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FlauntPesimism

@FlauntPessimism

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Posted: 8 years ago

#141

Originally posted by: kavsy

You are the one who began to use that word first. You can't get away with it.

She brought that word for a fictional character and not a real person, what is the comparison

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Saranya

@charanyaaj

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

#142

Originally posted by: kavsy

Yes, but there are also some people from Saanjh's side who call the members as idiots. The username is rayjain. That person called us idiot just because we don't agree with that person.

Ok agreed if anyone attacked personally you guys should report that post first.
This is happening in every forum but in a dignified manner but here...

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@TheUnique

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#143

I don't get this ! The topic was on how a member attacked Tanvi for a mere fictional character!

So the topic was Tanvi being a victim of online abuse over here for a fictional character.

Then comes the comments of how Saanjh a fictional character is called a honewrecker and a s**t ...which is so not right.. cuz people are again attacking fictional ch hiding behind their computer screens ! What sense does this make going by the main post!

I thought the topic was meant to be about how people get carried away over fictional characters that they start losing their senses and start making personal attacks! So the main point being people should stop over reacting over fictional characters. So y is Saanjh another fictional character is brought in here and her bashing is considered wrong and people who do that are being mocked at ! Isn't she also a fictional character?

So u r telling Maya can be called a rapist and ppl should not go overboard about it... but Saanjh cannot be called a s**t and a honewrecker! Just like you say she is neither... so in this case neither is Maya a rapist cuz she definitely was not shown taking advantage of a drunk Arjun & neither was Arjun seen protesting against her moves... irritated maybe but not fighting at all to push her away.. which he could have done easily!

The topic wasOriginals should be banned cuz of her deragotory comments but now this topic has taken a complete different turn about how this place is a Maya shrine where it's supposed to be a Saanjh shrine I guess cuz she's the real holier than thou character! Poor Tanvi is getting sidelined over here and fictional ch Saanjh gets to be the matter of graver concern here now.

@ Caput Draconis ...before dismissing ppl with comments like 'oh please you ppl r not important enough to be discussed at our CC ' & belittling them I say why don't u first get the real picture that goes on and ask your friends about the amusing walks they take around the park ! I am sure Khushi will be glad to enlighten you on these matters cuz by now she is very rich! 😆😉

I am sure she could not have made fun of kavita's comment over here so CC is the best place to do that without anyone protesting! So I guess we can conclude by saying we are important enough for people deciding to leave this forum. Important enough to make a million topics about how dear Saanjh gets bashed by your so called unimportant members!

Important enough for you to lose your temper and get into personal attacks with them .

This post gets made for Originals abusive behavior... the member concerned though seems to be unaffected by it and not even seen having an ounce of remorse for her actions ! She is seen challenging people to talk directly to her if they have a problem instead of making a post! I think she has a point there. I guess tanvi could have just PMd her about how terrible she felt about that remark and wanted an apology... sometimes this things can work wonders then bringing in faujs to protest!

Originals by the way has said she's going on a vacation to Venice and will return after a month... which I guess she will just keep low now and come back with a new ID ! Since she claims to be a IT student don't think she will have much problem in getting back here. So nothing can be done about originals being banned.. but if we would have asked her or rather Tanvi could have pmd her for an apology I think it would be better.

Now before u accuse me of stalking your CC I did get pms earlier about members being ridiculed at and their ideas being mocked at but never paid much heed. But now I decided to do it and what did I just come across... that the CM had to make a note to tone down their discussion about the park cuz they don't want a mods note! 😆 But dear don't worry we don't consider you guys important enough to go and report about your CC... U can be rest assured! 😆

I think I made myself clear.. U can continue with quoting me and highlighting my points but maybe I won't be able to answer now cuz I m on my way to Uni.. so maybe later! 😃

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MrsAkyurek

@MrsAkyurek

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#144

I'll try and explain in your terms😛 The reason why the derogatory comments about Saanjh have been brought in is solely because despite the character getting bashed mercilessly, Saanjh fans don't resort to name-calling REAL, LIVING, BREATHING members of the forum like OriginalsFan does. She's not a first time offender, it's been going on for ages, and today s/he crossed all lines of online etiquette/decorum that one had to bring forth the nasty behavior to the members of the forum at large.. Pretty straight forward isn't it?

Also go ahead and report the CC😆. There's NOTHING that's being discussed where members of the forum are spoken in the most vicious and disparaging ways like a select few do in this very forum.

Who cares about OF coming back with a fake ID? Don't we all know who else has a penchant for creating MIDs to bash people?😉😃

Your post is seriously an embarrassment. Instead of condemning a vile user like OrginalsFan, you're standing in solidarity with him/her when it's not even about reel characters anymore but about the said person's toxic mentality in going overboard with ad hominem attacks over a fictional character. Stop letting your ego get the better of you and see where the problem lies.

Good night😃

Edited by CaputDraconis - 8 years ago

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MrsAkyurek

@MrsAkyurek

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#145

I did directly quote OF's pathetic comments ( so did many others) in the other thread but as usual it was ignored which was why a new topic had to be made! Sorry, such foulmouthed, toxic people ruin the environment of the forum and should be banished for good.

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CoffeeCake

@CoffeeCake

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#146

If rape is a sensitive issue and shouldn't be mocked, even murder is equally sensitive issue. People are planning murder of saanjh, few even said they wish to kill her, what about that low mentality? No one bother to preach in that thread.

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kavita

@kavitha_r

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

#147

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Omg can't u find the difference between using the word on the scene or a character and using on a real person?
Well u people used a lot of words on saanjh which we never used on u people.
This is message we are trying to convey u people don't seem to understand. This is not first time that particular member used filty language she used a lot of words but this crossed a limit.

Just because anybody says anything to a character we cannot say anything to real person. We can always defend the character.
Instead of admitting the mistake and moving on u people are playing the blame game.

In another post when I pointed out aneri is bashed u said aneri is not bashed... Period
Here also u r playing the blame game

At least once admit ur mistakes

Here everyone says that even you are wrong for using that word here. Rape is something that w\is done without consent. even you guys bash Maya more on the CC by calling her mars, bitch, & what not. As for bashing Aneri, I'm not involved in it. You have provoked her to use these words.

I say both of you are wrong.

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Rida

@FleetingWishes.

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#148

First of all can people stop with the tag-teaming? What is this a genetic lab where all the people under 'saanjh fans' and 'maya fans' will all have the same traits, same beliefs, same ways of talking. Why do people litter pages after pages with debates of maya fans vs saanjh fans. This ambiguity ruins all the purpose of any objectivity. A person can be a Maya fan and be the most eloquent member possible and a person can be a saanjh fan and can say or do something other fans don't do.
If you want to tag-team so bad then own every single word and action of each other. If you cannot then specify who you're talking about in your responses so people can clearly reply.
Who gets to decide who's a xyz fan and who isn't?

And since it's brought up so much I'd just like to clarify because people never bother checking the factbooks.
A CC is an INFORMAL PLACE. A chat club.
A forum is A FORMAL PLACE. A place to discuss a certain subject.
A CC can be restricted to members and not everyone can enter it if chosen so.
A FORUM is OPEN AND PUBLIC and for everyone.

your informal letter to your friend is very different from your formal letter to an acquaintance.
A CC and FORUM have different rules! A forum is more stricter and requires a decorum and people need to be civil and talk constructively.
A CC is an informal chat club for people where they can say whatever the hell they want to say. In fact IF is full of CCs where people only bash. That's their sole purposes. CCs where people come up with erotic fantasies and what not. You want to bash people--don't do it in the forum. Go get your own chat club and do it to your heart's content.

Husna - the admin since she's mentioned didn't tell people to tone down because *WE'LL GET A WARNING-WHAT EVEN?😆😆* we can talk whatever the hell we want to talk about. She did it because there are people who believe in maintaining respect, decorum and do not like to play tit for tat. And since the CC's being discussed as a validation for 'saanjh fans' and their obsession with a group of people and how this validates that group of people's mocking/bashing etc--the forum isn't discussed much in there. It is the thought process that's discussed and that a certain people don't agree with and voice their opinions in the most normal--non derogatory--way possible. Valid questions are raised and no character is bashed. So idek how these two equate?

And since I've explained it I think it should be clear enough that a CC and FORUM do not equate. So what people do in a Forum shouldn't be compared and equalized with what people do in a CC because of their set of different rules. This argument is rendered invalid.

And my last point. It's just so baffling. Why do people say Im gonna bash the daylights out of xyz because xyz bashed me? What are you third-graders who cannot control their impulses? Why do people do something that bothers them in the first place? If I dislike Donald Trump and he says shiz like grab them by the puckweed juice what am I gonna do? Grab HIM by HIS puckweed juice? I'm repulsed by it. Why will i do the exact same thing?

Bashing/mocking in retaliation of bashing mocking and then justifying it by blaming your actions on others is immaturity at its best. Please grow up.😆

And Can WE NOT FORGET that the person in question issued a statement that put 'lack of sex education' and 'men cannot be raped' in the same sentence?
If this was an oxymoron competition. She'd have aced it! 😆

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Rida

@FleetingWishes.

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#149

Originally posted by: kavsy

Here everyone says that even you are wrong for using that word here. Rape is something that w\is done without consent. even you guys bash Maya more on the CC by calling her mars, bitch, & what not. As for bashing Aneri, I'm not involved in it. You have provoked her to use these words.

I say both of you are wrong.

Yes I'm sure she went to her and cooed and whispered magic words in her ears. When the innocent, gullible girl didn't agree, she would've tortured her and put a gun to her head and said WRITE IT!! With all the power in the heavens and HELL I command you to type it!

Can we stop justifying people's actions by saying xyz provoked xyz to do it?
Rapists and criminals are all innocent then. They are PROVOKED by the victimized parties no? EVERYONE is responsible for their own actions. nobody can PROVOKE anyone to use words like s**t mistress rape etc..

Maya is Mars? What's wrong with being mars? I say Mars is friggin awesome. Im gonna go live on Mars when Tesla makes it happen.😆

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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

#150

Originally posted by: BIaddict

Rida, forget Sanj and Maya I am your fan from today 👏

This was awesome🤣

Is this post is about saanjh or abt asking real people to deal with manners ??

How come making something a comment about fictional character saanjh in this post is relevant ?

And ppl who are clapping for that... something irrelevant stuff ?

Yes we can bash and hate any char we dont like from a show. And yes we say saanjh is a mistress or s**t how does it matter even to u ?

Go and bash maya as mch as u guys want... we dont care and we know how u bash maya but we dont mind bcz its completely ok having person to person diff views.

we dont call real people mindless, dumb etc for not liking a ch that u like.

And its immaturity to make posts asking people around every once in a while " why cant people stand saanjh ?"

"why is saanjh considered wrong ?" "why cant people see sanjh selfless?" etc like u guys do.

And yeah... people have every ryt to post whatever they want but cant make others like what they like. Like u guys are making.

And that maturity is what makes difference btwn 2 fandoms.

I dont see maya fans asking anytime such qtns. No one makes a post " why cant u all stand maya ?" something on those terms.

Why TM isn't mentioning abt this irrelevant stuff ? And why isnt TM talking abt mockery of real people few fans are doing in the name of fictional characters???