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I don't really want to offend anyone but I have read a post regarding Aditya's overstretched anger. I think it's kindda unfair to judge.
For a twelve year old boy , who naturally would have considered his dad as his hero, witnessing his betrayal must have had destroyed his faith on relationships and trusts. An emotional void that had been created long back remained thick and strong.
Building up that kind of blind trust again on someone , must have been the toughest decision taken from his side. Pooja was a lot more than just his best friend and wife. She was that single thread that he was clinging to , so that he could remain sane. Pooja was his belief and his hope.
Yash was sure some mature man who (might have) wooed Pooja and Pooja who was apparently done with her husband's so called childlike behaviour took the path of infidelity. Aditya wasn't childlike. He is an emotionally unstable man who found solace in his wife's presence. He was so much in love with her that all his insecurities remained at bay. The little ADI whose innocence and childhood was brutally scrapped out, used to let go off his guards and just be himself with Pooja.
To have this trust broken again by one person he thought would never do that has killed him deep. The fear, the pain, the immense sense of betrayal has returned with magnified intensity which Aditya is not able to cope up with.
His rage is ofcourse childlike because his mind soul and heart has felt as if the time has taken a u turn. This ADI is actually the same young little boy who had lost his faith. It was his dad hen , and now his wife.
I wonder how he must have felt when his younger brother pointed that it must have been his fault too that his bhabhi took the wrong path. Dear Arjun, cheating is never justified. You always choose to be a cheater. Pooja chose to cheat him. (As of now). Reasons or no reasons.
And regarding Aditya's outbursts on Zoya , I agree they are overboard but I don't really blame him. Aditya is in so much pain that he is brutally failing to demarcate between right and wrong. Why are we even comparing Zoya and Aditya. Both of them have had difrdiffe upbringings. Zoya had a family while growing up. A family who understood her and on other hand , Aditya is and has always been an emotional wreck .Pooja was his only family . You grow mature in your growing up years. Zoya sure lost her husband , but back in home , there are people where she can atleast cry her heart out. But ADI unfortunately thinks he doesn't really have anyone anymore..
Zoya's reaction on her husband's death is that of any normal wife. But Aditya's loss is impeccable. He lost his best friend , his wife , and his whole belief system has crumbled down.
Any views?
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