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Posted: 6 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: HippoSucks

Why hasn't she been kicked out yet? If Deepak had physically assaulted Megha like this, I'm sure he would've been out of the house by now.


What is even more shocking is that many of the other contestants (like Dipika) were comforting her despite seeing everything she did.



Dipika wasn't there she was with Shurbhi giving interview in other part of the room.
On heresay she is obviously gonna believe her ally Megha over Deepak whom she doesn't like.😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Chaal chalan & vyawhar = How you carry yourself & whats your upbringing. Its a nassty comment for sure but it should have been handled with little dignity for example: ask his chaal chalan & give tit for tat but megha went more lower then him. Spitting someone is extremely disgusting.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Halo00-


She literally starts trailing after him though? Especially in that fight.

And she did ignore him when he came back in the bedroom, she covered herself and said "no comment" and told him to leave. So she is capable of walking away or ignoring.


I know where you are coming from and it is not that I disagree. Megha using her footwear was as wrong as when Rohit did it. Her spitting on Deepak was as wrong as when Sreesanth did it, in some task on Deepak's name. If you ask me whether I appreciate it or not, then hear it out, I don't.

But Deepak is no saint. He had provoked her to that extent. Megha should have reacted verbally is what I feel but things are hitting her one after another. Rohit had worsened situation in the previous day and then this happened. Keeping cool is easier said than done. That's right. She did ignore it, covering herself, saying "no comments" but she did it once she grabbed a control on herself, when she was done crying and once, she could hold her emotions.

It happens several times, that you react tremendously when your nerves have been touched, when you have been provoked, when you have been annoyed and angered constantly and repetitively. You can't restrain yourself from firm expressing hurt every time but after a while, you do get back your control and from where I am seeing this, this is what has happened here.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: NathuPyare


@bold- I didn't know about this.

then this chal-chalan word must have definitely hit her raw nerve... cos its still a taboo in our society, jahan single mothers ko chal-chalan wale taaney bahut sunne ko milte hai... but getting that on National television is another thing altogether...

Galti dono ki hi hai... both Megha and Deepak are responsible for what happened.


That's exactly why my stand is what it is. I can understand her outburst. All I wish is she shouldn't have hit or spat on him. Having a kid before marriage is not much acceptable and appreciable in society and that too especially in Marathi people. That's a thing of huge shame for parents and their upbringing. Her father did not talk to her later this, neither allowed her in his home nor talked on the call she once made to him, apologizing. He died before even seeing her daughter, before her child was even born. Just imagine the amount of guilt and pain she still carries inside her heart. That makes me understand her reaction on chalchalan thing because I guess, she must have had to hear such remakes for a long time and they aren't pleasant at all.

Absolutely. Deepak did worst. He keeps on provoking so much that it becomes hard to ignore or not react but nobody gets to hit or spit on other.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: IAdoreYou


I know where you are coming from and it is not that I disagree. Megha using her footwear was as wrong as when Rohit did it. Her spitting on Deepak was as wrong as when Sreesanth did it, in some task on Deepak's name. If you ask me whether I appreciate it or not, then hear it out, I don't.

But Deepak is no saint. He had provoked her to that extent. Megha should have reacted verbally is what I feel but things are hitting her one after another. Rohit had worsened situation in the previous day and then this happened. Keeping cool is easier said than done. That's right. She did ignore it, covering herself, saying "no comments" but she did it once she grabbed a control on herself, when she was done crying and once, she could hold her emotions. Agreed Deepak is hardly a saint, after the spitting/chappal, even I was like, dude walk away, not worth it. But maybe he knew this would piss her off even more. But he angry as well seeing how he threw his mike. There's frustration in him as well.

I maintain Rohit hasn't done anything that Megha didn't do the day before. Blue team knew he would betray them, tried to convince him but failed. And then of course, Megha would get angry because yet another task lost because of HC and started calling him "gaddar" (uncalled for in my opinion) and he gave it back.
I just get pissed when she doesn't say anything to Sree, who is also on her team and supposedly on her side, but instead directs her anger to opposing members. Why get mad at Rohit calling him gaddar but not Sree who sent him in and then didn't even help despite saying he wants to go in.

It's not just Rohit, Megha has been miffed wit HC for a while and I think the resentment has been building, particularly with Deepak - they're both constantly shown to be making jabs at each other.

It happens several times, that you react tremendously when your nerves have been touched, when you have been provoked, when you have been annoyed and angered constantly and repetitively. You can't restrain yourself from firm expressing hurt every time but after a while, you do get back your control and from where I am seeing this, this is what has happened here.

Honestly I found Megha's reaction unsurprising. I'm not saying she is a bad person. But she isn't right. She's being portrayed as a victim when they're both guilty. She knows HC are going to be annoying yet she keeps trying to get back at them (think she wants them to feel hurt just like she does) and then fails and cries.

Deepak is being told off for all sorts of things when she is just as relentless but with less emotional restraint.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: IAdoreYou


That's exactly why my stand is what it is. I can understand her outburst. All I wish is she shouldn't have hit or spat on him. Having a kid before marriage is not much acceptable and appreciable in society and that too especially in Marathi people. That's a thing of huge shame for parents and their upbringing. Her father did not talk to her later this, neither allowed her in his home nor talked on the call she once made to him, apologizing. He died before even seeing her daughter, before her child was even born. Just imagine the amount of guilt and pain she still carries inside her heart. That makes me understand her reaction on chalchalan thing because I guess, she must have had to hear such remakes for a long time and they aren't pleasant at all.

Absolutely. Deepak did worst. He keeps on provoking so much that it becomes hard to ignore or not react but nobody gets to hit or spit on other.


I just think why should he give her leeway when she never gives him any? Yes he can be the bigger person but we know they're both immature.

If Deepak was annoyed, we know she'd just keep pestering him as well, she wouldn't step back.

And this whole backstory - Megha has been through a lot but I can't help but think when BB shows Deepak's backstory, everyone accuses him of gaining sympathy. Even he must feel undervalued, wanting to prove something and yet gets disrespected everytime.

It's just an unfortunate incident just like Sree/Tihar jail.

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