In support of Shehnaaz - an attempt to improve mental health awareness

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Shehnnaz/ himanshi issue is no secret , I believe Shehnaaz has a very traumatic event probably from this or any other event , she reacts very badly to the word jealous, otherwise she is being funny, silly smart and even deceptive to win BB show.

Please follow this link - to learn more about triggers ...mental health


A trigger in psychology is a stimulus that reminds of past trauma ...relive a traumatic event


I strongly believe the word Jealous is the trigger that causes Shehnnaz to have a breakdown , reliving a past bad experience and she numbs her pain , subjecting her self to harm.... this is really complicating matters

https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/psychpedia/trigger



I feel she has post traumtic stress disorder based on my observation,


https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/post-traumatic-stress-disorder-ptsd/index.shtml



I'm no psychiatrist but I am a medical doctor, I would advise counseling and follow up with a psychologist/ psychiatrist for anyone going through issues Shehnaax is facing to have a formal diagnosis and treatment.



Mental illness is very common seen in 1 out of 4 individuals, it's not a scary disease, we should not attach any taboo discussing mental illnesses and please support awareness about mental health and support your family or friends who may have it. Let them seek help from.a professional psychologist or a psychiatrist.

Thank you.

Kindly refrain from commenting if you have nothing positive to support a good cause , unless talking about mental.illness if your trigger and I offer my sincere apologies and sympathies .



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Posted: 5 years ago
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Discussion I had with respected members on this forum.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/bigg-boss-13/5143918/i-am-on-sanas-side-today?pn=4


Originally posted by: anna143

Oh cmon yaar how do u excuse her behaviour for last week? She is on the verge of losing her marbles.

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You mean slapping and chappal marofying Shukla kya?? I don't think , I support anything she has had done in this show so far

I empathize and sympathise for the emotional trauma she is facing in the house, especially for the word Jealous.

She has time and again requested people not to tag that word for her. She has an emotional crisis with that to the extent that she self harms, hiring herself ...I don't accept this exploitation of her mental health by other contestants, by the Channel and last but not the least Mr ambassador of being human the one And only noble SALMAN KHAN smiley11


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Popularity and attention has gotten to her heard.

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Agree but, I doubt, this is not related to the emotional breakdown

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. Salman khan was right when he said this will be problematic for her when she leaves the house.

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Quite possible


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everyone keeps talking about the word jealous and it should not have been brought up.

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100 percent agree

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But is she a 2 year old who needs to throw a tantrum over a word?


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Exactly, this is the exact thing we need to understand, she is a grown and behaving like child throeing a tantrum for this word especially, she doesn't do that when she didn't have good clothes to wear, she infact is humane and works on others behalf...

Why would she wash dishes etc..please have to moment to analyse, she doesn't really throw tantrums for every single thing that doesn't happen the way she wBts, except behaviour from Shukla I guess.


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And lets face the biggest underlying issue which is her possessive nature regarding Shukla.


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Yes I agree but this totally unrelated to get emotional distress for jealous tag, I think this distress isvreakted to probably cyber bullying from Himanshi issue ...


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Shukla will ditch her when hes out of the house.

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I think she is smart to know this truth already, infact I don't believe, she had or has any feelings for Shukla ever.

I believe she definitely has feelings for paras, but is sensible to let him go after Mahira,

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Her clinging to Shukla is purely her strategy to survive the show, as she has been brainwashed SIDNAAZ is a big hit outside

What will she do then beat herself up and hurt herself?

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NO WAYYYY - SHE IS GOING TO SAY GET LOST TO SHUKLA, SHE IS VERY DARING

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We need to acknowledge her behaviour is NOT normal and she needs help professionally and psychologically.

TOTALLY agree, absolutely she needs professional help and counseling to overcome the trauma that is causing her emotional breakdown.. hopefully she will be successful in decluttering her emotions attached to that word jealous

Apologies for caps ..

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Originally posted by: One-Of-A-Kind

she has been a traumatized child since childhood.. she has faced a lot when she was as young as 6 class k larki.. n she has says it she has been in depression, mentally depressed and supressed bcuz of constant beating by mamu/chachu n their families.. and they jsed to make her work even when her hands used to bleed.. if theyre bleeding more they'll beat more.. she left her home at 17/19 to earn

being a child she has been treated like a shit, hence she didn't get to live he

r childhood.. we sitting here are really quick n easy to judge everyone but the real picture is far far more disastrous..

An insight into Shehnaaz past traumatic life ...

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Why do Mental prob people come to bb house?? Like arti n sana??

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rasili

Why do Mental prob people come to bb house?? Like arti n sana??

What about Shukla the lunatic?


I thought BB is a place for different types of pagal. In fact when all fights and Rashmi just keeps staring at them........reminds me scenes from mental asylum shown in movies and serials. 😆 Jab bari aur furious pagals acts violently chhoti aur kamjor pagals reacts like Rashmi. 😆 Oh yes! After that sometimes choti pagal also screams to show he/she too has madness.🤣


Well I think BB is a show for pagals. Every year different types of pagals come here and the biggest pagal who can't leave or darshak don't let go..........wins the trophy. The biggest psycho Salman hosts the show. 😆Well one of the major reason for watching this show for me is finding out how many types of pagals are there in the world. So my mission is always accomplished. 😎😆

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Originally posted by: Rasili

Why do Mental prob people come to bb house?? Like arti n sana??

Very good question, I think people with mental illness have every right to do what they wish but ...

I feel people with mental health issues should avoid participating in show like BB - which is nothing but pure mental torture for contestants in the hands of BB to entertain some sections of the audience.


I feel Aarthi has come prepared to challenge herself to see how she fares her own fears and dilemmas..she has been very sensible predominantly, except for her own emotional breakdown.


Regarding Shehnaaz, I believe, she has insight that she has a problem with the word Jealous, but she probably lacks the understanding that this issue can be addressed by appropriate professionals. I honestly hope she does seek help and this problem can easily be overcome , under the guidance of a professional like psychiatrist or a psychologist..

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Posted: 5 years ago
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The way you are posting it ...BB pe straight ipc code lag jayega for making a situation which became unbearable for the contestant...


Please don't see the only 1hr 30 minutes and pass your views...

There are psychiatric present and are watched


There is difference between mental health issue and game formate emotions both are not to be equated seeing 1hr 30 min show and also which is heavily editted...

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I am sorry but mental health is a very sensitive topic and here we are discussing about a reality show contestant who has come to this show knowing very well about the kind of environment this show has and kind of content they expect!


Sana is not a child.....she is a grown up woman ! I had already started how she will pull the rug from Shukla's feet soon


If Sana was suffering from any kind of mental ailment I am sure she herself wouldn't have come on this show nor the makers would have allowed her


If one word is a trigger for her then for Rashmi AISI ladli was a trigger

For Asim; abusive words about his family were a trigger


One needs to know how to handle such situations....if one is unable to handle then better not come to such shows


Also in this whole fiasco both Shukla and Sana are equally at fault


Let's not come to conclusions about one's mental health coz it's a very wide and a sensitive topic !

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I thought you were talking about Arti. Sana was laughing in between so I think it was a drama which went too far

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: jhalak7

What about Shukla the lunatic?


I thought BB is a place for different types of pagal. In fact when all fights and Rashmi just keeps staring at them........reminds me scenes from mental asylum shown in movies and serials. 😆 Jab bari aur furious pagals acts violently chhoti aur kamjor pagals reacts like Rashmi. 😆 Oh yes! After that sometimes choti pagal also screams to show he/she too has madness.🤣


Well I think BB is a show for pagals. Every year different types of pagals come here and the biggest pagal who can't leave or darshak don't let go..........wins the trophy. The biggest psycho Salman hosts the show. 😆Well one of the major reason for watching this show for me is finding out how many types of pagals are there in the world. So my mission is always accomplished. 😎😆

lol.

Those pagals r ok. They are causing their mental health anything but what I mean that we saw arti n sana having panic attacks n it’s bad for their own. M not expert but I think bb situations can make these things worse.

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