Do people on this forum understand? - Page 5

Originally posted by: PiscineMolitor

Sorry, i beg to differ.

Shilpa said the incident with arman took her back to another incident where some guys started beating them up.

Secondly, she also mentioned that Apoorv is like her father she lost at a young age, her child she hasn't had till now and the closest person next to God. Imagine YOU had someone like that in your life. Where one person is your EVERYTHING.

Would you not get 'hyper' or angry if he was being hurt?

It's not about speaking up for himself. It's about the fact that he would rather remain calm and not make a big deal out of it, and in that process, let the mad dog (arman) bark to himself.

Shilpa didn't do it for standing up for her husband.

It was her reaction regarding her feelings towards her husband Apoorv.

Originally posted by: J-SK

Someone mentioned he ignores women problems on the show. I personally hate when someone plays the woman card to win an argument. If you are on a show where you are equal to the male contestants, then you should not demand special respect for being a woman. So I am not sure when he ignored it but I am glad that he does and I didn't like when he supported Mehak for it either.

Originally posted by: Carabelli5

I understand your sympathy for Asif as I feel the same for him at times. However, he needs to take a stand for himself and not rely on Salman or BB. I think he is also to be blamed for turning himself into a laughing stock. From what I hear he is a successful model, but I am yet to see the confidence in him. As far as Arman is concerned I highly doubt anyone dislikes that chauvinist more than me. And lastly the fact that Asif didn't get personal and abusive with Noman is an attestation to his good character.

As far as Shilpa is concerned, I have non prob with Shilpa standing up for her husband. However he is a 3o smthg year old man who can speak for himself and when she tries to fight his battles she presents him a bad light. the forum has been filled with Shilpa hate post previously and Salman was only trying to make them aware of it.

Cheers!

Originally posted by: -Cruiser-

You really think his 'advices' are his own? 😲

TV show hosts have a huge Tele-promptor in front of their eyes which has bullet points coming across as the shoot goes on besides concealed microphones inside their ears which continuously relay the inputs from experts on the other side.

But for these little aids, there can not be an Amitabh successfully projecting himself as fountain of knowledge doing a KBC, just as Shahrukh would appear Chauthi fail while doing a Kya Aap Paanchvi Paas Hain...and Salman would fare even worse than a teesri fail! 😆

Originally posted by: silverbug

I don't like it when people over play the women card either but it's a genuine argument in this case.

Don't you think the way Armaan has treated women deserved a strong rebuke ? I felt that he neutralized the whole thing between Ellie and Armaan by making it seem like both sides were equally wrong and even tilting in favor of Armaan to some extent. Sorry, this is not the woman card. I think there is a genuine problem with how women are treated in the country. We are not some liberal, feminist western country where men are against the wall. And at a time like this I feel people should voice their opposition when they see injustice regardless of the platform otherwise it just sends out a very wrong message.

Originally posted by: silverbug

I don't like it when people over play the women card either but it's a genuine argument in this case.

Don't you think the way Armaan has treated women deserved a strong rebuke ? I felt that he neutralized the whole thing between Ellie and Armaan by making it seem like both sides were equally wrong and even tilting in favor of Armaan to some extent. Sorry, this is not the woman card. I think there is a genuine problem with how women are treated in the country. We are not some liberal, feminist western country where men are against the wall. And at a time like this I feel people should voice their opposition when they see injustice regardless of the platform otherwise it just sends out a very wrong message.

Originally posted by: J-SK

He let both sides put their argument on the table and left it at that. It was already resolved between Elli and Armaan and he wasn't required to pass his own judgement on the matter. I totally agreed with Elli in that fight because I got her point of being a foreigner and Indian men thinking she is easy.

Salman brought the matter up and had a full discussion on it and that is not ignoring it. But like I said, its the price he has to pay for being who he is, people are gonna pick on everything he does or says. If he supported Armaan, then people would say he is like that himself, if he supported Elli, people would say its because he likes her and when he ignores, he ruins Bigg Boss.

Originally posted by: silverbug

I think you will find that if he supported Ellie, the number of people who would applaud him for doing the right thing will far far outnumber the people who say that he is saying it because he likes Ellie.

I don't particularly like Mahek but really appreciated it when Salman and Sanjay took the case against Sid and Sky because they had crossed all lines especially Sid with his kicking act. Sure, in hindsight he was being selective but what he did was a fair and right thing to do.