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Posted: 11 years ago
#11
Without knowing abot islam stop making post in a public forum...islam do gives women to initiate divorce...entire procedure shown in this show is wrong..
N mind ur words it will not take much tym to talk abt ur relegion...but v want peace...

Before posting go n make a proper research...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: aska123

Oh really every thing is so simple.

I do not think so.

Why a Man has right to give divorce? A women can not divorce his husband?

In other community it take time to get divorce, it is not given immediately or in 3 months.

Even a court allow 6 month period for settlement.

Zain alone is not responsible for everything. WHy Aliya has not told him that it was her parents fault.

She spent a night with Zain before 3rd divorce. She had enough time, complete night to explain.

Yes what ever I am watching , I am describing.


Whatever you are watching is a fictional show and you shouldn't be believing that any show would ever portray religious beliefs, laws, views correctly. Instead of coming here and accusing a religion you should have done some research.
You should understand that the writers are nor trying to follow the religion correctly but are bending rules to suit their story.
Every Muslim understands what it means to say the words Talaaq, so the problem isn't in Islam but in the person who says those words.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: aska123

Oh really every thing is so simple.

I do not think so.

Why a Man has right to give divorce? A women can not divorce his husband?

Actually, that's the beaury of Islam, even women has that right, a divorce that the woman gives is called khula

In other community it take time to get divorce, it is not given immediately or in 3 months.

Saying talaaq should be the last option, one should and needs to try the other medhods of saving the marriage first. There is a whole list of things one should do to save the marriage. In fact, if the couple can't resolve the matter on their own, rhey should involve family, again there is a whole protocol as to how to do it. But if divorce seems to be the only option, then 3 konths is a lng enough time, and that is only for one talaaq, 3 talaaqs = a total of 9 months, but why would anyone take his wife back just to divorce her again. Moreover, why would that woman go back to that man?!

Even a court allow 6 month period for settlement.

Zain alone is not responsible for everything. WHy Aliya has not told him that it was her parents fault.

Well, rhat's about the show, not Islam!

She spent a night with Zain before 3rd divorce. She had enough time, complete night to explain.

Again about the show

Yes what ever I am watching , I am describing.

We're watching the same, but u need to know that u can't learn about a religion feom a tv show! I don't watch hindu shows, and say why women have to wear white saaree's their whole life after their husband dies, or why they can't remarry, or why this, why that! I don't even know how much true that is, or if it's even true, i haven't done any research on that subject, so i don't have a right to point fingers! And even if I did, Islam doesn't allow me to mock others beliefs, and other religions, the most important thing is humanity!


I don't intend to disrespect anyone, or anything, and especially not any religion
Edited by neenzz - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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One thing I don't understand is that how this show can totally try to go against Islamic laws, Islam isn't complicated the way this story has progressed has made people think that this law is complicated. This law is present for the protection of the woman and her self respect. The CVs don't know what they're doing.

The last I remember there was an article on Aliya and Zain's divorce way back when Rehaan's character was introduced and also that Aliya would marry Rehaan. So the CVs had like more than about 3 months to plan out the way the divorce should take place and an "Unintentional Halalah" could have happened which would be according to Islamic law. Rather than completely ruining not only Zain and Aliya's characters but also Aliya's parents. If someone asks I can give you like more than 3 stories on how a Halalah could have happened without going against Islam.

And you are saying that 3 months is not sufficient, I remember that Aliya begged Zain at all occasions of her innocence where did the "BEINTEHAA MOHABBAT' go then but he didn't listen to her. In his anger he didn't let his own phuppi and Usman's only sister and Usman's beloved bhanji to even see Usman's face at the funeral. And then threw water on her face when she was sitting OUTSIDE the house reading Quran for her uncle. And then he insulted her at the office by giving 2nd talaq and didn't care when his mom was stuffing her mouth with cake. And for the 3rd talaq she begged him not to give divorce but he did and on top of that he insulted her by agreeing to marry that Sehar girl ON THE SAME DAY WHEN HE GAVE TALAQ TO ALIYA.

Tell me how much time did he really need for him to realize he was doing something wrong. What kind of girl forgets all these kinds of insults even though she loves a guy crazily.

And lastly I think all of you are forgetting, that zain took on all this MAJNOO AVTAR after he listened to Nafisa's confession. Do you think he would have come after Aliya if he didn't know the truth? NO he would have married that Sehar.

Yes it's a fictional story but when they based it on muslims, they should have shown all the characters in a good way. I'm not saying that there is no one in this world ho does Halalah intentionally, there are people who do so but that is a sin. And Aliya and Zain are the main leads and they are taken as role models and they should b doing the right thing.

Even Rehaan doing the Halalah and guaranteeing to divorce her is a sin, and such a nikah isn't valid.

Again the actual Islamic law isn't complicated and it's there for a reason, the way they're showing it is is in the worst way which is truly disappointing.
Edited by zunara_ali - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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wow i m amazed to see fierce reaction frm all on as if TM has abused islam.she blurted only her ignorance u ppl started insulting her.abt hindu religion all ppl r allowed to criticize.even many hindu authors hv written against hindu practices &god.many insult hindu gods on social sites.i agree many hindu practises were evil bt later changed& reformed &still in refome stage.also veda,upnishad,basic scriptures r gender neutral. regressive practices wer cause of manu smiriti(rules framed by ancient ruler)
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Posted: 11 years ago
#16
my reason for making above post dat dont insult any1 just coz he or she raised few questions abt islam.u ppl can make her understand properly without bashing.just coz she is ignorant &make this post that does nt mean she is guilty or committed a huge crime.any religion & god does nt need any1 liking or disliking.who believe will believe till death who doesnt that too till death.if any1 doesnt know properly about other religion that does nt mean he or she is doubting to insult it.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: imdevil

wow i m amazed to see fierce reaction frm all on as if TM has abused islam.she blurted only her ignorance u ppl started insulting her.abt hindu religion all ppl r allowed to criticize.even many hindu authors hv written against hindu practices &god.many insult hindu gods on social sites.i agree many hindu practises were evil bt later changed& reformed &still in refome stage.also veda,upnishad,basic scriptures r gender neutral. regressive practices wer cause of manu smiriti(rules framed by ancient ruler)


if u r referring to my post, then I already wrote that I am not fimiliar with the actual stuff, but that doesn't mean I think whatever they show on tv is true, and what i wrote about the white saaree and stuff, that was only for reference.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: imdevil

I agree many hindu practises were evil bt later changed& reformed &still in refome stage.also veda,upnishad,basic scriptures r gender neutral. regressive practices wer cause of manu smiriti(rules framed by ancient ruler)


Again, I don't know much about Hinduism, but wouldn't that be changing the religion, bending it to fit one's lifestyle and/desires?
Please don't take any offense, I am just asking for information.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Again, I don't know much about Hinduism, but wouldn't that be changing the religion, bending it to fit one's lifestyle and/desires?
Please don't take any offense, I am just asking for information.

no coz all wrong practices r framed by few ancient men & changing social structure as nt written in our basic religious scriptures as they r gender neutral like ved, upnisahad,gita which we consider as god books.also reforming means getting rid of all those practices which r nw inhuman &cause pain to others.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@neenzz whatever regressive practices in hindu society it is coz of smirities written by ancient ruler & thinkers.many other evil things r coz of male dominated mentality.for example if any1 analyse hindu marriage vows &mantras,1 can easily find equality of husband &wife is obvious.even boy is asked for more vows than girl as he has to b more responsible.its his duty to respect wife &keep happy.bt male dominated mentality avoid this.today women reforms r based on religion only as it voice gender neutrality

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