone's crazy . Me especially πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

I like your craziness i wld say, but that got me in trouble last time i did.πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: mahatma123

Good tht u realise tht 😊 . There are few people here who take this fandom to a whole deep personal level and there in lies the root-cause of abhorriton

I noticed that you trying to pick a fight with me, but i don't know why you don't understand that I'm not really interested?? πŸ˜ƒ


I realize that very much, and i don't attack anyone who says something against the likes of SRK Bebo etc.
The people you see me attack are people who attack me for bashing celeb, And I'm not one to back down if you threw the first punch..as simple as that..😊
I don't like Kat or Sonam doesn't mean i have anything against the people who like them
I'd appreciate if you stop trying to pick unnecessary fights with me

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sometimes people get easily riled up, hence it doesn't take much time for things to go all nasty and personal. LOL]

But I guess, every individual has a weak spot for some or the other topic. For some its sports, for some its politics and for some its bollywood and celebs.

I remember myself indulging in a debate with my friend some ages ago. It started off with one of us criticizing the Govt. for certain something and we ended up counting each other's weaknesses in general. We were that pissed off. 😲 πŸ˜†

However things get distastefull if carried for long. Nothing nasty should last longer. 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: krackjack

Sometimes people get easily riled up, hence it doesn't take much time for things to go all nasty and personal. LOL]

But I guess, every individual has a weak spot for some or the other topic. For some its sports, for some its politics and for some its bollywood and celebs.

I remember myself indulging in a debate with my friend some ages ago. It started off with one of us criticizing the Govt. for certain something and we ended up counting each other's weaknesses in general. We were that pissed off. 😲 πŸ˜†

However things get distastefull if carried for long. Nothing nasty should last longer. 😊

πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
Exactly my point we get carried away..
I argue/fight a lot lately but at the end of it,As much fun as it's when I'm doing it
ask myself was it worth it really??


I think it's just part being human..lame excuse i know πŸ˜†
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Posted: 10 years ago
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When I started commenting here and criticised Katrina. I was immediately questioned and later DP was brought up in conversation.As if I can't comment on Katrina. Now I too do the same once in a while(bringing other's fav in conversation)πŸ˜† But I dont attack members or fan groups.
Edited- to elaborate my sentence.
Edited by SG200 - 10 years ago

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