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Posted: 10 years ago
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I was very disappointed by Aman's choice of words while nominating Suyesh. According to Aman, Suyesh is taking female position in his relationship with Kush 😲
Taking stand and making decisions are not just reserved for men ... What nonsense he mean by female position? Very sad state of mind.

PS: NOT fan of Suyesh ... I am just a believer in gender equality!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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may be aman worded wrongly but its not abt gender equality/unequality ! what he meant is suyash should own up and behave strongly instead of crying and cribbing for everything when it comes to him and his GF !
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Har cheez ko gender k issue pe revolve na karo.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Salman must be happy with his words.
But Aman is a loser.

According to him females can't have strong position in a relationship. There is a reason he is alone at this age.

This old man is a moron just wearing mask of saadhu for image makeover. After casting couch fiasco he was almost thrown out of industry and here to improve his image but can't hide his inner feelings.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Cool-KeshuVS-

He meant that whenever someone tries to talk with him, kishwer interrupts.. When Rishabh made kishwer bitch, he was just crying... Be a MAN! & save your girl bhale hi vo mana kare... But he is a big phattu... A man has quality to speak loud, fight while girls are always soft spoken (they takes stand only when its worthy) ... Suyash needs people to support him, even when prince fought with him he was scared


I understand but Aman using 'female position' phrase negates the core point and sabotages the dignity of gender equality is my point. That's why I said wrong choice of words and that comes from his own belief of male and female roles in a relationship.

Neither all men are loud nor all women are soft spoken, nature is not bound by gender anyways, stereotypes gets timed out from time to time.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: fivestars

may be aman worded wrongly but its not abt gender equality/unequality ! what he meant is suyash should own up and behave strongly instead of crying and cribbing for everything when it comes to him and his GF !


I think it is little bit more than wording it wrong, I get a feeling that Aman believes that a man should lead in a relationship and that prompted him to use ' female position' in the first place.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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his choice of words were wrong and he used a common statement that is used
for eg, the common phrase is "she wears the pants in the house " , its used a lot and though in todays world, the phrase doesnt make sense, its still used.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: joker83

Har cheez ko gender k issue pe revolve na karo.


Well I didn't raise any thing on gender issue before this topic, Aman didn't had to use' female position' phrase as a synonym of non stance taking or being on sidelines nature of Suyesh
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: tina59

his choice of words were wrong and he used a common statement that is used

for eg, the common phrase is "she wears the pants in the house " , its used a lot and though in todays world, the phrase doesnt make sense, its still used.


Exactly my point! That's why I said 'sad state of mind' not moving with changing times.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I didn't like it either. I like Aman but i can see shades of male chauvinism in him. This happened before also when he pulled Mandana's arm and told her not to do "Mardon wale Kaam".

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