Originally posted by: kavsy
I don't justify Maya but I don't blame her completely as everyone knows from where she has come. Her own mother was meeting Ashwin though it was affecting her. In the process of mothering her own psycho mother, she might have gone nuts in the process. That has become her mindset. If she takes it extra seriously, that has become her mindset. I know a little bit of psychology and am only applying it here. I am only trying to understand her more. If anyone has problems with that, I can't help it. My mom's younger sister is in the USA and is having her own lab in Boston. She is never judgmental towards the patients. I have inherited those qualities from her.
It is really good that your are trying to understand Maya and where she is coming from. Not being judgemental etc. I am doing the same. Perhaps you can try doing the same for the other characters in the show. Maybe that will help you not to hate other characters that reacts against maya so much and may help you enjoy the show better.
Once again even if there was no Sanjh no Vandana in Arjun's life and Arjun was an orphan with no mom, brother, friend etc even then Arya would have ended exactly where they ended now as long as maya is sick. Arjun is a normal human being and like other normal human beings like you and me who value our freedom it is his basic human right to have freedom.
I cannot imagine getting a spouse who is watching every single move of mine. In marriage it is very important to give space to one another. No couple in the world can survive by being with each other 24 by 7 or feeling the presence of each other 24 by 7. I am not saying any one is a saint in this show all are very real characters who makes human mistakes. Now to blame them for Maya's state and Arya's relationship sorry in my opinion is very one sided
Edited by BIaddict - 8 years ago