Archana was right and wrong

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Honestly Archana in this episode was right and wrong. I was pissed at her but still felt bad. Let me explain why. The way she behaved with Priyanka was wrong, she should not be using gaalis and wishing that Priyanka stay alone for the rest of her life. She was completely in the wrong there and should be bashed for the language she uses and how she a lot of times treats the only people in that house who talk to her and spend time with her. But that whole outburst was stemming from something else, it wasn't over food or anything. She said it multiples times that no one supports her, later that night and the next day too. Before people say that it is because of how she treats Priyankit and Soundarya. I am talking about this week two times she got into an argument with Sajid, neither time it was really her fault but the whole house ganged up on her. They all started bullying her and Priyanka and Soundarya not once supported her. Instead they kept trying to shut her up instead. That is what caused the whole outburst and fight later. She doesn't feel supported by the people who spend time with her. Priyanka might not use gaalis but she has said some pretty mean stuff to Archana as well where she did at one point say that Archana will be left alone too in her life or something along those lines. Plus she had no problem in telling bully gang where her stuff was so they could open it up and throw it out. It is two way where both have said and done mean things, just that Archana starts using gaalis and become crass which Priyanka doesn't.

Ever since she came back there has been a certain pattern in the house. Whenever she gets into an argument with Sajid, the whole house turns on her and starts bullying her and shutting her up. It happens everytime. Yes Archana has her issues with like everyone in the house but she has always fought one on one. If these people want to fight with her there is no problem but do it one on one. None of them ever fight one on one with her but they all gang up on her together to bully her. Sajid was even saying that she deserves one slap to the face and was manipulating Sumbul to go hit her. Tina was saying that we should beat her up. All of this stuff is what led to the outburt we saw and her crying the next morning. She feels that Priyanka and Soundarya don't support her when the rest of the house gangs up and starts bullying her. What Tina and Shalin did was pathetic by moving away from her during morning anthem, it was immature and just mean. If any of these people also had the whole house behaving that way with them they would start crying and having a full blown panic attack like Sumbul yesterday. I have been bullied and so watching the way the whole house treats Archana is triggering. Yes Archana also has her flaws and I am not giving her a clean slate. None of her muddas this week were wrong though. She is constantly bullied and her voice is being stifled even by the people she spends time with. She is wrong a lot of times and does have pangas with everyone in the house but it has always been individually. It's fine if the hms individually fight with her but I do have a problem with all of them ganging up on her together.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Good post

I did feel bad for her today but the language and the abuses ....I am not okay with. You can fyt , be mean and shout but abusive language towards contestants is something I absolutely dislike.


The problem wid Archana is .....even if she is being wronged , she comes back in a worse possible way....making it harder for people to stand up for her. In both her fyts wid Sajid this week.....she wasnt wrong but the way she retaliated was even more aggressive . So now Sajid's faults get overshadowed....and this is all on her.


Secondly its a game. People are making grps for a reason. You cannot expect people to come in one on one fyt.....this isnt a match . People will bully . She needs to get past dt and control her anger.


Thirdly today I realised Archana has the same problem as Priyanka.....both of them think they are always right. Thats why the clashes.


Also Archana wants a validation that her ways are correct. Thats why she kept goin to Farman today....to tell him her story , wishin for him to believe her.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I think she has reached a breaking point seeing how she is being used and abused by the makers. She seems more upset with the makers than the housemates coz the way she and her issues are ignored during the weekend ka waar.


She genuinely tries to give her 200% to the show but the host who she seeks validation from fir her efforts ran her down during wkw by calling priyanka archana 2.


It's also demoralizing to see the opposite team getting validation for smallest of things, being favored constantly and also being given free pass for all the wrongs they commit by the host and the makers


On top of that her own friends going against her and siding with the molester when he was throwing dirtiest abuses at her and her mom must have hurt her deeply...

Bahot sara pile on ho rakha hai which is why we are seeing her get emotional frequently since past few days...

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bella250

Honestly Archana in this episode was right and wrong. I was pissed at her but still felt bad. Let me explain why. The way she behaved with Priyanka was wrong, she should not be using gaalis and wishing that Priyanka stay alone for the rest of her life. She was completely in the wrong there and should be bashed for the language she uses and how she a lot of times treats the only people in that house who talk to her and spend time with her. But that whole outburst was stemming from something else, it wasn't over food or anything. She said it multiples times that no one supports her, later that night and the next day too. Before people say that it is because of how she treats Priyankit and Soundarya. I am talking about this week two times she got into an argument with Sajid, neither time it was really her fault but the whole house ganged up on her. They all started bullying her and Priyanka and Soundarya not once supported her. Instead they kept trying to shut her up instead. That is what caused the whole outburst and fight later. She doesn't feel supported by the people who spend time with her. Priyanka might not use gaalis but she has said some pretty mean stuff to Archana as well where she did at one point say that Archana will be left alone too in her life or something along those lines. Plus she had no problem in telling bully gang where her stuff was so they could open it up and throw it out. It is two way where both have said and done mean things, just that Archana starts using gaalis and become crass which Priyanka doesn't.

Ever since she came back there has been a certain pattern in the house. Whenever she gets into an argument with Sajid, the whole house turns on her and starts bullying her and shutting her up. It happens everytime. Yes Archana has her issues with like everyone in the house but she has always fought one on one. If these people want to fight with her there is no problem but do it one on one. None of them ever fight one on one with her but they all gang up on her together to bully her. Sajid was even saying that she deserves one slap to the face and was manipulating Sumbul to go hit her. Tina was saying that we should beat her up. All of this stuff is what led to the outburt we saw and her crying the next morning. She feels that Priyanka and Soundarya don't support her when the rest of the house gangs up and starts bullying her. What Tina and Shalin did was pathetic by moving away from her during morning anthem, it was immature and just mean. If any of these people also had the whole house behaving that way with them they would start crying and having a full blown panic attack like Sumbul yesterday. I have been bullied and so watching the way the whole house treats Archana is triggering. Yes Archana also has her flaws and I am not giving her a clean slate. None of her muddas this week were wrong though. She is constantly bullied and her voice is being stifled even by the people she spends time with. She is wrong a lot of times and does have pangas with everyone in the house but it has always been individually. It's fine if the hms individually fight with her but I do have a problem with all of them ganging up on her together.

Yes, i agree that the house gangs up on her. But time and again she has said mean stuff to Priyanka, if I were Priyanka would have stayed away from her forever.

The issue is she made a huge issue of sumbul using the ghee, i was fully in support of this mudda her fighting on why sumbul gave her ghee to the other room. The next shot is of her eating room of 6 roti ....this is like hypocrisy...you were just fighting for your room ration and then turn around and do this, and argue that you are not wrong, on top of that use foul language.

I think when she gets angry she forgets what she's talking. She really really needs to control that.

I did feel bad for her the next morning, but just before going to bed she said too many things i am sure she was feeling bad, but ego comes in between and she can't apologize.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: TinnTinna

I think she has reached a breaking point seeing how she is being used and abused by the makers. She seems more upset with the makers than the housemates coz the way she and her issues are ignored during the weekend ka waar.


She genuinely tries to give her 200% to the show but the host who she seeks validation from fir her efforts ran her down during wkw by calling priyanka archana 2.


It's also demoralizing to see the opposite team getting validation for smallest of things, being favored constantly and also being given free pass for all the wrongs they commit by the host and the makers


On top of that her own friends going against her and siding with the molester when he was throwing dirtiest abuses at her and her mom must have hurt her deeply...

Bahot sara pile on ho rakha hai which is why we are seeing her get emotional frequently since past few days...

I dont think anyone is using her. Infact even if anyone tries they won't be successful in using her. The problems she creates at times is for footage and for the fact that she wants to be called out on wkv. Most of her drama is for the camera, be it over the top laugh or the drama of not cleaning the house or anything else. She's getting frustrated because even after doing all this she isn't given importance on wkv.

There was no need to climb the boat yesterday because the team had clearly mentioned 3 names and she was not one of them. Why didn't she stay down? Because footage nahi milta, why does she keep repeating chamcha who will like to hear that? She has no muddas and is trying hard to create one or take panga.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: locopoco

I dont think anyone is using her. Infact even if anyone tries they won't be successful in using her. The problems she creates at times is for footage and for the fact that she wants to be called out on wkv. Most of her drama is for the camera, be it over the top laugh or the drama of not cleaning the house or anything else. She's getting frustrated because even after doing all this she isn't given importance on wkv.

There was no need to climb the boat yesterday because the team had clearly mentioned 3 names and she was not one of them. Why didn't she stay down? Because footage nahi milta, why does she keep repeating chamcha who will like to hear that? She has no muddas and is trying hard to create one or take panga.

She should stop behaving like house monitor. That is the job of the captain.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: locopoco

I dont think anyone is using her. Infact even if anyone tries they won't be successful in using her. The problems she creates at times is for footage and for the fact that she wants to be called out on wkv. Most of her drama is for the camera, be it over the top laugh or the drama of not cleaning the house or anything else. She's getting frustrated because even after doing all this she isn't given importance on wkv.

There was no need to climb the boat yesterday because the team had clearly mentioned 3 names and she was not one of them. Why didn't she stay down? Because footage nahi milta, why does she keep repeating chamcha who will like to hear that? She has no muddas and is trying hard to create one or take panga.

Everyone does everything for camera only and so does she.

Even her fights with priyanka and saundarya are also forced because. Their differences are for cameras only..

But somewhere especially when it comes to her fights with sajid she expects them to not side with him...

Yes I agree that she is frustrated for being ignored during wkw because she works hard to give content throughout the week and then Bb fav hog all the limelight during wkw. It is obviously going to demoralize anyone.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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😄 Priyanka and Archana are there to keep these naughty kids in place.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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She will get importance if the problem is worth mentioning. If on daily basis she will create fights with some housemate it won't be highlighted. There should be substantial material to talk about. Also if she's fighting on regular basis with all why would anyone help her? It's pretty much established as her personality. She needs to do something different.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: locopoco

😄 Priyanka and Archana are there to keep these naughty kids in place.

Kissi bhi angle se naughty nahi hai...🤢

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