CVs can we just see Adi having some self respect now ? - Page 5

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Posted: 7 years ago
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he is running behind her for friendship so they both can stay safe and away from this stupid case.. he is thinking about everyone...
if she is concerned for her fam so is adi..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: delena90

But did Aditya have self-respect to begin with. He conveniently has now got back on good terms with his father because the man helped him stay out of jail. Had no qualms about defrauding the Virani's for the "sake of the company" by pretending to be married. If he had any self-respect he would have been honest about being a widower and told the old fashion fart to go screw himself. Also, if he had self-respect he would not push women off terraces and then hold them responsible for their husband's behaviour or even care if someone's spouse chose to love and trust her husband.

Aditya's behaviour towards his mother was also unnecessarily cruel and unwarranted. Whatever happened between his parents when he was a child at the end of the day it was none of his business. And he certainly shouldn't get brownie points for punishing his parents because they didn't behave the way he expected. I have full sympathy for his aversion to cheating because of it but he should have had such an aversion regardless.

Both these characters are flawed and lack respect for themselves and maturity to deal with situations in an adult manner. Zoya should definitely stand up to Mahi (just like she does to Aditya) and maybe there will be a time and place that she will. But Madhu, whatever her flaws, in some ways is Zoya's responsibility. At the end of the day Yash was someone she loved and this is his mother. It's not surprising she feels some level of care and affection towards the woman. There may also come a day that Zoya will drift apart naturally from her.

Zoya is spoilt and stubborn - not a great combination but it doesn't mean she was wrong to tell a few home truths to Adi and reopen the case. If Pooja and Yash were murder victims it is important to find out who and why. There is enough evidence (which technically PH could have used to acquit them) to prove that Adi and Zoya didn't know each other, have an affair or commit murder. PH just used a defence that caused the least amount of damage to his family's reputation.

Both Aditya and Zoya are blind to their own faults and lack the gumption to take any personal responsibility towards a situation. They see the world through their narrow prisms and expect everything to be hunky-dory. It doesn't make them bad people. But they definitely need to reflect and grow from their experiences all they will forever remain as stunted adults.

Frankly, Arjun seems like the only well-adjusted adult on the show.

Well thank you for this comment. I have been harping about Zoya's faults to an extent but I have a few things to say about Aditya too.. You have said everything and I couldn't have put it any better . Yes, I never understood the reason why He punished his parents for the affair. Yes he was angry with his dad agreed but then did papa hooda not fulfill his role as a father to the tee? really ,did the self respecting father loathing teenager become a pilot on his own? Where did the money for his education come from, what about financial security? Didn't his dad assure that both his boys were brought up in the best possible way? Yes he wasn't available for them emotionally but then even some of the non cheating fathers are also guilty of not giving enough time to one's family!! And don't get me started with his behavior with his mom.. I never ever understood that . She took Her philandering hubby back so sonny boy is super pissed at her? What did you expect dear? She would walk out with two young boys in tow and start a new life? Would she be able to fulfill your needs? ? Would you be able to live without your Playstations ?? And you run back to her the moment Sakshi betrays you? ? Slow claps.. N Now after Zoya ' S capacious harangue do you not want to figure out the next plan? Why do you want daddy dearest to shove the plan in your brains?? Come on CVs, stop the rollercoaster rides with the character growth ..it was going well until this...
Edited by Happy_hippy - 7 years ago

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