Everybody needs to calm down.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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So today after the episode the discussions started with people making fun or Diandra and Gautam. Which is fine. I joined in too. In a healthy, comic discussion way. But then It just turned nasty.

Why is everyone calling Diandra nasty and totally demeaning her character. Why is the woman being blamed here. Why isnt anyone calling nasty things to Gautam. We live in a society were we want equality and its the women who are here saying disgusting things about another woman.

And so what if Gautam had a boner or he went inside the bathroom with Diandra. Its not like they are doing something out of the ordinary. Its completely natural. You dont know whats happening inside the bathroom, maybe they are hugging or kissing. Whats wrong with kissing someone.

Its okay to make fun of them, and make jokes. But to question someone character is just wrong.

This is a show and if they are showmancing or romancing is up to them. Im sure if it was something bad BB would never air it. If you dont like them then its okay, atleast dont say nasty stuff about them.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Inspite of hving a boner he thankfully didnt take things futher
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I find it funny pple dont like him anymore because he had a boner😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i agree with you on that part that diandra only shouldn't be blamed for this

but i would still call what gautam and diandra are doing cheap

yes its natural and normal but to do it on TV in front of so many cameras is cheap

in their personal and private life they can do whatever they want but currently they are on a Tv show so their life is public right

i have no issues with showmance because its genuinely enjoyable at times but there is a limit to showmance also it shouldn't cross into being cheap
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Obbession

You dont know whats happening inside the bathroom, maybe they are hugging or kissing. Whats wrong with kissing someone.


Yeah, that's the thing. They are not hugging/kissing. They would have done that in the open.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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What I didn't like at all was him saying "Ram - Ram - Ram - Ram - Ram - Ram - Ram" during the boner leela. It hurt my religious sentiments. 😔 😔 😔
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sinderella

I find it funny pple dont like him anymore because he had a boner😳

exactly my point i mean he's a after all a young hot blooded male not a saint
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Posted: 11 years ago
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we don't know if they are just kissing, and that is nothing wrong with that, but this is a reality show which people watch with their teenage kids and parents, uncles, aunts and even grandparents.
when two people flirt is such obviously sexual manner, each person watching the show will have an opinion. grandparents will say " that's why i told you dont sent you daughter to the big city, they forget all the values you taught them and become this pink hair besharam."

mom says "switch the channel to kukum bhagya", aunty seconds that opinion,

uncle says " oh leave it on let see what she is going to do next, the pinky has very long legs." this earns him a elbow in the gut by aunty. she chomps down another pakoda.

teenager "chill dadu, mom, all this is very norman now a days, everybody is doing it everywhere." the reward for his candidness is sharp whack on the head from dad, with a stern "go to your room and do you homework..

other kids fallow, and the tv is switched to a dharmic channel by dadi and there rest have to watch with a sigh, while she joins her hands and starts chanting some shloka or another

all in all the episode was a mildly disturbing ending and precap.😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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u r right why only ladies blamed? then this is going with Sonali too GG fan did all the stuff with Sonali like kamble leela,she is no GG type and what not? and u r right why we don't ask man? like GG-punz-Ali when they r using wrong word or try to get physical?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agreed! Anyone who is completely putting all the blame on Diandra is so immature and possibly sexist without realizing. Gautam is not a 2 year old who doesn't have a mind of his own. He knows exactly what he's doing 😉

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