Gautam: pathetic coward mama's boy - Page 5

Originally posted by: mix_of_emotions

+4 to everythng in points😳

having said tht i do thnk being on camera one shud draw boundaries ..its not iam blaming them only but also the colors team at 9 pm we watch show with family and its gets so embaressing tht i have to close my ears and eyes to escape this.ya to 11 pm slot pe daal do ya edit kardo .for me gf bf ho na ho jo personal karna hai ghar ke bahar jake karo ...lip locks se itna bhi prb nahi tha but when u get too intimate it irks like anythng

my pov😊

Originally posted by: Teja_main_hoon

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Originally posted by: Kwerky23

Arreyy Chingaari...in that uncensored footage thread with the ewww-pictures. 😆 😆 Asking if we all are sati-savitris who are puking at these images. 😆Maybe the post was removed under the swacch Bharat campaign. 😆 😆

Originally posted by: Kwerky23

It is NOT ABOUT Indian mentality here. If it was, then Gauhar Khan wouldn't have gone on to win the show last year DESPITE similar attempts.

The question here is:

1. Sidekick immediately laying the entire blame on Di when first confronted with the reality of the footage actually being aired.

2. Then he bulldozed her into 'just friends' status yesterday AFTER Puneet and Dimpy told him that he is damaging his image.

3. Whatever they were doing is their business - but nowhere was it stuff that 'FRIENDS' do. Not in India and not anywhere else. So demeaning friendship and conveniently terming their lustful advances and antics as 'friendship' is pathetic. And this was solely done by Gulati, not Diandra

I did not see any 'resolving' yesterday. I saw a man without a spine doing damage control of his image for selfish reasons...in the process hurting the feelings of the woman and coming out of the entire thing looking even more of a loser.

Originally posted by: Kwerky23

+1 to Pizza's points. 😃

@mix of emotions: While I agree here that the content wasn't suitable for prime time, I do not subscribe to the thinking that the channel should have edited it out. 😳 They have however edited out much in-your-face irksome stuff which can be seen on another thread here.

Not airing This would have been manipulating the content or hiding this major facet of the contestants' personalities.

It was important that it was shown because now we can clearly see what kind of a person Gulati is ...who went ahead to do everythinh and then when he realized that it is damaging his winning prospects...as you said - Khaaye Peeye Khiske.

It showed us the real 'hero'. 🤡

Originally posted by: Picasso9

Sooo it's not about Indian mentality and yet you mention what the 'norm' in India is? 😕

Your perspective neglects to acknowledge that Diandra is a consenting adult. 😆 He may be a loser to you but at least he's not continuing to 'use' her but is being honest with her right now. His honesty may not speak to your version of it but what proof do you have that he is not being sincere about continuing to be friends with her? It's up to her to accept or reject or believe his explanations right? At least he mended fences with her during his captaincy. Some relationships are just meant to be at a platonic level or at a lustful level or a deeper level. When the people in the relationship figure it out they act on it. Who are we to judge. It was plain to see how horny Diandra was. No gun was held to her head. If she expected something deep in a show where she herself accused G of playing to the cameras then she is an even bigger fool than I thought.

Originally posted by: Born2Pizza

What i think, where he went wrong -

1. When he said "Woh leke gayi bathroom" - not owning up his deed, lack of responsibility.

2. He did get many chances where he could have clear up his relation including this wkv but no he used diandra as shield to escape the heat.

3. He suddenly u-turned when he gets to know about negative feedback - which shows how other people approvals matter - it also highlights lack of confidence, get influenced from other people

4. Never set boundaries - where to end things up and it all turn up into such mess that BB has to organize a party. 😆

I think they're adults and if they're comfortable than they don't have to bother about world- just like praneet said. And if they think they have done some mistake, they both should own up, rather putting all things on 1 person, have this much guts. Backing off by Gautam shows he was just playing - dats all, maybe diandra was also playing but her constantly saying that "this is genuine", only shows she was on other level and probably wanted to take things other way.

Originally posted by: Kwerky23

Sooo it's not about Indian mentality and yet you mention what the 'norm' in India is? 😕

Your perspective neglects to acknowledge that Diandra is a consenting adult. 😆 He may be a loser to you but at least he's not continuing to 'use' her but is being honest with her right now. His honesty may not speak to your version of it but what proof do you have that he is not being sincere about continuing to be friends with her? It's up to her to accept or reject or believe his explanations right? At least he mended fences with her during his captaincy. Some relationships are just meant to be at a platonic level or at a lustful level or a deeper level. When the people in the relationship figure it out they act on it. Who are we to judge. It was plain to see how horny Diandra was. No gun was held to her head. If she expected something deep in a show where she herself accused G of playing to the cameras then she is an even bigger fool than I thought.

Lolll...please tell me where do 'friends' do stuff like what these two were doing? That's not friends...maybe friends with benefits, at best. I think this is the norm EVERYWHERE, NOT JUST IN INDIA. 😲

You are again circumventing the core issue here. It wasn't about Di being a consenting adult...or whatver they were doing.

HONESTY??? What honesty is Gulati showing? 😆 Running back with the jhandaa of 'friends' after knowing the BRICKBATS he is receiving and AFTER Dimpy and Puneet explained to him that he is damaging his image.

Did you even look at Diandra's face and expressions during their conversation yesterday? Di has NEVER BEEN APOLOGETIC About the stuff they were doing. It is Gulati who has shown how spineless he is. 👎🏼He pursued her, asked her for massages, sang songs for her, suggestive dialogues everywhere, went behind the closed doors with her (NOT DRAGGED, NOT DRUGGED)...and at the end of the day...he has the gall to say it was 'friendship'! Mummy ko dikhaneey ke liye ya duniya ke liye...ya damage control? 🥱

Appalling! Disgusting! In India or anywhere else.

Originally posted by: Kwerky23

Lolll...please tell me where do 'friends' do stuff like what these two were doing? That's not friends...maybe friends with benefits, at best. I think this is the norm EVERYWHERE, NOT JUST IN INDIA. 😲

You are again circumventing the core issue here. It wasn't about Di being a consenting adult...or whatver they were doing.

HONESTY??? What honesty is Gulati showing? 😆 Running back with the jhandaa of 'friends' after knowing the BRICKBATS he is receiving and AFTER Dimpy and Puneet explained to him that he is damaging his image.

Did you even look at Diandra's face and expressions during their conversation yesterday? Di has NEVER BEEN APOLOGETIC About the stuff they were doing. It is Gulati who has shown how spineless he is. 👎🏼He pursued her, asked her for massages, sang songs for her, suggestive dialogues everywhere, went behind the closed doors with her (NOT DRAGGED, NOT DRUGGED)...and at the end of the day...he has the gall to say it was 'friendship'! Mummy ko dikhaneey ke liye ya duniya ke liye...ya damage control? 🥱

Appalling! Disgusting! In India or anywhere else.