Karan cannot be the only culprit in his divorce

Posted: 9 months ago
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I may not like karan but why does he always blames himself for his divorces?? When a marriage breaks most of the time it's both husband and wife who are wrong. I guess that nidhi guilt tripped him to believe that he is responsible for everything while she is busy spreading negative things about him. His second marriage was a love marriage so how come for the divorce only karan is responsible?? I feel bad for him when he blames himself for his divorcessmiley28. Hope he gets a good life partner who can help him to come out of this low phasesmiley27

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Posted: 9 months ago
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1st marriage was also love marriage,it was may be his childhood love.

Pata nehi keya hain,aab to wahi bata sakte hain.

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Posted: 9 months ago
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Originally posted by: RockingSunny

I may not like karan but why does he always blames himself for his divorces?? When a marriage breaks most of the time it's both husband and wife who are wrong. I guess that nidhi guilt tripped him to believe that he is responsible for everything while she is busy spreading negative things about him. His second marriage was a love marriage so how come for the divorce only karan is responsible?? I feel bad for him when he blames himself for his divorcessmiley28. Hope he gets a good life partner who can help him to come out of this low phasesmiley27

. It’s called reverse psychology. He is using his divorces and blaming himself to garner sympathy and make himself the victim. Boohoo! I was wrong. I’m to blame. All that is missing in this narrative is that he is not beating his chest and saying all this like an abla naari smiley36
Posted: 9 months ago
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Originally posted by: PilloWtalk_13

1st marriage was also love marriage,it wash may be his childhood love.

Pata nehi keya hain,aab to wahi bata sakte hain.

See he may had faults but since it was love marriage and there are no proofs of any abuse so I would believe in both cases both parties were responsible. But unfortunately karan blames himself for the divorces. I know he fakes many things but he is not faking this
Posted: 9 months ago
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Originally posted by: Picasso9

. It’s called reverse psychology. He is using his divorces and blaming himself to garner sympathy and make himself the victim. Boohoo! I was wrong. I’m to blame. All that is missing in this narrative is that he is not beating his chest and saying all this like an abla naari smiley36

Till now even I was feeling the same but today the way he blamed himself and asked chum to be careful looks like self blaming instead of sympathy card
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Posted: 9 months ago
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Originally posted by: RockingSunny

Till now even I was feeling the same but today the way he blamed himself and asked chum to be careful looks like self blaming instead of sympathy card

KV is always in game mode. He is using the Chum situation to address his divorcee status and give himself an ‘out’ to save face from 4th rejection. Even Salman said it will be 4th rejection. In ration task he deflected by saying he is used goods, Avinash is fresh. He preemptively makes these statements in order to get ahead of any attacks that might come his way. He is gaming.


Posted: 9 months ago
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Originally posted by: Picasso9

KV is always in game mode. He is using the Chum situation to address his divorcee status and give himself an ‘out’ to save face from 4th rejection. Even Salman said it will be 4th rejection. In ration task he deflected by saying he is used goods, Avinash is fresh. He preemptively makes these statements in order to get ahead of any attacks that might come his way. He is gaming.


But at times self blaming would mean to people that he is the only one responsible. He is clever enough to know this and I don't think he would deliberately do the same foolishness everytime. Morover his second wife has already wasted their dirty linen in public and blamed karan for everythingsmiley5
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Posted: 9 months ago
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Originally posted by: RockingSunny

But at times self blaming would mean to people that he is the only one responsible. He is clever enough to know this and I don't think he would deliberately do the same foolishness everytime. Morover his second wife has already wasted their dirty linen in public and blamed karan for everythingsmiley5

KV uses self deprecation ALL THE TIME. He uses it optimally to make himself more likable. He is smart about his insecurities and uses it to his advantage.

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Posted: 9 months ago
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As I can say is India is a patriarchal country, women get lot more hate & a divorced women gets huge amount of hate.

If two women are ready to take that heat for getting away from somebody it must not be bad....it will be HORRIBLE REASONS.

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Posted: 9 months ago
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Why can’t he? In most divorce cases it’s one persons insufferable behaviour that makes the other leave. He himself has admitted he is in the wrong. Why question it? Chum should run a mile. Her family and friends would never accept such damaged goods.

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