Shamita and rashmi's statements are completely misunderstood

Shamita and rashmi didn't support abhijeet for once infact at first they scolded him only for his wrong act. But later on both of them have passed a statement which is completely misunderstood. I think by now most of the people in this forum knows how much I dislike shamita I don't have to explain it and regarding rashmi I never liked her in bb13 but since I don't think they are wrong in this matter that's why I am pointing out that👍🏼. The statement,"you cannot feel comfortable and uncomfortable according to your convenience" OK so many people thought shamita was blaming devoleena here but this is not the truth. When abhijeet said this devoleena still collected architacts from him and waited for the task to get radd. After that she said this to everybody so isn't it wrong from devo's side?? When you are feeling uncomfortable then nothing matters more than your self respect. Devoleena should have taken a stand right there or completely deny taking architacts from him then abhijeet wouldn't have taken advantage of this. No one said devo did this intentionally but most of the people are clearly saying that devoleena should have taken a stand at right time and should have thought about her self respect. To this only rashmi passed the statement, "ungli dogi to hath pakdega hi". There's no double meaning for this even in the wkv she straight forwardly said that when devoleena was feeling uncomfortable she should have immediately taken a stand shouldn't have taken the architects from him. Here no one has justified abhijeet's actions or blamed devoleena for his actions at all they have just pointed out devoleena's foolishness and mistakes plain and simple there's no victim blaming here. Also I agree with one point of pratik (shocking isn't it😆) that a person like abhijeet shouldn't be given any importance he should just be simply ignored👍🏼

Now a note this matter is very sensitive I know so I have seen people have a tendency of going on someone's mentality just for their pov. So after reading my post if some people are thinking that my mentality is wrong and I am a bad person then respectfully ignore my post👍🏼. Everyone has a different pov here you can contradict my pov but no attack😊

https://www.popxo.com/article/shame-salman-khan-abhijit-bichukale/

The article correctly says what is wrong.This is where I feel salman went wrong. Shamitha's friend neha also felt it was wrong, I saw people who never watched bb 15 tweeting on the issue because whatever was the matter they should have dealt it in better way.

Devoleena didn't tell everyone after the task was over. She just shared it with Rakhi and Ritesh.

Rakhi brought this issue in front of everyone by shouting at Bichukale, and then everyone jumped on this mudda and started giving their two cents. I didn't see Devoleena using this mudda for footage.

"Ungali doge, haath pakdega" statement was straight up victim blaming. Rashami didn't say this statement out of concern. She said that while fighting with Devo. She clearly was blaming Devo for not setting her boundaries with Bichukale.

Devo herself cleared that she took the artifacts only once from Bichukale. Rest of the times he put it there by himself.

Problem is everyone was trying to get footage from this issue. Teja blew things out of proportion. Shamita, Rashami and Nishant were trying to settle scores with Devo and Teja instead of looking at the the issue with objectivity.

I don't think Devo would've made a big deal about this if others didn't jump on this issue and had Bichukale understood his mistake and apologized to her properly.

Appreciate Tejaswi for taking right stand n stood firmly even after BB n sal bs 👍🏼 Tejaswi deserves trophy n deserving winner

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

Devoleena didn't tell everyone after the task was over. She just shared it with Rakhi and Ritesh.

Rakhi brought this issue in front of everyone by shouting at Bichukale, and then everyone jumped on this mudda and started giving their two cents. I didn't see Devoleena using this mudda for footage.

"Ungali doge, haath pakdega" statement was straight up victim blaming. Rashami didn't say this statement out of concern. She said that while fighting with Devo. She clearly was blaming Devo for not setting her boundaries with Bichukale.

Devo herself cleared that she took the artifacts only once from Bichukale. Rest of the times he put it there by himself.

Problem is everyone was trying to get footage from this issue. Teja blew things out of proportion. Shamita, Rashami and Nishant were trying to settle scores with Devo and Teja instead of looking at the the issue with objectivity.

I don't think Devo would've made a big deal about this if others didn't jump on this issue and had Bichukale understood his mistake and apologized to her properly.

Unfortunately for a person like Bichkule you do need to draw a line because they dont know their limits specially when they are getting away with so many other crap and Debo herself has justified him in past ..you will not see him asking for a kiss from Shamita

So its not victim blaming but you do have to draw a line for certain people but i agree Rashmi did not say this out of concern ..even though Debo said bad things to her but Rashmi looked really heartless here

Teja was only trying to get attention..she was just trying to prove how right and supportive she is and how bad others are

Originally posted by: M.A.K123

Unfortunately for a person like Bichkule you do need to draw a line because they dont know their limits specially when they are getting away with so many other crap and Debo herself has justified him in past ..you will not see him asking for a kiss from Shamita

So its not victim blaming but you do have to draw a line for certain people but i agree Rashmi did not say this out of concern ..even though Debo said bad things to her but Rashmi looked really heartless here

Teja was only trying to get attention..she was just trying to prove how right and supportive she is and how bad others are

Lol same old crap. Abusing someone is NOT same as sexual harassment!

Devo was right in supporting Bichukale in his fight with Shamita and she's still right in standing against sexual harassment of Bichukale.

It's funny how y'all keep on saying it's not victim blaming when it's exactly what you all are doing. If Devo didn't draw a line even after this incident then you could've blamed her.

But when she has made it clear that she was uncomfortable and is not going to continue her friendship with him then there's nothing you can blame her of.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

Lol same old crap. Abusing someone is NOT same as sexual harassment!

Devo was right in supporting Bichukale in his fight with Shamita and she's still right in standing against sexual harassment of Bichukale.

It's funny how y'all keep on saying it's not victim blaming when it's exactly what you all are doing. If Devo didn't draw a line even after this incident then you could've blamed her.

But when she has made it clear that she was uncomfortable and is not going to continue her friendship with him then there's nothing you can blame her of.

No its not the same but belittling someone is not right either..calling a woman pair ki jhooti over a town name is justified?

Bichukle was wrong with in both cases ..but because he thought Debo was his friend ..he could get away with the kiss issue as he said so himself..this happened because his previous actions were justified

Again by putting the blame on Debo ..they justified it by saying it was joke which is wrong! This Bichukale will only get worse with time if he is going to be supported like this!

Originally posted by: M.A.K123

No its not the same but belittling someone is not right either..calling a woman pair ki jhooti over a town name is justified?

Bichukle was wrong with in both cases ..but because he thought Debo was his friend ..he could get away with the kiss issue as he said so himself..this happened because his previous actions were justified

Again by putting the blame on Debo ..they justified it by saying it was joke which is wrong! This Bichukale will only get worse with time if he is going to be supported like this!

In Shamita's case, Shamita picked the fight herself. She too gave him alot of gaalis which were all beeped out.

Bichukale had full right to retaliate because nobody should take shit from Shamita just because she's a woman. And yeah, making fun of someone's name is not cool either.

I think what shamita and rashmi ment was you should know which person you should be intimating. You will hang out with a DON and expect he will not pull a gun at you in some point then you are a fool. Bichukle is definitely not a modernized person or a person with any manners. You can say by his body language and the background and upbringing he belongs to. Thats why shamita and rashmi has drawn their lines beforehand.

There was a guy i used to play online game with and he speaks shit..keep abusing like hell. Gives extremely vulgar gaalis. As soon as i realised this about him i stopped playing. Because i know at some point when something happens between us or i do something that doesn't go as per him he might abuse me also.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

In Shamita's case, Shamita picked the fight herself. She too gave him alot of gaalis which were all beeped out.

Bichukale had full right to retaliate because nobody should take shit from Shamita just because she's a woman. And yeah, making fun of someone's name is not cool either.

I am talking about Debo ..i am not saying whether Shamita was right or wrong ..there was no need for Debo to support Bichkule

Its better to keep quite then to justify a wrong action ..