Warning - Long rant
I don't know why people assume that they have a right to play moral police for anyone. And brining the bible in is a lame excuse. People should not be homosexuals, should not be in a live in relationship, people should not indulge in pre-marital sex etc, because the bible says so. Why can't people understand the fact that the bible has different interpretations for different people. Is it so difficult to understand that a person's relationship with God might be different from your relationship with god!!! So please, let's keep the religious issues aside and talk about it.
So, what gives us a right to judge someone's personal life. Why should one call carol, "SUCH A GIRL" because of what she does personally. It's not like is in involved in flesh trade or something. Why can't she live with someone she loves. Why is the 'married' trademark so essential. OK, it might be essential for you. Can people not understand that it might not be for the other person.
Fine, say that you don't like it. Or maybe that you won't do it. But why say derogtory things about a girl because it's her lifestyle choice!!!
Who gave anyone a right to judge their personal lives anyways. I smoke. I have a live in relationship too. My parents are one of those self righteous people who will not take their daughters' earnings no matter what. And they want a big wedding for their daughter too. So what do I do!!! I live with my boyfriend, saving money every month so that I can contribute somehow for my wedding. With three more sisters, I don't want my parents to spend a lot on my wedding. Maybe they are emotional fools to want a big wedding for me, but I care for their emotions. So yeah, bottomline, I smoke, I live with my boyfriend. I guess that makes me "such a girl" too.
Anyways, I am not complaining, what one might or might not think about my lifestyle doesn't keep me up at night unless it's my family that we are talking about. All I am trying to do here is question people who measure everyone by their yardsticks to judge their moral stand.
Quit it guys. The world would be a much more beautiful place if only people started worrying about their lives as much as they interfere in others'.