Wake UP Mahek !!! - Page 7

Originally posted by: kaushikbasu

I guess in that case you should appreciate Abu Salem or Adul Kasab as well they are even a step further as they are ready to die for their friends and masters. Loyalty towards friends can never have a higher value than valuing the dignity of a person in general.

Originally posted by: sha1

Are they even comparable tangents to whats being discussed on this forum? kindly check ur sensitivity chip. Yes loyalty is a highly valued trait for me and whether it is above or below another trait or behavior is an individual's personal take. And valuing someone dignity so highly that u turn a blind eye at someone being remorseful and trying to change is according to me even worse then any in-dignifying act. Everyone should be given a fair chance at change.

Originally posted by: kaushikbasu

Yes, I do agree that I took it to an extreme, but is he actually trying to change? I am not sure about that, he insulted Amar the other day totally unprovoked. As I said before he does not insult only in the heat of the moment but he does it with a cool mind and deliberately, after sometime he says sorry. But if someone continue to repeat the insults and the sorry I am not sure how truly is he sorry about the matter.

Originally posted by: kaushikbasu

There is a virtue called politeness, ever heard of it? Insulting people on the face that too unprovoked I fail to understand how can anyone appreciate that?

Originally posted by: sha1

Like i said the threshold of tolerance is subjective to every individual- Sky does have a way of talking that may not appeal to everyone but it has clicked with a significant number of people cause he says what he does in-front not behind anyone's back. I'd rather some calls me names in front of my face- what ever that name calling- I find those behind the back name-calling and discussion more threatening- At least in Sky's case he clearly gives the person in front a fair chance at rebutting!

Originally posted by: kaushikbasu

There is a virtue called politeness, ever heard of it? Insulting people on the face that too unprovoked I fail to understand how can anyone appreciate that?

Originally posted by: blue-ice

nope not always...he hits people below the belt and then claims that he was joking...we all know he is not joking...agar itni himmat hai...toh hit people below the belt without calling it a joke...the incident that Kaushikji is talking about where he called Amar a 'napunsak'...he said it was part of the gossip and nothing personal towards Amar...then he goes out and laughs with Sid saying that...ab personal comments toh kar nahi sakta...isliye gossip ke bahane se bol diya...and then again he went inside and told amar that it was a gossip and nothing personal...is this your idea of being straight forward...i don't think so...agar himmat thee to kehta amar ko ...ki i have called u napunsak...kya karega?...straight forward to shraddha thee...who abused on the face but never said that it was a joke...too bad that ...Amar really turned out to be a napunsak that day...he accepted sky's sorry because he is so eager to win🤢

ya and more thing...how easily sky insults people and then says sorry...but if the others do the same...its...sorry can't make a dead man alive...

Originally posted by: kaushikbasu

BTW why are we discussing Sky in this thread isn't this supposed to be Mehak's? Just another comment this is neither love nor war, also both always had rules and boundaries. This proverb was just to justify unethical tactics involved.