Salman and Sana :Whose fault ??

The way sana is behaving right now is not the right way and this post is in no way a defensive post for her . It's about how it unknowingly you build up a wrong narrative.

All of us agree that sana is a simple ,a bit naive girl ,from the rural countryside of punjab. There is a vast difference ,huge ,in the lifestyles of mumbai and where sana comes from. And most contestants by now are all mumbaibred.

She faced that insecurity. Then that whole controversy and I saw many of her IVS where she says no one willing to give her work . She came with a huge dent in confidence too.

Her punjabi accent and attitude was lapped up by many and on the other hand salman somehow connected to her . The channel decided to build on all this.

We all know salman gave her more than her share of attention. It did not at all occur to him what it was doing to a young insecure girl. Salman is a nicest person and he was being nice to a girl who was different and real.

And then sidharth. He is the most strong contestant in there.He ,from day one was giving her attention. Sitting with her ,listening to her ,doing chores with her.

That's 3 months . A long time . It will affect anybody in shehnaaz's situation.

The last two days were extremely overwhelming for sana with all coming and going sana sana. .

Then sidnaaz. From what I can see colors is pushing this hard.

I seriously think this jealousy task was designed by the creatives to build their sidnaaz narrative. This continuous mahira chant was visibly irritating sidharth . And also sana was stuck there. It was going on and on.

They probably wanted salman to talk it out and get it out of Sana'a head. She listens to him.

But it went awry. Sana's breakdown they had not expected. And the fact that she is real is clear from the way she is behaving with salman. Rude . She is not veiling her real feelings even with salman around.

Colors will control it and even salman.

They will set the track straight for sidharth and sana ,that I know.

But in the process they will kill a part of that real person inside sana. She will learn from this . It will stay with her . And 15 years down the line there will be whole new sana with all the industry makeup on het face and on her inner self.

It was neither sana's fault nor salmon's or channels. All were doing what they were supposed to .

It was life churning out it's lessons . Hard ones but practical ones.

Only one thing I want to say,

She has to start learning basic manners. NO situation in life can make you forget that.

Look at Paras, As much as I dislike him, I must appreciate the guy, he gets mocked by Salman every day, but he laughs it out.

Asim? Salman bashes the guy every weekend, he might not agree to it but apologises.

Thats basic decency.

But with Sana, what is this 5 yr old behaviour? Saying stuff like "aapne dhoka diya", got to give it to Salman if he chose to look past this disrespect.

I like Sana and dislike Sid to the core. But for the first time ever, I feel pity for Sid ki he has to handle this behaviour every other day.

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

The way sana is behaving right now is not the right way and this post is in no way a defensive post for her . It's about how it unknowingly you build up a wrong narrative.

All of us agree that sana is a simple ,a bit naive girl ,from the rural countryside of punjab. There is a vast difference ,huge ,in the lifestyles of mumbai and where sana comes from. And most contestants by now are all mumbaibred.

She faced that insecurity. Then that whole controversy and I saw many of her IVS where she says no one willing to give her work . She came with a huge dent in confidence too.

Her punjabi accent and attitude was lapped up by many and on the other hand salman somehow connected to her . The channel decided to build on all this.

We all know salman gave her more than her share of attention. It did not at all occur to him what it was doing to a young insecure girl. Salman is a nicest person and he was being nice to a girl who was different and real.

And then sidharth. He is the most strong contestant in there.He ,from day one was giving her attention. Sitting with her ,listening to her ,doing chores with her.

That's 3 months . A long time . It will affect anybody in shehnaaz's situation.

The last two days were extremely overwhelming for sana with all coming and going sana sana. .

Then sidnaaz. From what I can see colors is pushing this hard.

I seriously think this jealousy task was designed by the creatives to build their sidnaaz narrative. This continuous mahira chant was visibly irritating sidharth . And also sana was stuck there. It was going on and on.

They probably wanted salman to talk it out and get it out of Sana'a head. She listens to him.

But it went awry. Sana's breakdown they had not expected. And the fact that she is real is clear from the way she is behaving with salman. Rude . She is not veiling her real feelings even with salman around.

Colors will control it and even salman.

They will set the track straight for sidharth and sana ,that I know.

But in the process they will kill a part of that real person inside sana. She will learn from this . It will stay with her . And 15 years down the line there will be whole new sana with all the industry makeup on het face and on her inner self.

It was neither sana's fault nor salmon's or channels. All were doing what they were supposed to .

It was life churning out it's lessons . Hard ones but practical ones.

I dont think they are killing the real person inside Shehnaz. infact this will stop her acting cutie (kyunki duniya ko pata chal gaya that she's not cute but faking it), attention seeking tactics and bring the real Shehnaz out.

and who's at fault, of course its Shehnaz Kaur Gill. the way she mocks, degrade, irritate, bossing around others shows how disgusting person she is. iss mein rural-urban se kuch lena dena nahi. apni insecurity and jealousy ko chupane ki koshish mein sabko jealous jealous bolti hai. akhir ye Shehnaz Gill Kaur kon hai, kya achieve kiya life mein, kya hai iss mein ki koi aur isse jal jaye?

mahira ki baat chhod do. Shehnaz is even jealous of Rashmi and mocked her, for what?

Shameless Sana is totally at fault. She even pushed Shukla with full force and insulted Salman also. Salman did right thing by ignoring her. Very bad personality. She is so insecure and jealous of Mahira.

Simple naive girl - yaa toh aap khud naive hain ya follower hainn

Originally posted by: Niki_cool

Only one thing I want to say,

She has to start learning basic manners. NO situation in life can make you forget that.

Look at Paras, As much as I dislike him, I must appreciate the guy, he gets mocked by Salman every day, but he laughs it out.

Asim? Salman bashes the guy every weekend, he might not agree to it but apologises.

Thats basic decency.

But with Sana, what is this 5 yr old behaviour? Saying stuff like "aapne dhoka diya", got to give it to Salman if he chose to look past this disrespect.

I like Sana and dislike Sid to the core. But for the first time ever, I feel pity for Sid ki he has to handle this behaviour every other day.

I agree to a certain extent. You have to look at where she comes from. In every other story sana relates about her family she enacts her mother hitting het head and saying gaye meri kudiye . That is the way many many women in rural areas show their anger or grief.

She comes from there. This is a new world . Yes she shouldn't have been rude.

But I thought she was all raw there. No control . No put ons.

She will learn.

Originally posted by: Anachronist

Simple naive girl - yaa toh aap khud naive hain ya follower hainn

Krupya meri analysis na karein .

Originally posted by: hasini009

I dont think they are killing the real person inside Shehnaz. infact this will stop her acting cutie (kyunki duniya ko pata chal gaya that she's not cute but faking it), attention seeking tactics and bring the real Shehnaz out.

and who's at fault, of course its Shehnaz Kaur Gill. the way she mocks, degrade, irritate, bossing around others shows how disgusting person she is. iss mein rural-urban se kuch lena dena nahi. apni insecurity and jealousy ko chupane ki koshish mein sabko jealous jealous bolti hai. akhir ye Shehnaz Gill Kaur kon hai, kya achieve kiya life mein, kya hai iss mein ki koi aur isse jal jaye?

mahira ki baat chhod do. she's even jealous of Rashmi and mocked her, for what?

@Bold +1

Shenaaz kudh ek bully hai.. jis tarah comedy show mein comedy less aur taunting Mahira zaadha tha..frm no angle Shenaaz is bholi or cute..

from day 1.. Paras ke liye slum wali jaise ladai chal rahi hai btwn Shenaaz n Mahira...

Jis tarah flip maarthi hai Shenaaz .. cute tho door .. gross lag rahi hai shenaaz....🤢

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

The way sana is behaving right now is not the right way and this post is in no way a defensive post for her . It's about how it unknowingly you build up a wrong narrative.

All of us agree that sana is a simple ,a bit naive girl ,from the rural countryside of punjab. There is a vast difference ,huge ,in the lifestyles of mumbai and where sana comes from. And most contestants by now are all mumbaibred.

She faced that insecurity. Then that whole controversy and I saw many of her IVS where she says no one willing to give her work . She came with a huge dent in confidence too.

Her punjabi accent and attitude was lapped up by many and on the other hand salman somehow connected to her . The channel decided to build on all this.

We all know salman gave her more than her share of attention. It did not at all occur to him what it was doing to a young insecure girl. Salman is a nicest person and he was being nice to a girl who was different and real.

And then sidharth. He is the most strong contestant in there.He ,from day one was giving her attention. Sitting with her ,listening to her ,doing chores with her.

That's 3 months . A long time . It will affect anybody in shehnaaz's situation.

The last two days were extremely overwhelming for sana with all coming and going sana sana. .

Then sidnaaz. From what I can see colors is pushing this hard.

I seriously think this jealousy task was designed by the creatives to build their sidnaaz narrative. This continuous mahira chant was visibly irritating sidharth . And also sana was stuck there. It was going on and on.

They probably wanted salman to talk it out and get it out of Sana'a head. She listens to him.

But it went awry. Sana's breakdown they had not expected. And the fact that she is real is clear from the way she is behaving with salman. Rude . She is not veiling her real feelings even with salman around.

Colors will control it and even salman.

They will set the track straight for sidharth and sana ,that I know.

But in the process they will kill a part of that real person inside sana. She will learn from this . It will stay with her . And 15 years down the line there will be whole new sana with all the industry makeup on het face and on her inner self.

It was neither sana's fault nor salmon's or channels. All were doing what they were supposed to .

It was life churning out it's lessons . Hard ones but practical ones.

Firstly, I completely disagree that her bad behavior is a suggestion that she is being real. She has built up this insane expectation for herself in her head that in order to be successful, she needs to act like a kid. It may have been real in the beginning, but the degree to which she is doing all this is totally fake in my opinion. Even after she pushed Shukla away, she asks Salman to say she is not jealous of Mahira. She's trying to create a moment. Salman denies and she goes apeshit. I'm not saying the feelings are fake, but her reactions/treatment of the situation surely seems fake to me. Later, Salman walks in the house and she just looks at him with the standard 'cute' guilty face while he ignores her and walks inside. Shukla is trying to bring her in and she says, in the middle of all the screaming and crying - quietly: "Tell him to come and get me," refusing to go inside. Again, she's trying to create a moment. This isn't how a real person would act. Her entire saga is camera conscious. When she has fun, she has fun LOUDLY for the cameras, making faces, repeatedly checking the mirror. When she is sad, she is sad LOUDLY again for the cameras, running around, screaming, hitting herself. By all accounts, (most recently and believable from Bagga, who spent almost 24/7 with her) she senses when the camera is on her and she puts on an act. Its not a bad thing, by the way, its show biz. But it does translate to people as desperation and fakeness on screen.

Second part - I agree. For whatever reason, Colors seems hellbent on making SidNaaz a thing. Look at how far Shukla has come. He used to treat her so badly and outright refuse to pacify her when he first heard of SidNaaz from VG. Now, after the comedy club task, he is calling her darling/sweertheart and manaoing her EVERY SINGLE DAY. The guy who lost his closest friend in the house because he refused to treat him kindly, and stayed mad at Sana for over a week once just because Sana was feeling low and Paras talked to her now suddenly will pacify her attention seeking behavior every day? SidNaaz is going to happen! And unfortunately, we all have to deal with it. :(

Originally posted by: NepaliArtist

Firstly, I completely disagree that her bad behavior is a suggestion that she is being real. She has built up this insane expectation for herself in her head that in order to be successful, she needs to act like a kid. It may have been real in the beginning, but the degree to which she is doing all this is totally fake in my opinion. Even after she pushed Shukla away, she asks Salman to say she is not jealous of Mahira. She's trying to create a moment. Salman denies and she goes apeshit. I'm not saying the feelings are fake, but her reactions/treatment of the situation surely seems fake to me. Later, Salman walks in the house and she just looks at him with the standard 'cute' guilty face while he ignores her and walks inside. Shukla is trying to bring her in and she says, in the middle of all the screaming and crying - quietly: "Tell him to come and get me," refusing to go inside. Again, she's trying to create a moment. This isn't how a real person would act. Her entire saga is camera conscious. When she has fun, she has fun LOUDLY for the cameras, making faces, repeatedly checking the mirror. When she is sad, she is sad LOUDLY again for the cameras, running around, screaming, hitting herself. By all accounts, (most recently and believable from Bagga, who spent almost 24/7 with her) she senses when the camera is on her and she puts on an act. Its not a bad thing, by the way, its show biz. But it does translate to people as desperation and fakeness on screen.

Second part - I agree. For whatever reason, Colors seems hellbent on making SidNaaz a thing. Look at how far Shukla has come. He used to treat her so badly and outright refuse to pacify her when he first heard of SidNaaz from VG. Now, after the comedy club task, he is calling her darling/sweertheart and manaoing her EVERY SINGLE DAY. The guy who lost his closest friend in the house because he refused to treat him kindly, and stayed mad at Sana for over a week once just because Sana was feeling low and Paras talked to her now suddenly will pacify her attention seeking behavior every day? SidNaaz is going to happen! And unfortunately, we all have to deal with it. :(

I agree to an extent. All that childlike behaviour was a put on. When I say real it has a slightly different tone.

That cute act was to make a place fir herself in biggboss ,her one chance to make a place in mumbai show business. A career move maybe.

It's like a job interview. You do put on a act to impress. That was what it was for sana. She was trying to impress and everyone including salman lead her on.

When I say real it's when she is dealing with people. When she is not playing to gallery. There she is what she is . She doesn't misguide people ,she supports everyone ,she helps everyone.

About sidnaaz of course our views will differ as I like them and you don't. Fair enough.

But of Sid I will say that he is genuinely fond of her. Otherwise sid is the most real person in there. He would have NOT tolerated this if he did not feel like. He likes her. His laughter is genuine and it shows. Fake laughter is the most evident.

Sid is fond of asim too and vice versa. But it's a boy thing there in between them. Male ego issues. They will sort it out too. Asim is again one of the real ones in there.

Sid ,sana and asim make a good trio.