Shukla Ji ki psyche

Why can't Shukla Ji take any form of criticism widout getting angry or hyper ??

I hv come up wid two explanations for this.

1. He knows what his shortcomings are and probably has had many incidences where he has suffered bcz of his nature. So when someone points out something he already knows is his negative point......he gets overtly sensitive about it.

2. He doesn't think he can be wrong . He is deluded in a way that he thinks everyone else is conspiring against him and dt he is the victim . But he can't understand why is he being criticized.

Which one do you think is correct ?

i feel its no 1. he knows about his shortcoming.....knows he gets too aggressive.....knows he comes close while talking......knows he has temper issues and is frustrated that he is not able to control that on national television.....when people come to council him on that.....he gets more frustrated as he doesnt want that discussion to happen and happen. He hides behind his fake smile. He doesnt think he is perfect or something and i feel he does know that his temper issues are continuously pulling him down.

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

i feel its no 1. he knows about his shortcoming.....knows he gets too aggressive.....knows he comes close while talking......knows he has temper issues and is frustrated that he is not able to control that on national television.....when people come to council him on that.....he gets more frustrated as he doesnt want that discussion to happen and happen. He hides behind his fake smile. He doesnt think he is perfect or something and i feel he does know that his temper issues are continuously pulling him down.

You explained it nicely.

Yeah it's possible. He is smart....and yet he doesn't take criticism well. The only tym he pretends to take it well is when Salman Khan tell him and he has no other option but to smile and take it.

I feel he is extremely delusional. Like the arrogance comment. He flips out whenever somebody points out he is arrogant and starts telling everybody the dictionary definition of the word arrogant, even Aarti and Asim would agree he is arrogant but he just doesn't believe it. How is it possible? Does he go deaf when he's having conversations with people? He has just doesn't believe it. I feel he's an extremely pampered kid jisko kabhi godi se utara nahi toh baat baat pe uchalata rehta hai.

Shenaaz put forth a great point, she said that Shukla got angry whenever shenaaz went and spoke to rashmi( shenaaz is infact fond of rashmi)..but shenaaz should not act the same way as he did...he is entitled and the rest should just say and do his bidding...

Hatela hai

Iski kab hat Jaye pta nahi

I think he is just a narcissist. Cannot see anything beyond himself.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

You explained it nicely.

Yeah it's possible. He is smart....and yet he doesn't take criticism well. The only tym he pretends to take it well is when Salman Khan tell him and he has no other option but to smile and take it.

Aur gharwalo se criticism lena woh pasand nahi karta .....not because he think he is above them. Its because he had seen them never agreeing to their mistakes......woh toh salman ke saamne tak palti maarte hain.......toh joh log apni galtiyan nahi maante hain unhe doosro ki galtiyan ginane ka haq nahi hai. When they criticize him....its seldom to help him and actually giving feedback....like in asim or aarti case ......mostly they are mocking him, telling him he is a big aggressive person who doesnt respect girls.....why he should listen to all that crap.

I will go with your second point...

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

he doesnt really smiles when salman criticize him.....he listens to him carefully, doesnt argue back because he knows what salman is telling him absolutely correct. When farah told him that he went too aggressive....he did agreed to her .....even before the case started....he himself took the blame of being aggressive .....so he does realize his mistakes but he has bad temper issues...i never understand why people choose shows like big boss when they have such kind of issues.....it spoils what you have earned as well at times.......woh manage karna chahtha hain with this fake smile thing.....but kuch ho pa nahi raha hain.......but if you had notice...he is never the one to start, but unfortunately always the one to end it on a very bitter note.

Aur gharwalo se criticism lena woh pasand nahi karta .....not because he think he is above them. Its because he had seen them never agreeing to their mistakes......woh toh salman ke saamne tak palti maarte hain.......toh joh log apni galtiyan nahi maante hain unhe doosro ki galtiyan ginane ka haq nahi hai. When they criticize him....its seldom to help him and actually giving feedback....like in asim or aarti case ......mostly they are mocking him, telling him he is a big aggressive person who doesnt respect girls.....why he should listen to all that crap.

I get what you are saying but I don't really agree here.

Shukla doesn't actually agree to Salman or Farah but he is smart enough to know that an argument wid dem will not end up doing him any good. Once he even twisted his own words to look better in Salman's book.

Dt I comply agree that BB is a bad platform for some wid issues like anger management. He is spoiling his image . No idea why he took it up when he knows his own temper.

Dts very unfair I feel. Not everyone is telling him bcz dey want to mock him. He is very disrespectful of Aarti....who is very loyal to him. So Aarti should hv the ryts to tell him when he is wrong and why . Even Asim wasn't mocking him yesterday. It's not about galti ginwana......it's about him getting a reality check.