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Posted: 10 years ago
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There was nothing wrong with what. Gautam said. He was direct and it was his reason not to do task. He has a right to voice his feelings because he was one of those that was asked to shave his head. So others have right to isolate him, nominate him, punish him, call him pyschoand say he has negative vibes but he can't give a valid reason to deny shaving his head? Wah! What logic. Others do ras leela, he does then character dheela???


dont pass unnecessary dialogues, no one is prasing rasleela and calling him character dheela. so stick to the topic.

What ever otehrs call him they call him in confession room, he also does so about others. So no big deal. About negative vibes, i have never seen him praising anyone, everytime he pass negative comments about bedroom gang. Dey dont work, they spread kachra etc. Problem is he doesnt use his own mind, he speaks what puneet has taught him.


see again...i have seen him praise sonali and upen many times..if he was abd guy he wud have flirted and done things with her as upen is doing now and left her but he didn't play dirty ...thts the real hero gautam for u...

For Upen he had genuine praise, and for sonali he along with preetam said many times ke ladki achhi hai.

But other than this i never saw him praising any other fellow HM. although he pass comments and criticize them very often.

When he himself dont praise them or say positive about others den why does he expect others to be positive about him?

And Sonali was praised when she was on receiving end from bed room gang. Plus, getting close to him.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Reality is you can't always please everyone. Even in Bollywood there are conflicts and cliques.

Gautam has tried but has been shunned. These people are hell bent on proving him psycho. It's a buzzword for them. You know how bullying succeeds. It's starts of with one person picking on you and extends to others who want to be with the so called perceived stronger bully. The more lies spread and the more often, it becomes believable and sometimes the victim succumbs due to low self esteem. In this case Gautam has the benefit of WKV where he hears about his popularity and how he is going fine so he is now staying away, speaking when spoken too, and having minimum interaction. when Diandra swore him and he was given crap for utensils, he was next seen cooking his own breakfast. For the shaving head task he spoke up when asked to shave his head, he didn't just say it for the sake of saying it as a bystander. He said it in response to a direct question, 'which of you are willing to shave your head'

Realistically speaking again, to you, the others may be worth something for a possible project, to him maybe not so much. It's an individual choice na.

Also you can tell from his character and how he was straight up with Puneet today that he's honest no matter what, but he doesn't stretch a matter for long. He can't be responsible for how others react. If Puneet or Priatm wants to now hold a grudge against him for being honest about this Captaincy task than it's their prerogative, but they must also bei honest with themselves and ask themselves how genuine they were with him.

I'm sure Gautam doesn't want future work through any one of them by being fake. So if his honesty pricks, too bad. Someone else out there might appreciate his frankness.

Staying in the house doesn't depend on less nomination. It depends on Audience votes. Gautam is proving that. HM's have it wrong that's why bedroom gang lost so many members.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Unconventional



Xactly...and its clear if u look at Upen's approach and Gautam's...Upen was so positive about captaincy...he hugged Gautam and said let past be past...on d other hand Gautam was so -ve about it....Sir inhe manners sikhana hoga...inse ye karaenge..wo karaenge...d diff is so visible in der approach and still all dos who dont support Gautam becomes wrong...god plsss Gautam chill...

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Completely agree...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Picasso9


Reality is you can't always please everyone. Even in Bollywood there are conflicts and cliques.

Gautam has tried but has been shunned. These people are hell bent on proving him psycho. It's a buzzword for them. You know how bullying succeeds. It's starts of with one person picking on you and extends to others who want to be with the so called perceived stronger bully. The more lies spread and the more often, it becomes believable and sometimes the victim succumbs due to low self esteem. In this case Gautam has the benefit of WKV where he hears about his popularity and how he is going fine so he is now staying away, speaking when spoken too, and having minimum interaction. when Diandra swore him and he was given crap for utensils, he was next seen cooking his own breakfast. For the shaving head task he spoke up when asked to shave his head, he didn't just say it for the sake of saying it as a bystander. He said it in response to a direct question, 'which of you are willing to shave your head'

Realistically speaking again, to you, the others may be worth something for a possible project, to him maybe not so much. It's an individual choice na.

Also you can tell from his character and how he was straight up with Puneet today that he's honest no matter what, but he doesn't stretch a matter for long. He can't be responsible for how others react. If Puneet or Priatm wants to now hold a grudge against him for being honest about this Captaincy task than it's their prerogative, but they must also bei honest with themselves and ask themselves how genuine they were with him.

I'm sure Gautam doesn't want future work through any one of them by being fake. So if his honesty pricks, too bad. Someone else out there might appreciate his frankness.

Staying in the house doesn't depend on less nomination. It depends on Audience votes. Gautam is proving that. HM's have it wrong that's why bedroom gang lost so many members.



See, i can reply ur each and every line, but i dont want. Coz u dont want to see the reality. At many places u contradict ur own statements which u posted before.

But its ok with me, coz one can tell once or twice, at one time it is better to leave the person with their prejudice. Period.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: vibhusharma78



See, i can reply ur each and every line, but i dont want. Coz u dont want to see the reality. At many places u contradict ur own statements which u posted before.

But its ok with me, coz one can tell once or twice, at one time it is better to leave the person with their prejudice. Period.


Same applies to you buddy. I was trying to have a civilized discussion with you but you want to get personal with statements like 'prejudiced'. Is your stance not 'prejudiced'?

Goodluck. 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
#76
I thought puneet and Pritam are with G. When did this happen?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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yaa!! There is a reason obviously and that is an insecurity
This is not happened 1st time

In season 5.. PB and Juhi gang left Mahek..
In season 6.. Gujrati Mahila Mandal (Delnaz, Ashka, Sana) left Urvashi
In season 7.. Kamya, aijaz, pratyusha, andy left Gauhaur

And the reason is same that is insecurity


Edited by -naureen786- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=1482560842031753&set=vb.1466265413661296&type=2&theaterMamu talking about Gautam. And he seems genuinely unhappy about fight.
Gautam behaves like psycho. We only see it from far so many of us find it entertaining.. but person living with him 24x7 may get irritated with it.
They are not some Psychology masters to know what real persona Gautam is. They live with him.. and his psychogiri annoy them. Everyone has a limit. Are its even annoy me. 🥱 So, I can understand what Mamu is saying here.
Still some of you will blame Mamu. well, whatever. 😆
PS - Ignore Sonali in the video. She is..
Edited by NimbuMirchi - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=1482560842031753&set=vb.1466265413661296&type=2&theaterMamu talking about Gautam. And he seems genuinely unhappy about fight.

Gautam behaves like psycho. We only see it from far so many of us find it entertaining.. but person living with him 24x7 may get irritated with it.
They are not some Psychology masters to know what real persona Gautam is. They live with him.. and his psychogiri annoy them. Everyone has a limit. Are its even annoy me. 🥱 So, I can understand what Mamu is saying here.
Still some of you will blame Mamu. well, whatever. 😆


Yes, try ganging up on one person in your circle every day, sideline him, backstab him etc, etc and then when he reacts, call him a psycho. Great plan. I am sure this can be used as a classic case for upcoming psychologists on behavior reinforcements and negative perceptions
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Mishh007..

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Completely agree...




hahahaha

Upen is so positive that he let go of the past and he did it so well that he gave punishment to gautam for phone task in which he wasn't even involved 👏 that's called being fake, not positive

He is so positive and good that he gave sushant's name when big boss asked who did the task well and sushant actually failed to do it

So 👏 for our hero upen

WKW mein ais ki bajne wali hain woh bhi zor se 😆


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