An observation i made...

A lot of people claimed here that housemates are nuts to react, overreact, get personal, gali galoch, etc etc etc and how they shouldn't etc etc etc or how folks play holier than thou on the forums...

yet, umpteen times i have seen where i (or even others for that matter) make a harmless post or one going against the pov of the TM's or anyother poster's within a thread... they instead of taking it for face value or just agreeing to disagree at times, will start getting all personal at you the person for saying i like or dont like xyz or what they did or did not do... and full steam is blown off on you until hopefully realized at some point later on that wait, others can have an opinion too... or WOW how quickly i lost my temper for no reason...

and on the other hand they are seen saying "yeh xyz itna temper kyon lose kartay hain" "shouldn't have said it like that" "shouldn't have reacted" "was only a joke" "only a show" etc etc...

while at the same time doing what they are complaining about others of doing...😕

bas ho geya mera serious pana khatam i can't control my self anymore... mar loh jutiyaan saday tonh nahin reya jana...


jao sabh tail lene... 😃

^^^ jitna marzi dhoondh leh, tujhay tail wala gif nahin milnay laga aaj... lolz

Originally posted by: TheBoss

Since when do random strangers opinion matter to you? It is very likely that you are ever going to meet any of them in your real life. It is also going to be very very unlikely that you are going to settle down and marry one of them.

Does it really matter who says what? Why would you get bothered? People who cannot respond logically and attack you instead of attacking your opinion are helpless causes and thus not worthy of you investing your feelings in them to feel disappointed.

I thank those who even personally attack me, most of the times I actually chuckle to see them get worked up and all up in the arms -- it actually amuses me. However I say what I say and move one, you will find people liking me on one post only to take offense on another post -- that my friend is your individuality so instead of being the sheep and following others you are swiming on your own, as you want, at your will.

Always remind yourself; those who don't matter to you shouldn't affect you, and those who do matter to you, know you better and has accepted you for what you are.

That is my principle of life and it has served me quite well... 😊

i know, thats what i am talking about... itna work up honay ki kya zaroorat hoti hai... everyone is just too worked up... even if we know a person in real life... we all have a handle, and we say things that are a bit out of proportion or will hit the wrong notes for others, can't please all at the same time... yet people cry foul every other minute... i could care less and always post what i feel like... at times i lay off too and tell the person its just a joke...

khair... sanu ki... 😃