Dance of Time and Illusion ( Episode Analysis)Part 30updated DTNTPg131 - Page 51

@Darling I am a married girl and I know this much about men. They mostly believe what they see, while we women feel. Even if a female relative from your husband side has bad intention against you, it doesnt help you bad mouth them. If you are an intelligent girl, you will place your hubby between you and them, because he is the common link. You will move with him as far as they are concerned. No independant decisions. I didnt know this funda before marriage and I didnt even realize when my hubby told me on the eve of the marriage that if you have any problem with anyone here let me know, dont try to talk it out on your own. I exactly did that and continue to do that. I never ask how he solves problems 😆😆 , that is his headache but yes it has ensured that I have a good relation with my MIL and SILs😆😆 and over years I realized why he told me that line. Your hubby knows his family better than you. Allow him to take centre stage than you hog the limelight. Instead of being a bahu, just be a wife , everything else will fall in place.

See this is where it is told before accusing someone know your past. Saanjh's parents had run away from home, they had left their parents for their own selfishness to be together. Did they think about their parents when they ran away and got married. No right. When her mother itself didnt think about her parents, what right Saanjh has to talk about another woman breaking family. And to be frank she herself doesnt think about her parents.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

See this is where it is told before accusing someone know your past. Saanjh's parents had run away from home, they had left their parents for their own selfishness to be together. Did they think about their parents when they ran away and got married. No right. When her mother itself didnt think about her parents, what right Saanjh has to talk about another woman breaking family. And to be frank she herself doesnt think about her parents.

exactly. How she is going on bad mouthing Maya for no reason..

One thing puzzling me most, is -why no one in the forum - not taking a critical view on Samay's nefarious & unholy intentions?
He is all set to go after a married spouse -in fact, constantly bragging about it!
An identical crime, Saanjh is charged with!

In Saanjh's case, she is still not calling it openly as 'love'. She is camouflaging it as care or concern or friendship for Arjun!
And Arjun is playing foul with her also! So, Saanjh & Arjun both share blame, here!

But,in case of Samay, Maya is not at all showing any interest in him! But still he wants to meddle into her life!
And nobody is crying foul or critical about him!

He deserves to be castigated & out-rightly condemned!

Why these double standards?

Why kid-gloves approach for Samay, when Saanjh gets kicked at, every time?

Originally posted by: Fernandes43

One thing puzzling me most, is -why no one in the forum - not taking a critical view on Samay's nefarious & unholy intentions?
He is all set to go after a married spouse -in fact, constantly bragging about it!
An identical crime, Saanjh is charged with!

In Saanjh's case, she is still not calling it openly as 'love'. She is camouflaging it as care or concern or friendship for Arjun!
And Arjun is playing foul with her also! So, Saanjh & Arjun both share blame, here!

But,in case of Samay, Maya is not at all showing any interest in him! But still he wants to meddle into her life!
And nobody is crying foul or critical about him!

He deserves to be castigated & out-rightly condemned!

Why these double standards?

Why kid-gloves approach for Samay, when Saanjh gets kicked at, every time?

this is what shurthi di mentioned it as dance and illusion..samay says aloud saanj doesn't but both has the same motto.in forum mostly fight happens btw saanj and Maya not about Arjun and samay..

Originally posted by: sunithi

this is what shurthi di mentioned it as dance and illusion..samay says aloud saanj doesn't but both has the same motto.in forum mostly fight happens btw saanj and Maya not about Arjun and samay..

Saanj created the probs interfering directly wheres samay plays along to drift them apart..

Saanj is getting prasied by saanjun fans sameway samay by samaya fans but in btw v Arya fans r clueless..

But, Maya's supporters & neutral viewers have to take a hard look at him!
Sure, Maya is capable of defending her, but she needs moral support when her 'intention & actions' are getting more & more questionable!

Nice post Shruti di..

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@Darling I am a married girl and I know this much about men. They mostly believe what they see, while we women feel. Even if a female relative from your husband side has bad intention against you, it doesnt help you bad mouth them. If you are an intelligent girl, you will place your hubby between you and them, because he is the common link. You will move with him as far as they are concerned. No independant decisions. I didnt know this funda before marriage and I didnt even realize when my hubby told me on the eve of the marriage that if you have any problem with anyone here let me know, dont try to talk it out on your own. I exactly did that and continue to do that. I never ask how he solves problems 😆😆 , that is his headache but yes it has ensured that I have a good relation with my MIL and SILs😆😆 and over years I realized why he told me that line. Your hubby knows his family better than you. Allow him to take centre stage than you hog the limelight. Instead of being a bahu, just be a wife , everything else will fall in place.

Having said that if my hubby doesnt solve problem and have a female friend like Saanjh who pokes her head now and then, well even I will do some manipulations as, as a wife I can never tolerate another woman in my hubby's life.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Gayatri actually I was thinking about you couple of days back. What a pleasant surprise. 😆😆. Yes when pride breaks it will be a fall. I agree to you Saanjh has a high moral ground and I am also waiting to see when that breaks.

@ferandes..Maya supporters very much know her love is always Arjun..As of now.,maya has upper hand over samay,if he threatens Maya,then you can see band Baaja bhaaart..