Naive or Foolish?

okay so i have been patient for veryyyyyyyyyyyyy long n now i JUST CANT TAKE IT anymore😆 so i would like to share my opinions with u....n ask for your opinions as well

what exactly is a good human being? does a good human being ALWAYS have to be naive? does a good human being always has to endure emense hardships and their loved ones.

i like vidya and its okay tht she is naive...but right now...she is being naive to the point of being extremely foolish ansd that is really annoying. i mean okay so she is illeterate but tht doesnt mean tht she has to have NO BRAINS. i mean cant she say through all this farce of surili...n even if she cant see surili's game....even if she has accepted saagar's kid....y is she letting HER HUSBAND drift away from her....y doesnt she take a stand n make sameer sleep with any other person....is the kid (who is not herz, whom her husband is accepting n whoz mom is still in the house to take of him) more imp to her or saagar....sometimes i just feel like SHAKINGGG her up n making her come back to life...

the writers really need to put some life and practical sense in vidya coz being GOOD and a protagonist doesnt mean tht u have to be FOOLISH....y does everyone else i.e: chinu, aniket have to come to save her every time....y dont they make her CAPABLE enough to stand up for herself. if she is shown to be an ideal indian women n wife then i think an ideal indian wife wouldnt let their husband drift away from them like this....they would do anything to save their husbandddd from evil eyes (🐷surili)

okay so it got a little long...but i feel much better now....what do u guyz think about this????

I totally agree.

I really don't understand why the writers are making her SO innocent. Its usual for the female protaganist to be good and naive but its not healthy for anyone to be THIS innocent!! We know her heart is in the right place but why doesn't she think that if her husband isn't by her side, whats the point of taking care of his child? Just doesn't make sense.

The writers need to stop making a fool out of Vidya's character because I genuinely adore her but acts like this make me really frustrated.

BTW- Love your siggy! 😳

Absouluty agree with you wonderful topic 👏

I know what you mean vidya has way crossed the line between being nieve i think she is in the foolish range. If sagar hasn't excepted the child why is going out of her way to please the child. If sagar really doesn't like him so why is she always with the kid. I just don't get it. She has to stand up and not rely on other people. I mean can't she see that her husband doesn't want to sleep with her in the same room because of the kid. I think there is an obivous hint that she needs to do something. I am just really annoyed by this whole thing 😡 .

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

I totally agree.

I really don't understand why the writers are making her SO innocent. Its usual for the female protaganist to be good and naive but its not healthy for anyone to be THIS innocent!! We know her heart is in the right place but why doesn't she think that if her husband isn't by her side, whats the point of taking care of his child? Just doesn't make sense.

The writers need to stop making a fool out of Vidya's character because I genuinely adore her but acts like this make me really frustrated.

BTW- Love your siggy! 😳

exactly.....what is she gonna do with the kid if she looses her husband??

n thnx for liking my siggi😳...nabihah did all the effects on it😊 btw r u serious...sharad n divya r an offscreen couple as well😲😳

LOl well you read the article and decide for urself. 😉 I think its pretty much confirmed. If you search for either "Sharad" or "Divya", you'll see an article posted by me.

Oh my, wonderful topic! how many topics do we have now about this whole vidya too nice surili is a female-dog and so on???

I really wish the zee writers will see these forums and take the hint that we will seriously boycott the show if there's no change soon!!!

But i totally agree with you. Vidya is gonna lose everything if she doesn't wake up!

--Gaurie--


PS... in reemz lil video siggy, i heart when sagar is all grown up like,,,, sooo hot!!

I'm glad you got that off your chest. 😆 😆
Unfortunately, the writers of these serials want all the leads to be dummies and let themselves get walked all over. So no amount of shaking is going to help Vidya. She married a nut, she confessed to murder and now she is raising her husband's supposed "love child" while the other woman lives right there in the house. 😡 😡
A house would have to fall on this girl for her to wake up. And even then she would believe it was an accident if Sindoora told her it was.

Originally posted by: reniji66

I'm glad you got that off your chest. 😆 😆
Unfortunately, the writers of these serials want all the leads to be dummies and let themselves get walked all over. So no amount of shaking is going to help Vidya. She married a nut, she confessed to murder and now she is raising her husband's supposed "love child" while the other woman lives right there in the house. 😡 😡
A house would have to fall on this girl for her to wake up. And even then she would believe it was an accident if Sindoora told her it was.

Completly agree wid u. they make all da female leads so naive, gullible and above all a pushover. They do everything to make der hubbys happy, der families happy even if dey have 2 sacrifice der own pride n dignity. nd wen do dey take revenge nd stand up for themselves after 30 years wen dey r grand parents and everything that happened to dem is yersterday's news even then dey r sooo emotional nd say dat dey dont deserve it. These saas- bahu darams are sooo predictable now. one can tell da how the story will go in da near future.

Originally posted by: harry_fan2

Completly agree wid u. they make all da female leads so naive, gullible and above all a pushover. They do everything to make der hubbys happy, der families happy even if dey have 2 sacrifice der own pride n dignity. nd wen do dey take revenge nd stand up for themselves after 30 years wen dey r grand parents and everything that happened to dem is yersterday's news even then dey r sooo emotional nd say dat dey dont deserve it. These saas- bahu darams are sooo predictable now. one can tell da how the story will go in da near future.

tht is so true! n renji i agree with everything u said...especially the part where the house falls down n sindoora says it was an accident...i have no doubt tht vidya would believe here...gosh y cant they show tht the protagonist has a thing called BRAIN for a change!!!

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

LOl well you read the article and decide for urself. 😉 I think its pretty much confirmed. If you search for either "Sharad" or "Divya", you'll see an article posted by me.

😳😳hmmm....m gonna try to find tht article right now....btw....in ur siggi how come its shown tht saagar is all grown up...is it a clip for an epi already aired in india?