On Rubina, from a wife's perspective - Page 3

Rubina feeling upset over Salman's comment on her husband is somewhat justified...The host has a good sense of humour to some extent as long as he doesn't mock anyone in the name of humour and this should b valid for the contestants as well.

Thank you TM for adding the reference of Apurva and Shilpa...Apurva like Abhinav is a very calm n sorted guy...Forget abt husband wife, had there been siblings as contestants, they too would have felt bad the same way as those wives felt...

When someone mocks you, either you ignore or argue with that person..but when your loved one is mocked, you do not ignore but you get hurt...this is human mentality which is true for all of us...Ppl saying tht why Abhinav didn't stand up for himself, this guy if u have noticed doesn't waste his time in arguing with people whose only motive is finding a mudda and getting their fame out of it...

Rubina seems to b very sensitive when it comes to Abhinav..she wasn't this hurt when Eijaz or the entire house yelled at her in the first week...

All this is going to lead to Salman picking up on her and Abhinav in the coming weeks but have to say atleast she expressed her displeasure unlike other contestants n ex contestants who let the host do whatever he wants in the name of advise/humour.

Originally posted by: RainAndRainbow

I would have accepted this point too, had she not pointed it out to Salman there and then... She did say "yeh samaan nhi hai" She was hurt...

But still she was tel maaroing Salman after then Degrading comment...

When Salman addressed Abhinav as saaman/baggage n looked at Abhinav, he laughed n ignored..but Rubina did say Aise mat bolo..i guess tht wasn't heard coz everyone was laughing n Salman was busy looking at Abhinav...

Originally posted by: TC_FA

So as a wife ,she has the right to insult her own husband. Right?? 🤔

Something tells me the relationship Rubina shares with Abhinav is different from relationship Salman shares with Rubina and Abhinav, I might be wrong

Originally posted by: M.A.K123

Ok what Salman said was a joke..clearly a joke .. my husband would not have minded if he was called my saman vice versa

...the term is subjective ...

It can be translated as belongings .. which is subtle ...but when you translate as private item then it can look degrading but that also depends on how it was said

But! There is a back story behind this ..and that is Abhi came to the show because of Rubi and she feels that they makers are taunting her about this by calling Abhi her saman through Salman ...how would Salman know all this ?! ..i am sure he is not interested in the contestants back stories ...

And i doubt the makers even had this issue in mind ... Its all far fetched

Not BB but Rubi herself is making Abhi look bad and i dont think she is realising this ... She was adamant that they came to the show because of her and her convincing and that is why they were taunted through Salman about this ...

I did feel Abhi was holding her back but now i know why lol

No

Salman said he is her samaan and baggage, He used the term baggage

In all fairness, if she had a problem she really didn't have to start buttering Salman straight after - when someone says something insulting to me I don't go and praise their smile and then a day later go to a 3rd person and complain and when what 3rd person says confront them I definitely don't say I don't want to make it big.

Madam you already discussed with a million viewers, its not personal anymore and its definitely not about you anymore. She kept saying Salman disrespected me, it was said to Abhinav! He said its his matter and she kept implying no its to me I brought you here! Indirectly she's also disrespecting him but not letting him take the stand!

I'm also married and I have thought about this scenario over and over- it you claim to be so much respectful and say your husbands respect is everything, couldn't you have respectfully discussed what was on your mind and asked his opinion? Instead when he questioned her why she didnt talk to him she simply said I felt bad so I made the decision and her tone! She decided to leave the show on her own without even talking to Abhinav, how is she being any less disrespectful?

Originally posted by: TC_FA

So as a wife ,she has the right to insult her own husband. Right?? 🤔

Yes if needed wife has all the rights to insult her own husband but she will not allow anyone to disrespect her husband.

Husban wife chahe jo bhi bol de ekdusre ko, third person ko insult karne ka koi bhi right nai hai, and agar koi Liberty le raha to koi bhi wife apne husband ka jhanda uthauegi chahe game show Ho yah real life😆

Pati to pati he rahega and possessiveness bhi same he rahega😆

Being a wife I can say , hum chahe jo bole ekdusre ko, kisi or ko kabhi allow nai kar sakti😃

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Yes if needed wife has all the rights to insult her own husband but she will not allow anyone to disrespect her husband.

Husban wife chahe jo bhi bol de ekdusre ko, third person ko insult karne ka koi bhi right nai hai, and agar koi Liberty le raha to koi bhi wife apne husband ka jhanda uthauegi chahe game show Ho yah real life😆

Pati to pati he rahega and possessiveness bhi same he rahega😆

Being a wife I can say , hum chahe jo bole ekdusre ko, kisi or ko kabhi allow nai kar sakti😃

national tv par bol doge 😳😆

Originally posted by: Aegon

No

Salman said he is her samaan and baggage, He used the term baggage

I didnt say Salman did not use the term..Salman was joking but Rubi was more touchy about it because she had told BB makers that she will get Abhi onto the show and that is why they are taunting her by calling Abhi her saman

Originally posted by: TC_FA

national tv par bol doge 😳😆

Aisa kya derogatory bola tha Rubina ne?

Originally posted by: M.A.K123

Ok what Salman said was a joke..clearly a joke .. my husband would not have minded if he was called my saman vice versa

...the term is subjective ...

It can be translated as belongings .. which is subtle ...but when you translate as private item then it can look degrading but that also depends on how it was said

But! There is a back story behind this ..and that is Abhi came to the show because of Rubi and she feels that they makers are taunting her about this by calling Abhi her saman through Salman ...how would Salman know all this ?! ..i am sure he is not interested in the contestants back stories ...

And i doubt the makers even had this issue in mind ... Its all far fetched

Not BB but Rubi herself is making Abhi look bad and i dont think she is realising this ... She was adamant that they came to the show because of her and her convincing and that is why they were taunted through Salman about this ...

I did feel Abhi was holding her back but now i know why lol

Difference in your husband and Abhinav can be That Abhinav's wife is more successful. People can brag about their wife's success themselves, but no one like to be reminded this fact by others that their wife is more successful.