Vidya made a huge sacrifice too....

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Posted: 18 years ago
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What the heck, why is Vidya taking this from sagar, i mean seriously does he think it was easy for Vidya to get married to a grown man who thinks he's 8 years old?

You can at least teach an illiterate person to read and write, but when SV got married there was no gaurantee that Sagar was going to get better. What about that?

Did Saagar never think about that. Also Sagar's mom said that they found out at the night of the marriage that she was illiterate, not they didnt', they found out a couple of days before. Vidya found out about Sagar's mental condition in the 'mandap' why doesn't anyone tell him that?

Why is Vidya always suffering?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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You're completely right! Vidya doesn't need to take any of this...

I can somehow understand Sagar...it's not justified, but I can still understand it. Maybe I'm biased 😳But you're right...why does he only see his side of the coin..why not try to think of how Vidya must have felt? Maybe he doesn't want to think about those two years when he was mentally ill...this could be why he doesn't even want to acknowledge what Vidya's going through...

But Maaji? Who told her to open her mouth anyway? She doesn't know when to talk and what to say EVER How selfish is she? always her son her son her son...what about Vidya? Poor girl, she thinks she got married into such a wonderful family...and this is what she gets 😕
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Posted: 18 years ago
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yes! JUSTICE FOR VIDYA ummm NOWWW
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Posted: 18 years ago
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werd puttar!
JAI VIDYA DI!
JAI VIDYA DI!!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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yeah u r totally right.....infact u have said everything that is going around in my head.....vidya said yes to the marriage with sagar when she is having her pheras with him....at that time sagar was not a perfect match for her but still she took that decision....now vidya need sagar support but what he is doing to her.....not accepting her and thinking k vidya is not a suitable match for him....some one go and telll this to sagar that one day vidya was in his position...and she happily accept him as her life patner without having any doubts........and sagar is crying instead of dealing with the situation
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Posted: 18 years ago
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That's very true. That's also exactly what I was thinking. It was a huge sacrafice she made. Someone illiterate can always learn, and change themselves, but Vidya didn't know if she would be spending th rest of her life with someone mad. And she lived with him so happily. Sagar as a grown person should realise that. I'm fed up of how nobody sits down and explains the whole story to him. Then, he would realise. You're right she found out on the mandap that he's mad. It's so terrible how she has to suffer like this so much. Even if he starts loving her again, he already caused her so much pain.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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sooo true!
why dosen sagr realize that!
goshness!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Absouletly True! Sagar should realize that.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: sania_12

Absouletly True! Sagar should realize that.

absolutely. Sagar should realize that Vidya did everything 4 him she even learned how to write his name just 4 him.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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i agree with all of you 100%. vidya has already suffered waay too much just to be with her love and i think her sufferings are going to get even worse from now on.

she truly deserves someone better. my opinion so don't jump on me.😆😆

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