How can one be attracted?

Something has been bothering me since Vidya got married to Sagar... How come she is attracted to him? 😕 . They show this quite a bit in the episodes. I mean it is nice to watch this kind of reaction but in reality, is this a possibility? I mean would you be attracted to someone who is mentally retarded? 😕 I know I won't. But of course, I won't marry one in the first place knowing he is mentally retarded so the question of being attracted never arises. 😆.

But I would like to know if I am the only one thinking like this....... so please comment! 😊

well i really dont know abt this topic but people who have these type of minds u have to give them patience love and respect 😊

Originally posted by: rinajatin

well i really dont know abt this topic but people who have these type of minds u have to give them patience love and respect 😊

I agree with love and patience part... but that is different from physical attraction. 😊

well, way before Vidya found out that Sagaar has mental problem, she kinda of fall in love with him... remember the ocean part, where Vidya and Sagaar met for the first time.. and then the second time she saw him.. she liked him before she found out that he has problem.. she found out on her marriage day that Sagaar is mentally ill... so even knowing that fact she still did accept him as her husband...thinking that one day she will cure him..
so it's not like she never saw him before and just got married to a mentally ill person... she was inlove with this person before she found out he was crazy...

I agree with Deewanee, Vidya was already attracted to Saagar before they got married.

Originally posted by: shilpa_jp

I agree with Deewanee, Vidya was already attracted to Saagar before they got married.

True! I guess I can stop being bothered now! 😆Thanks for the enlightment! I forgot about those episodes! 😊

he's not so much retarded, he just regressed to childhood. And it's very strange to be attracted to someone who has the mind of like a 10 year old. It's incomprehendable to me. 🤢

I think that Vidya is attracted to the idea of what he was before the accident, and before he became retarded, which is what she saw the first time she met him.

So, I can see why she is attracted to him--in her eyes, there is still a glimmer of hope that he is her knight in shining armor.

Had he been retarded and she had known from the very beginning, I don't think this would've been the case. Then it would've been like koshish, where Kajal was completely disgusted, and found him to be a little boy!

well i think you got to have a big pure heart to be able to marry some one like sagar i no i couldnt i would want a husband not a child and i would get so frustrated with him

i agree with the members,these opinions are really gud 😊