Originally posted by: pinkeye
Surbhi dear firat of all, calm down. A big hug to you dear. So glad that you made a post after so many days.
Payal hugsss tightly...so good to see you ...🤗❤️...yup writing after so many days ...training and studies kept me too busy . My timings are too tough...subah 6.00 a.m nikalkar raat ko 8.00 baje ghar wapas aati hoon...its more than 12 hours yaar...bahut thak jaati hoon phir . Isiliye nahi aa paati .
I am just copy pasting what I wrote In gagan post as episode review.
feel bad for both the people and do not blame any of them.
Main individually dono ko kahi na kahi blame karti hoon . At circumstances , they both have reacted very immaturely . Aaliya dancing with zubu in a party which belogs to zain friend ...wasn't she supposed to be with zain ???. Zain's chod diya as if marriage is a game .The manhandling part , i thought zain was different .
Aaliya is still clueless what is being conspired around her Zain is getting misled and instigated.
Now this is what i am not getting ...why she is clueless ????Ab toh zain ne muh par keh hi diya na ...why didn't she understood what he was upset about...wasn't it an instant click...i wanted her to fight back . Leaving is no solution . About being clueless that he loves her or not ...is something i can relate too . Her dialogues in her and zubu talk were very nicely written . Both of them wanted to tell the true feelings they had and it all got so wrong thanks to confusing circumstances. Both of them do not deserve the pain they are in. Both are going through such emotional turmoil and hurting each other.
Yup...they wanted ...both love each other , though i feel love bahut jaldi aa gaya ...i wanted friendship to continue ...but as BI is always fast paced ...they kind of rushed into love ...
i agree neither of them deserved to be in the pain they are in ...and circumstances just went wrong ...but they are themselves also not letting their hearts speak .They are not understanding their own actions .
I will not defend or attack Zain today for what he did. This is him. You push him to the wall, he gets back at you with all bitterness and hatred. He cannot hold his pent up emotions and soak or absorb the pain. Lashing out is a kind of catharsis for him I suppose. Exact thing he did when walima tamasha happened.
I know he does that...but the way he pulled her hair today...he never did it before ...that much of pain ...no that was not the real zain for me . I know and was expecting him to say harsh words ...but no manhandling please ..At walima time he didn't love her...today he does . Nothing changed kya ??????...how can you give physical pain to someone you love and in walima also he didn't give physical pain . He had spoken from mouth...aaj woh agar usse baaton se hurt karta toh main kehti ki circumstances ne kiya ...and all...but manhandling did spoiled the scene for me . She was crying ...her shouts asking him to leave ...dhakka dena pad raha tha usse ...
Having said that, I will say manhandling your wife, talking rubbish and hurting her physically to show your frustration and put your point through is a sign of an weak man And i agree...completely agree ...and I do not wish to see that trait in Zain. Same here ..that hurts ...Hope he has the strength to man up to sort out his feelings as no one is going to do that for him.Exactly Hope he gets back real senses and brain soon to solve the illusional scrabble he is making in his head.I agree ...and this is BI ...we can expect the hero to run his brains here atleast .
to the makers, if possible please cut these manhandling scenes of male lead in the name of intensity,Yup...else i will be forced to leave the show ..i just cant bear such scenes .... as a woman It irks me as I find it disgusting.Same here , i want to throw the remote on tv and break the tv while watching such scenes .... No woman should be subjected to that no matter what and should not tolerate too. Try to eliminate that please.I completely agree ...
Aaliya and her dialogues were very aptly written. I agree ,..i said this before as well. But her dancing with zubu in a party of zain friend was not done for me . .Her insecurities and uncertainty regarding Zain needs to be get secured By Zain only.Exactly only he can do that . Moreover she needs to get it clear from him that is he serious about the marriage or not. Aise dil pe rakhne se problems aur badenge.I agree . I wished she could have taken Usman advice seriously that in love, its the journey matters at times, not the outcome. Agree She has sacrificed a lot and worked on her marriage and she needs to sail through the crisis moment too as it is only her who can make Zain realise that its a nikaah, a life long bomd which needs to be treasured.I am with you ...completely agreee ...she needs to do this ...
In short, both needs to make each other understand that its their companionship only and no third force can ruin that and eradicate the insecurities they have right now. So please dono kaam pe lag jao.Exactly...das logo ki baatein na sunkar , apne dil ki suno...koi teesra in cheejo ko solve nahi kar sakta . So don't expect help from outside even .
I did not find Zubair irritating today as he talked sense.
He talked sense when he talked with aaliya about relation that its different but not in starting ..that was odd . I was mad when he was continuously saying that dance with your hubby and was himself dancing with her .Us dance ne hi zain ko aur gussa dilaya and barkat too aag laga hi rahi thi . Agar woh convince karne ka tarika toh , toh convince khade rehkar bhi kiya ja sakta hain and i don't like the way he is forcing her to confess ki help karoonga ...tum dono ke liye mujhe i love you bolna padega ...are usse apne dil ki baat kehni hain ...usse kehni hain jisse woh pyaar karti hain...so why zubu help is needed ?...tum un dono ko saath kar sakte ho...ek dooje ko samajhne ka mauka de sakte ho...par kahenge woh khud jab woh kehna chahenge ...and kehna bhi tabhi chahiye i feel...Yeh alag baat hai ke drama create karne ke liye aise ghatiya timings tha aluu zubbu scenes ka
.Exactly But what he said made sense to me.
Some things did , somethings didn't for me . He is unknowingly messing up things for his cousin
.Exactly..... May be he needs to understand that its always only about two people in a relationship who works for it and no one else can push things for them. It only complicates the matter in the long run.
Wahi toh...thats what i am trying to say . He cannot push them . He needs to back off a little .
Lastly, Barkat - shoot her someone. I just cant stnd her fr a nanosecond.
same here ...i thought she was falling for zubu but no the girl wants to use zubu to create differences between zain and aaliya . If she is actually real barkat ...soacho woh kaise jiyegi yeh jaankar ki usne apne sage bhai ke saath yeh sab kiya . Dimple is a cameo or not...i still don't know...any confirmation on that ?
For beintehaa and its detoraiting quality I have ranted enough in past two weeks and finally took a resolution that NO EXPECTATIONS at all. Jo hona hai hone do.
So tum bhi shant ho jao aur keep watching as long as you can bear. Nahin toh alvida.
i know ...i have read all your rants . And i agree with you on most of the things . Wahi hain...jab tak i can bear ..i will watch keeping an hope in my heart that it will be back to its real quality...the essence will be revived ...the day the limits will be completely crossed and i will not be able to bear more . Alvida will be an only option . But that will be hurting...this show was like a breath of fresh air ...hope farhan sir just bring the quality back .And never a situation comes that i have to leave this show .
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